Does the fact that shes aging affect how attracted to her you are or kill the desire to have sex with her? Im not saying she has to be 50 or 60 but just lets say 30's or 40's & shes not what she used to be.
2007-12-03 05:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im not married & im only 29, im just curious, relax hilary.
2007-12-03 06:03:24 · update #1
Wow.. that's a brave question to ask on here my friend.. Plan to get A lot of responses....
I think the attraction can be lost in BOTH directions, not just via the MEN... Woman can also not feel attracted to their husbands either because men ALSO grow old...
Woman age gracefully, and we are ALL beautiful no matter how old we are....
2007-12-03 06:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Can't stand this 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman so I can't speak from personal experience, but I know that every time I have something about my body to complain about my boyfriend reminds me that he's with ME, not just a certain part (or parts) of my physical anatomy. Even with his ex-wife, who childbirth was not exactly kind to, he still says that before the divorce when she became a complete witch he was always with HER so he didn't notice what having kids did to her until after they split up.
I think if you're with someone - married, dating, whatever - for the RIGHT reasons you don't notice the physical changes as much as you otherwise might.
2007-12-03 17:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by QT_Pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who Cares? It happens to everyone, people age and change over time what is the big deal really? Show me any 60 year old man or woman who has the same body they had when they were 16? It just doesn't happen, peoples bodies change over time , that is just reality i am sorry to say, it is so shameful to spend so much time worrying about the inevitable.
2007-12-03 13:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So you think she's aging, and you're not?
You probably aren't what you used to be either.
Say you were to trade her in for a newer model. That woman will age, too. You leave her for a younger woman, and the pattern goes on and on. Has it occurred to you that eventually, you'll be a 75-year-old man trying to get with 25-year-old women. How pathetic is that???
2007-12-03 13:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all!!!
We have been married for over 20 years and she has given me two great kids. She worksTwo full time jobs (one at work and one taking care of the house, me and the kids). I always find her attractive and has never killed my sex drive.
2007-12-03 13:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Dad 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married over 20yrs and my wife still primps
herself so that she is as sexy as she was
when I first knew her. Yes she has gained a
little more weight, but so have I , but a weight
gain of only 8lbs since we've been married is
nothing and she is petite and sweet and
loveable and always is there for me.
2007-12-03 21:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife can only be as sexy as you make her feel. she doesn't have to be dressed up to the nines for you to snuggle up and tell her how much you want her. when she's doing the washing up, ironing or just feeling down a warm cuddle, touch and snog goes a long way to making her feel sexy.
the end result is both of you gain in the long run.
even after 24 years i find my wife WOW!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-03 14:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by michaelnangle2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your married, it's called making love. Not having sex.
You make love to the person that you adore and live your life with. Size, shape or beauty have nothing to do with it.
2007-12-03 14:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by cobblejoe 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Newsflash. Men age too.
2007-12-03 13:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hell dude look in the mirror. You aren't what you used to be either! Do you wonder if maybe she is disgusted with you?
2007-12-03 14:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by mikey_fiveoh 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋