I bought her a GPS divice for Christmas. Is this what she meant? I am trying to give her more lattitude in the relationship, but by degrees. I trust her moral compass. We just need to map out a plan.
2007-12-03 04:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
device, not divice. I wish we could edit our questions.
2007-12-03 04:16:27 · update #1
latitude not lattitude. I have forgotten how to spell.
2007-12-03 04:24:16 · update #2
I wish there was a spell checker, but there isn't. I know how to spell. I just get lazy and in a hurry.
2007-12-03 04:27:32 · update #3
Robert, Take her clothes, take her cell phone. Drive her to the nearest state forest and have her flown in and air dropped.
If she comes back she's yours. If she doesn't she never was
Or at least tell that to the police.
2007-12-03 08:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Marla ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh, it's understandable. On this long road we call life, some women have not had a crash course on how to stay on the right track. Most women at this age will seem to feel that they have made a wrong turn somewhere down the line, and think that their journey up until now has been a dead-end road with an accident waiting to happen.
But "stay the course," my friend, because the GPS system you gave her was a step in the right direction. She may have temporarily gone off course, but I'm sure this gift will steer her back into your life, making you the designated driver of your marriage again.
Oh, and as long as she doesn't get lost in a Bermuda Love Triangle while she is out finding herself, then you can be rest assured that you are driving your marriage and your marriage is not driving you.
2007-12-03 13:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 15 years and my wife said the same thing to me a month ago. She has moved out. We both married young. The best advice I can give you, let her sort it out, not sure why she feels they ways she does, they have to figure it for themeselves. At this time I am just taking the time to myself and keeping myself busy with work, chruch, working out the gym, and doing things that keep me happy. So I am not dwelling on the issue. I realize I cannot the change the way she feels, she has to change that for herself and it is up to God to what happens. Just stay strong, you will be okay, it is not you, it is the way she is feeling.
2007-12-03 05:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thought is I don't believe she meant a GPS. You may be smothering her as it is. Nor does it sound as tho you actually trust her. Please give her some unquestioning breathing room.
As for reviewing one's question, there is a 'preview' screen, and spelling errors are usually underlined in red.
Also see 'check spelling' above the typing box on the right side.
2007-12-03 04:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As previously mentioned, if you married young then of course she doesn't know who she is. When we marry young we're marrying someone who is still growing at a rapid pace. If you married at 20 and you've been married for 20 years then half of her life has been constrained to marriage. I don't mean to put marriage in a bad light but it does make both sides conform. She doesn't know who she is because she hasn't had the chance to find herself. Let her chose her path and then walk beside her down it.
2007-12-03 04:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by John Avry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her a loaf of bread and tell her if her compass breaks down, leave bread crumbs to find her way around. And stay away from gingerbread houses, bad things happen to people who are lured into those type of houses.
2007-12-03 04:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife of ten also needed to "find herself". The reality is she is trying to gently let you down and hurt you as little as possible as she ends the relationship.
I'll bet you $100 she is having an affair.
2007-12-03 04:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she feels that way, that means she is missing something, not the brain though. Just don't panic, don't look for things that aren't there. Give her some space and time, recreate the time when you fell in love with each other.
2007-12-03 04:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Miss De Vill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, that's exactly what she meant--she needs a gps device to find herself.
perhaps another good gift idea for her is a compass.. so she will have her moral compass
good job, buddy!
2007-12-03 04:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by R. Guetive 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The GPS thing and finding herself have me thinking this is a blond joke with the blond...
2007-12-03 04:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by FlyingScooter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋