I have been with my boyfriend for over a month and we have started to become intimate. We havn't had sex as we are waiting for the perfect moment / opportunity (he is a virgin, I have had sex but about 6 months ago). He is amazing in bed eventhough I am his first but I can never manage to get him to come by hand job or oral sex and I feel inadequate for him. It feels like he always gives and I can't give him anything in return. I have managed to make my first few boyfriends come but not my last boyfriend or my current boyfriend. Whats wrong with me?
2007-12-03 05:01:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend could be a little nervous or self concious. It happened to me when I was with my first girlfriend. I am sure that overtime he will climax.
2007-12-03 05:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by frogskin13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm
2007-12-03 13:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's nervous. That's it. He just wants to make sure you are happy. OR.....he just got him at a bad time. Maybe he just got done doing his thing before and isn't in the mood. Most likely, because you said he is new to this, he is just nervous. Another thing might be your not doing it to his liking. Ask him what his fantasies are and what turns him on.....
2007-12-03 13:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tony M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a big deal, you can't feel what hes feeling so it is hard to figure out exactly what to do. My girlfriend watched videos and read on-line for tips, and after a while she became quite good at it.
2007-12-03 13:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by bo75007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, nothing. Ask him how he wants/needs to be touched. Also, he needs to be relaxed, sometimes the mind is horrible and if he is thinking of things other than his pleasure, that could stop him from having an orgasm.
2007-12-03 13:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have mental blocks that keep them from doing it. It is a problem more common to women but some men do it too. It is something he will have to work out for himself as it comes from something inside him.
2007-12-03 13:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothign wrong with you all men are different. HE is new to the game maybe you should ask him what it is that makes him feel good or find other ways to please him.
2007-12-03 13:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are different, give him time, he may turn into what ever you wish !!!yes in time ?
2007-12-03 13:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he's able to do it himself and whether or not he has trouble. If he can and doesn't have trouble alone - ask him what you could do better.
2007-12-03 13:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dep. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not sound ready for this. So back off of him
2007-12-03 13:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋