People always say I'm too quiet as if it's a bad thing but I don't think it is. I'm just not loud and attention seeking. Should I try and be more confident or stick to the way I am? Or am I paranoid?
2007-12-03 04:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by My name should go here. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing, absolutely nothing. I think calmer, quieter people are more self assured. You are you, don't let people try to change you. Only if you feel you should be more confident then do so. xx
Often the loudest people are the most insecure
2007-12-03 04:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think its good that you are not loud and attention seeking, it shows class.
But I think its good to be that way and be a confident person.
You should definitely aim to be confident, confidence seems to be everything in life - what you are capable of achieving, taking opportunities and challenges, going for what you want in life, being yourself and not shying, etc.
You look at people in life who are confident and those who are not. Confident people are in all the best jobs, they all find it easy to meet partners, they have the best social lifes. Shy people who lack confidence are usually found on the other end of the spectrum.
Be the person you like being, but if you do lack confidence you should definitely aim to be more confident!
2007-12-03 13:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Carlton J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with who you are. Just cause your not loud and attention seeking doesnt mean people dont notice you.
2007-12-03 12:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by diamondbrunette26 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay as you are. There are too many load mouthed opinionated people in this world. We need the quiet ones!
2007-12-03 12:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Spiny Norman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all.I'm quiet myself and am very happy.Can try to be more confident in certain situations(like greeting people)and see how you get on.Don't worry!
2007-12-03 13:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by big oll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head down below the parapet. If you stick it out, and your not used to it, it'll be shot off.
2007-12-03 12:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r u, if some1 dont like u to bad for them....
2007-12-03 12:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋