aight .
theres a guy and a gurl who like me
[im bisexual]
ive liked this guy for a while and he likes me back. his name his todd. i heard he can be a sukki boyfriend but i really like him. and i think hes the guy can do he stuff that other guyz didnt do. idk why though. his friends are good boyfriends[theyve dated my friends]
so yeaa,
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Cassie is the gurls name.
on a scale of 1-10 she likes me 9.5 ..
we would be eachothers 1st girlfriends.
i dont like her as much as she likes me.
but i dont wanna break her heart.
she has dealt with so much crap from other guyz
i dont want her to get hurt again. especialy me.
HELP!
2007-11-22 17:27:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds redundant, but pick what your heart says is best. Also, factor in some things, like.......do you imagine a future with either of them? Do you trust them? Don't disreguard the fact that Todd is a "Sucky" bf. If you just overlook that, it will swing back around and hurt you later. But obviously, you don't wanna date Cassie and are more interested in Todd. Like I said, just take every single detail into consideration and base your decision on that. Do what your heart says......not your mind.
2007-11-22 17:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First know matter what you have to go were the heart tells you. Do not lead her on that is not far to her or him. U need to sit down and look with in your heart. He may be a sucky boyfriend or he may be a great one. U need to find these things out on your own. Sit down and explain to her that you like her but your not in love with her. Tell her you want to take another path right now and it is not her it is you. Make sure you try and stay friends. You need any more help. Let me know. Good luck
2007-11-23 19:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Carlie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is kinda hard but here you go i am taking classes to be a love Doctor.
if you really like this guy and she will be your first girlfriend then it might me better to go for him you even said you didn't think much of her and i understand that she has been threw alot and you don't want to break her heart but just explain it to her and let her know that she is loved but you like him
on the other hand trying something new like dating a girl can be fun and existing for you so if she really likes you that much give the boy a chance and if it fails she will be waiting for you or give something new a chance just listen to your heart with feels the best kiss her and see how it feels if you feel nothing then go for the guy but just let her know your still there for her.
2007-11-23 01:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by let's make a memory 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be with neither.
Todd is a sukki boyfriend (as you said)
and your feelings for Cassie aren't as strong as hers are for you... which means you will end up breaking her heart anyway.
Carry on with your life and wait until you find better options.
2007-11-23 01:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for the guy, if you do then you and that girl can just be friends, It is a lot easier to lose a boyfriend than for a girl to lose her girlfriend and a really good friend, you should make the safe decision and pick him. just dont let him use you
2007-11-23 01:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by draconitemare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. i don't want to make the wrong choice for you. but i have a feeling you like the guy more. go for whoever you think is great for you. it seems like you really like the guy cuz you said so yourself, "i don't like her as much as she likes me."
just tell her in a calm relaxing way. because you must make some sacrifices for who you really love.
2007-11-23 01:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by coolgal247 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
toss a coin, heads being the guy, and tails the girl, if it land on head, but you feel sad because you wanted it to land on tails, or vice-versa, then youll know which one you care for more
2007-11-23 01:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by a_complicated_goddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just choose who makes you happy. Or the one you're heart is telling you too.
2007-11-23 01:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by caine 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both. I doubt the guy will have a problem if you are with a woman and it will give you time to get to know them both and pick one.
2007-11-23 01:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok go to sleep and when you wakeup which one is the first one you wkaeup thinkin about? that will be the one you want
2007-11-23 01:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by pyroofthedesert 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋