we have been dating three months
2007-12-03 04:55:23 · 19 answers · asked by Dan G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as a woman i dont think its respectful to my man
but my husband thinks that its ok as long as i bring home the tape lol
2007-12-03 05:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
By girlfriend do you mean friend or do you mean another sexual partner? If so, NO.
If girlfriend to you means a female friend she needs friends as I am sure you have guy friends.
And loose the allow thing you are a few thousand years behind and if you don't wise up you will be ALLOWED to be alone!
2007-12-03 13:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by litl m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ok with her being physically intimate with another chick, then it's all good. Just consider one thing. This other girl might be jealous of you and immature. She could try to turn your girl against you (or all men) in order to keep your girl for herself. Make sure nothing like that is happening. That's the last thing you want.
2007-12-03 13:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, a relationship is not supposed to consist of more than two individuals unless it is just a double date or something. But no one is allowed to have both a bf or gf or two gf's or two bf's or anything of that sort. Bi people annoy me that claim they can have both a bf and gf, they aren't allowed to and are idiots for thinking that. If your girlfriend insists on having her girlfriend while going out with you, then you should just break up with her because she is not being fair to you at all.
2007-12-03 12:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Zick1234 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have any plans for a serious relationship with her then it is something you are going to have to broach. If she is bisexual and is active and comfortable in both aspects of her sexual life then you have to ask yourself can you live with that even through marriage. If you can then more power to you. If you can't then it is best to move on now. She isn't going to change who she is and if you try to make her stop then that will only make her want it more. Good luck.
2007-12-03 13:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean as another partner on the side. No thats cheating. I mean thats not cool unless you are open to swinging and you are seeing the other girl too. That doesnt work for most couples. They end up breaking up.
2007-12-03 13:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by luvcaramel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allow...did you actually write the word allow?
You do not OWN her.
Allow?
With an attitude like that, you won't have her for much longer.
If by girlfriend, you mean the word lesbian, don't even bother with her. Find someone different.
2007-12-03 13:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jed 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is your girlfriend bi-sexual? If so and you don't have a totally committed relationship it's okay. Otherwise she'd be cheating on each of you. Could spice things up though. LOL
2007-12-03 13:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are secure enough in your relationship go for it. My wife has a male fun buddy and wants a female. Got to love her!!
2007-12-03 13:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Johnnyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your #2 only if she is your girlfrindly if not your under the bus>
As she will work you out>
2007-12-03 13:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋