hey friends help me out i am in big problem???????

Question

basically since this year has started i have changed but not good but bad let me tell you how first i was so into my work and education i was very hard working girl and didn't find doing work a big deal. But when i had a friend wedding i did alot of work there and she was asian therefore it went on for 2 weeks i did so much work didn't had enough sleep neither had enough food. but although me doing the most work as takling care of the visitors and cleaning the house i used to feel it everyday that no one wants me to be their as they thought i am a servant.then when it all finished i started to feel really weak then finally found out that i am diagnosed with aneamic. it hurted. the other thing is that i had a arranged marriage proposal and i agreed and got engaged but then afterwords i felt so bad as i have agreed to life time prison. But all this changed my own personality. Now i don't wanna meet people neithr want to study i just bunk and neither study i do get stress out when i don'

i want to overcome this!

Answer 1

Well as much as if i want to help you my friend, i cant understand what do you want to overcome. the fact that you diagnosed anemic or that you' ve got engaged?
If is it the first i'm gonna tell you that is not the end of the world.Many people now days are anemic but medicine has been developed so much that henceforth exists many methods and a lot of medicines to live a life without many problems.
Now if your problem is that you've got engaged i'm gonna suggest you to revision your feelings about the man you are with. Feeling that you are getting in a lifetime prison is normal. Trust me...every man and every woman before the big step are afraid for many reasons that i think you understand. But the best thing is to sit and talk with your boyfriend and tell him your phobias. But what exactly do you mean by "arranged marriage proposa" you've been forced to engage?
Thats my advices and i hope i helped.

Just stay calm think what you really want and everything will come back to you.
We Greeks say "life is a wheel that always spinning around" meaning that bad and good things will happen through your life always but we have to learn how to face them. And talk to friends about your problems or your family.They could help you.

I hope i helped! ;)

Answer 2

First, start taking iron - eat liver, spinach, and other iron-rich foods, or take an iron pill every morning, or try grapeseed capsules daily. That iwll give you more energy after a week or so because it will help the anaemia - that is what is sapping your energy.

Second, start taking at least 1/2 hour a day to look at pleasant and uplifting images, listen to up-beat music, read a funny book or magazine. That will help lift your spirits.

I don't know your circumstances regarding arranged marriages, but perhaps confiding in your mother or other family member and getting out of the arrangement due to "health issues" would be an option. You would know better than I the best way to go about alleviating this condition.

You'll find with a minimum of effort, you can get back to your old self by taking care of the problems that put you there in the first place - overwork, not enough sleep, and not enough laughter. You might find that your arranged pairing isn't as bad as you thought after your body has healed.

Answer 3

My advice is, try to say what u want to ur friends who r treating u like a slave! Get a good job- make friends, and read lots of books, and go on a holiday. If I were u I wouldn't get married as u sound stressed out- and u need 2 sort urself out. You'll feel better after having a nice week away frm wrk. Then sit down and decide wht 2 do with ur life. Hope this helps!

Answer 4

You may be depressed. You can see a doctor and he can advise you on treatment, or you can tackle some changes on your own. To deal with depression, it is helpful to make a schedule and then force yourself to stick to it. Yes, you have to force yourself...once you get started it is easier but the first steps aren't. List the times of day when you will get up, go to class, study, eat lunch, visit friends etc. Try to fill up the day so you have no chance to sit around and feel bad. Include some exercise such as an hour of walking, it often relieves depression.

Answer 5

Your disease seems to have gotten the better of you. You have been diagnosed with this disease, and forced into marriage. But you are struggling to see the potential or your future. You say you are unwanted but you are accepted in marriage. You obviously have great potential. It is this that will be hardest to see, yet once grasped you will most likely see a new light in your life! Try to get back into education. This may be hard for you, but your education is needed to brighten your future, help you in a successful career and make your life better, without this you will most likely stayed depressed for he rest of your life. You are wanted, you are respected. You should not let your current situation get you down. Look beyond it and into the future, this will help you to re-orientate yourself.

Answer 6

Anemia not anemic.

Anemia is thin blood, so eat something with iron in it and you will be okay. I have anemia, because im anorexic, side affecr of not eating right.

as far as the arranged marriage, who arranged it? if you dont want to marry the person, talk to the person that arranged it. is it a cultural thing or something your family is making you do?
If its not right for you its not right for you.

if you do go through with the marriage, maybe it will work out. maybe you will find you actually like the person.

Answer 7

Well, its about to be the start of another year- so change what you want! You control your life, and not others- you allow other to make you feel that way.
Go back to study, do what you really want to. You can break relationships, you can get new friends, you can do what you want- but its you and your health that you control- get medication for the anaemia, and some help to make yourself feel good.

A new year and a new dawn- good luck

Answer 8

Girl get up and start praying and asking JESUS for strength to make it through these times.You're a good person,and the bad elements in life fight against us.You most keep moving towards your dreams.I know you're not feeling well right now,get into a good church. Let the pastor pray for you for healing.you must believe in the power of Jesus and you can get through anything.May God Bless You!

Answer 9

let me ask you did you have lot of work or did you help? why are you calling it work? she is your friend right? and you helped her ..what made you not to eat and become anemic , don't blame them , you should take car of yourself ..I think you are old enough . and if you felt that they don't want you around did you ask yourself why? sometime people give wrong impression about themselves, and why are you still engaged just break the engagement ... you are still not married ..what keeps you from living the life that you want ...and achieve your goals...I think the problem is in you...sorry but I think you need attention and you always blame others about your decisions...

try to be yourself and love yourself ..put some aims in front of you and head towards it

Answer 10

Aneamia can be overcome soon.What you have to do is ....open up.....free yourself from the bondage of seclusion of sort.There's no reason to feel that you are unwanted or insignificant or good for nothing.Why do you entertain negative thoughts to dominate your mind/personality.Just ifnore ..who said what.Be your own self .Improve your health as early as possible.after all , body is the temple of the soul.The personbality of anyone will get affected if one neglects one's health.Be more positive in your thoughts and dom the good thinfs were doing all these years.

God Bless