I've been seeing a guy for a little over 3 months, I have totally fallen for him despite trying my best not to! And I know in reality he feels the same, but won't admit it.
Well ended up last week with me saying I am happy to not call us gf/bf, see him a lot or involve my self in his life but I do want it to be just me and him.
And he doesn't like this idea, doesn't want to loose the possibility of seeing anyone else. Am going to see him sometime later this week and will stand strong.
I don't want to loose him but I know from the way I feel if it doesn't become exclusive he's not giving me what I want, or what I want to give to the potential of 'us', so as much as it hurts walking away is how it must be.
What do you think on exclusivity/vs multiple dating?
2007-12-03 03:17:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever the type of relationship, there needs to be honesty. If you are dating multiple, you need to be honest with the people you date that they are not the only one. And in order for there to be an exclusive relationship, both parties must want it. In other words, if you want an exclusive relationship, but he doesn't, you have to decide if you are ok with him dating other girls. If you're not, you already know what you have to do.
2007-12-03 03:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also the sort that likes things to be exclusive. I refuse to date anyone that won't agree to things being exclusive after seeing each other for a couple of weeks. Since I will not get intimate with a guy if we are not exclusive clearly it is in his best interest. If he's not ready after a couple of weeks to agree not to see other people there is NO way I'm going to continue seeing him. His loss not mine.
2007-12-03 03:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋