I really get off on controlling everything in the relationship and my BF has willingly submitted to me. He cooks, cleans and pleases me in most every way. I love it and him. However I feel that I need a real man sexually. Last weekend I joked about sleeping with another man. His eyes were down cast but he didn't reject the idea. He is a little small in that depatment and I just need to satisfy my needs. However I don't want to lose what I have. How should I test him limits/train him to accept my desires?
2007-12-03 04:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by Cynthia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok first off I think you're a *****. And if you love him, you shouldn't be thinking of having sex with another guy, that's totally disrespectful of your bf and you don't deserve him. But none the less I will give you some advice. Don't find sex some where else. You're in a relationship and your bf sounds like he likes pleasing you,so tell him what you like or what you'd like. Tell him your desires. Don't test his limits or try and train him, he's not a dog
2007-12-03 04:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy W 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your emotions are mixed up. If you 'love it and him' as you say you do, you wouldn 't be looking for someone else in the bedroom department. What does it matter? If your feelings as really as strong for him as you say they are, what's the problem? Besides, what if you get a guy that is 'large' in that department, but you find out that he is 'no good' or that he will 'dog you out'? You can't have both at one time. It just won't work. When you do it, you're gonna lose your good man all because he is small in that department. Don't take chances like that.
2007-12-03 04:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by WonderGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, that trips me out. I've been with guys who were so eager to please that they let me control them and walk all over them. Which I was willing to do, for a short while, but then I'd turn around and tell them to stop being a p***y, and to grow a spine cuz I need a real man. Besides, if you loved him like you say you do, why would you want to demean him? That's not love, that's a power trip. So, you've stumped me on that question. Just wanted to comment.
2007-12-03 04:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Marshmallow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably means taking control of what you two do together, maybe giving him a playful punch, being a bit rough. He probably wants you to put your hands on him forcefully and more often because he likes getting rough. I like girls who are sort of dominant and rough as well, and who take control, make the decisions, do what they want and be protective.
2016-03-15 05:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how unbelievably selfish you are is amazing to me...You need to sit back and be thankful for the man you have. Obviously you need to grow up because there is no one that will put up with that behavior for long. If you don't get your self in check you are going to be one lonely woman.
2007-12-03 04:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a mean, f***** up b**** and if I was in his position the next time you came home you would find me in the kitchen cooking it up with another girl, bent over the counter and loving every inch of it!! Good luck with your screwed up sordid self!
2007-12-03 05:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by journeysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just like my EX's ...... you sound like you were made out of the same broken mold .......
I suppose the only good thing about you is out of all the women on this site you are the only one to admit and show your true colours ..... Be proud that you are a Bit*ch ....
I hope he leaves you and you find true happiness in the arms of the bast*ard you so rightly deserve ....
2007-12-03 04:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what r u? take a look, a guy is doing everything possible for you and still u want another guy. Shame on u. Leave him if u r not into him. he doesnot deserve u. u greedy Bit*h
2007-12-03 04:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Niel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to these haters. Love who you are and your bf will as well. Just stay faithful to him if you can and you will have an even more faithful slave...for life!
2015-04-18 01:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jared D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are, AMAZINGLY selfish and greedy. And if I were your boyfriend I would be pissed and find a way to turn the tables. Then after I do I would leave you.
And you would cry.
2007-12-03 04:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by jackhighbluff 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋