Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship untill I graduate next May. She came here to visit me for Thanksgiving, and tomorrow is our last full day together before she flies home Saturday. I am going to make her breakfast in bed. I was going to take her shopping, but tomorrows a bad day for that lol. So aside from breakfast in bed, what are some things I can do to make tomorrow perfect? I live in Lexington KY so theres not much I know of to do around here. I want her to have a perfect day tomorrow with me. Please give me some suggestions about what I can do aside from the breakfast in bed! Thank you! =)

2007-11-22 18:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

the thing is i have a boyfriend that goes to a different school. he's really nice, cares a lot, gets jealous easily, and funny. i really like him and we get along so well. there are times when we fight but in the end we make up. well there's this christmas dance coming up and he's not allowed to come. lately ive been noticing this other boy. there was a movie night at school, and we got along well and talked a lot. at lunch i was talking to my friends and i was considering asking the boy to be my date for the dance until i realized that i was almost cheating on my boyfriend. i really like my bf, but then this other boy i get along well with too. they're almost the same. the problem is my boyfriend is never around since we go to different schools, and i only see him during the weekend. the other boy i see all the time since we go to the same school. i like him, but i like my boyfriend the same. what should i do? should i break it off or stay with him? im so confused. help!?

2007-11-22 18:39:01 · 1 answers · asked by Hadriana E 2 in Singles & Dating

my new wife has in the past abandoned her own children twice but since the death of her husband now has custody of them.Can my ex use any of this info to limit my visits with my son?My son dislikes me & refuses to spend time with me my ex told me to leave it up to him he doesnt like my wife or her kids.My ex said shell help him not go if thats what he wants.I have a few things that could go against me &this thing with my wife.I want to make him spend time with us can I?I have blacked my daughters(shes 16) eye before,hit &kicked her but her mom doesnt stop me & my ex knows all of this.I just want my son to know who I am Im afraid hell forget me & that his mom will let him grow up to be a pansey she lets the boy play with dolls hes 6yrs old & needs to stop that! Why cant my ex just let me &my wife build our family w/o making it so hard? Spending time w/ my wifes son would be a good way to toughen up the boy so wont turn out like my exs other boys all smart & geeky

2007-11-22 18:34:09 · 4 answers · asked by William Cornelius 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I'll begin with some backround details. I was born into a Jewish religious home - and sent to an all boys school for the majority of my teenage life. I am naturally shy, so I believe putting me in an all boy school only furthered my socialization problems with girls. Now I'm a Junior in university and I am still a virgin (I know that sounds sad). The thing is I know I am not ugly and that I CAN get girls, I just don't know where to meet them, or how to socialize with them. I join some organizations but then it's weird for me to ask one of the girls "hey let's hang out, bla bla." Plus, all the girls that I know (since I was raised in a religious setting), are religious as well - and that only perpetuates my virginity problem. In high school, I went out with a girl for three years on and off, and haven't even got to third base (she was religious). I am beginning to feel completely pathetic, I am 19 years old, and still a virgin.

2007-11-22 18:30:54 · 4 answers · asked by dosahyd f 2 in Singles & Dating

I truly loved him and he ditchd me coz i dont loook beautiful and i am not able to get over it . I need to do a entire make over of myself.Pls Help!!

2007-11-22 18:30:49 · 36 answers · asked by vennila 1 in Singles & Dating

I dint mind it first and so ggot over it.now she has a bf.When earlier I used to see her straigt in eyes she used to go away.So I started to ignore her.Now after her bf she has started to crack jokes among her friends and says something as I pass and runs off.she has not said anything infront of me.I am feeling angry but at the same time I dont know what to do?

2007-11-22 18:26:26 · 2 answers · asked by rohit k 1 in Singles & Dating

I probably will be..but havent been asked yet so then again
I may not be asked ( Its in April)

Its in another country and they know Im coming,
I am uncomfortable asking or suggesting in an email.
Id be hurt a bit if not asked !

any ideas?????????????????

2007-11-22 18:25:38 · 5 answers · asked by fred6636 2 in Weddings

Ok ladies, this is a question that 90% of all men would love to know the answer too.

My wife and I have been married for 13 yrs and she is not very interested in sex. She doesn't like oral sex (give or receive). She will not try anything new when I ask here to. I have tried toys, candles, diamonds, etc., but nothing works.

She tells me that all her friends are the same way.

What's up with married women?

2007-11-22 18:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm trying to get licensed in order to marry my friends, they live in montana does ne one knwo the process of doing so or if i have to do through a certain training... websites can be helpful... please!!!!

2007-11-22 18:20:09 · 8 answers · asked by coldilocks 3 in Weddings

This happened today in the cantine
I was in the line and he was behind me, And after some time he put both of his hands on my belly and kept holding it until I was out of the line.
Well i didn't tell him anything, Didn't even look at him
because he's a really nice friend and i never looked at him that way. what should i do

2007-11-22 18:19:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why is getting married so important to do before you have a baby? I don't understand the importance. i'm not trying to be rude i just dont get it. for example, my mom ALWAYS says never to have a baby until i am married - and if i get pregnant and am with someone i love, to get married before the baby comes. why why why why ? ?

2007-11-22 18:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by jenn a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married last year July,because I got pregnant. We were planning to get married the end of the year, so I did marry for love. My child is now 1 year old and his beautiful. I love my family very much, but I feel I have like a midlife crisis. I suddenly miss being young and going out. Is this normal? I am a housewife and 28 years old.

2007-11-22 18:13:40 · 10 answers · asked by 007butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband, 1yr. old daughter, and I are house-sitting for my husbands aunt. They have three dogs, three cats and one goat. We are house-sitting for a total of 5days/nights. We were not told that we were not allowed to sleep in the master bedroom- but rather given a note to sleep in one of the childrens rooms. (The other rooms were two twin beds or one very untidy teen room) The bed in that room was hard as rock and a double- I fell off,and hurt my shoulder the first night. I should have not expected the master- but if I known we would have brought our air mattress- way more comfortable! On top of that, we get back to the house this evening to find two strangers in the house playing pool! WTF? Come to find out that it's the teen daughters friends. She had tried to call us, couldn't get ahold of us, but let them come over anyway! All of our stuff is laying out in the room they were using. Was she out of line in saying they could still come over especially since she couldn't reach us?

2007-11-22 18:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by dianadoubt 2 in Family

I'm just curious as to whether anyone had something "DIFFERENT" for their main course instead of Turkey

2007-11-22 18:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by Kaylia 1 in Singles & Dating

Trying to narrow the best way to have a girl do exactly what feels the best for me, in a manner that is not rude but efficient.

2007-11-22 18:00:47 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my love your voice is music to my ear,

hoping one day soon my heartbeat you will hear,

my love your eyes is a door to the soul,

one day maybe i will make you whole,

my love your thoughts are mine,

someday if i have you in my life i will be devine!

wat do u think to needy or bad do u like it?u can say anything i wont mind...not to hurtful please!

2007-11-22 17:58:02 · 5 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay
so

i really like this
guy

and we've know each other for a long time 3/4 years

so is it okay that im 14 almost 15 and he's 19? Do you think thta 19 and up guys like girls younger than they are?

2007-11-22 17:57:35 · 40 answers · asked by mmhmm 2 in Singles & Dating

I just started a new school and there are a few guys that I really like. I dont want to be known as the shy girl at this school, so I need a few flirty moves that guys find hot.

2007-11-22 17:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love her so much, i've bought her lots of flowers and a bracelet, it's her birthday and i dunno what to buy. please help me.

2007-11-22 17:51:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy 5 years ago, he liked me i thought he was related 2 chucky, the doll cuz he was ugly as hell, n' e ways i refused 2 go out wit him, well he moved 4 3 years after we met, than he moved back in like janury he added me on a website we'd talked from like 7pm untill like 2 or 3 pm, than we got in2 a fite in april n' we didn't talk 2 each other till may, than we fought again b4 the month was even over, so we didn't talk till like nov., he started talkin 2 me again, but i've tried 2 b his friend, n' i tried being nice 2 him, but his decsions r stupid, n' i can't stand stupidy in a guy, but his outlook on life is unique n' i never had a guy tell me things the way he does, he's honest 2 me 24/7, but he did sum bad things 2 a couple of his exs, n' i just don't wanna get hurt likem, but he doesn't like me, n' i don't wanna say i like him, but i think i do, should i even try 2 make myself believe he's a good guy?? is he even worth talkin 2? if i like him is that rly a bad thing??

2007-11-22 17:48:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which one would you rather date?

The ugly one has a beutiful humerous personality and the hot one has a moderate normal personality.
(not fun to be around with)

2007-11-22 17:47:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male that lives at home with his parents and other adult siblings. I am very successful in my career and I am highly educated as well, so it's not like I am a lazy person as some may want to believe when they hear I choose to live at home. My parents actively encourage their kids to live at home as long as they would like and rent free of course. What I don't understand is the jealousy people have of my living arrangements. If they are so jealous, most of them, I am sure, could make arrangments to move back home. I am the brunt of many nasty comments/jokes like this due to many forms of jealousy. It is worth noting that these arrangements did not come easy. I had to cultivate this great relationship with my family over a number of years. So it's not like anything was doled out to me. Plus, this is the least our parents can do considering all the years of joy we have given them in the past. They get a kick out of that when I tell them that.

2007-11-22 17:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 17:41:53 · 8 answers · asked by HopeH 4 in Singles & Dating

hell there i am living with my fiancee and every time she promisses sex she turnes it down like okay we had an child together and ever since like she gives an time and adate then when i go and do it and like get ready she downs it and changes her mind all the time and she is all i got becaouse i am afraid that i might not be able to find another gf what can i do????

2007-11-22 17:39:18 · 17 answers · asked by foxyfarther88 1 in Singles & Dating

We aren't "together" yet so it's not my place to say anything to her but she would tell me about how her ex did this to upset her and did that to upset her. She always talks about him. I know she only mentions his faults, but I think deep down she wants it to work out with him. Why would she bother unloading all these things about him if she didn't still care right? Man I don't know, I'm really starting to fall for her. She was the one that broke up with him by the way.

I promised myself after my last girlfriend hurt me real bad that I would not let myself get hurt like that again. So do you guys think she still has feelings for her ex?

2007-11-22 17:34:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend says she needs a break, and time for herself to be independent. She swears up and down she doesn't have anyone else, and she doesn't want anyone else. She loves me more than ever, and she wants to be with me in the end. However, we just can't be together right now. What does all this mean?!

2007-11-22 17:33:54 · 19 answers · asked by Shawn M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ok for a 31 year old lady to go out with a 29 year old guy? Do guys generally mind dating older women?

2007-11-22 17:33:19 · 33 answers · asked by Blu Lake 2 in Singles & Dating

i really cant take it. im so frusterated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i want answers!!!!!!! my mom thinks im the most anoyying person and i ... i just want to be with her. this is SOOOOOOOOOOOO weird! ok usually the teenager is the one who doesnt want to be around the parent n the parent is the one who wants to always be around the teenager. with me and my mom its VISE VERSA! I guess.......im just really attatched to her and she doesnt..... want me. And dont even get me started with my dad. He has to live 7 hours away for half the week, every week. and when he is home? he is buisy as hell! Hes a work-a-holic....i really do hate it. and when we go to amusement parks... my dad never comes. he hasnt been to an amusment park since i was 5.... and that was almost 10 years ago.and my brother...sheesh he is like... UHHGGG!!!! he doesnt want n e thing 2 do w/ me. hes 2 years older. he just doesnt like me. i really feel so alone

COUNCELING DOES NOT HELP FOR ME

2007-11-22 17:32:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well you know it was thanksgiving and its a time for family! well my grandparents came down and my brother visited. but everything i said they got mad at/ proved me wrong. and its like why are you trying to make me feel bad about myself? and then my mom got mad at me like every minute. and my sister was pissed at me. then i just stayed in my room and heard them laughing and having a good time but when i came out they were immediately quiet and stopped laughing. and then i said something about being excited to go shopping tomorrow and my mom seriously sighed. and then i went back in my room to and said i was going to sleep early and when i was back in my room they were all laughing. its so weird. its like they hate me. i cant wait until i can legally move out. but what should i do in the mean time?

2007-11-22 17:27:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

aight .
theres a guy and a gurl who like me
[im bisexual]
ive liked this guy for a while and he likes me back. his name his todd. i heard he can be a sukki boyfriend but i really like him. and i think hes the guy can do he stuff that other guyz didnt do. idk why though. his friends are good boyfriends[theyve dated my friends]
so yeaa,
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Cassie is the gurls name.
on a scale of 1-10 she likes me 9.5 ..
we would be eachothers 1st girlfriends.
i dont like her as much as she likes me.
but i dont wanna break her heart.
she has dealt with so much crap from other guyz
i dont want her to get hurt again. especialy me.

HELP!

2007-11-22 17:27:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating