Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

ive been hurt very baldy in past with cheats and liars so whn i meet someone i always get my freind to message them on the dating site msn to find out info anyway iev been seeing a guy a month nice looking 10 yrs my junior im single mum of 3 dnt have much he seems lovely spent last weekend here my freind been quizzing him to get info i asked him to come of dating site as i had so he did my freind repeatedly asked him if he met anyone? he keeps saying no and whn she asked him why he came off dating site he said he too busy to date! why didnt he just tell her he met me? and whn she asked him wht he did at weekend he took me and 2 of my kids to a choc factory he said he went to choc factory but delcned to mention he took me and my kids! and then asked her if she liked been tied up and having melted choc on her! Also whenever we been out he always says we will go halves but whn it comes to paying for trips meals etc like the bowling and games of pool he suddenly broke!

2007-11-22 20:26:05 · 12 answers · asked by wendy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 20:13:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is my brothers wife i love very much and can not forget her
i did not go to her home or not phone call her for 15 days.
pl.

2007-11-22 20:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by i loved relative woman knew her 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 16 year old tall, white male. I constantly find myself under severe depression. I'm a junior in high school, and I have extremely low self-confidence. My social skills are lacking and I have almost no friends. I'm not on any sports teams or clubs. I'm a great soccer player, and I once tried out for the team but embarrassed myself because my confidence sucks. I'm always worried about life after high school, and going to college. I hated here in LA, and I want to move back to where my parents were born Ireland. I dream and cry about moving back to Ireland all the time, and can't wait to get out of this hell. I'm in a big family with 3 brothers and sisters and very little privacy. I love my family with all my heart, but constantly find myself pushing them away. I don't have a computer or cell phone. I want a girlfriend, but it's kind of hard to get one when I don't have a cell phone, low confidence, and a family always in my business. My grades are slipping right now, but even if I was getting straight A's I'd still always be depressed about school. I feel like I can't bend over in class or do anything in front of class. If my teacher callls me to the front of the class, I feel very uncomfortable going up the aisle. I feel like I always have to be looking up in class, or girls will think I'm looking at their behinds. I have trouble for asking for things in class, and can't look at people in the eyes. I feel like I have no life, and I feel like I'm going to be a failure. I constantly find myself depressed, and feel worthless. I have sometimes thought of suicide, but I then think about my religion, and how I can't do that. I always find myself avoiding going anywhere where there are people, and I prefer to be by myself all the time. I don't like people in Los Angeles, and I view them as snobby people. I can't wait to move back to Ireland, and that's the only thing that keeps me going. My life just seems like a mess, and I feel like a failure. I need some advice on my life.

2007-11-22 20:02:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been dating my current girlfriend for a year and 10 months, today!! And to this day...my ex-girlfriend still calls me, begging me to take her back. i dated her for 9 months, that is all!! Me and her had a very sexual relationship, i might add.
I am an 18-yr. old, who is in love and she can't get it thru her head that i WILL NOT take her back, her sister and her family try and they cant get her to understand. i understand women can't drop their feelings at the snap of their fingers....but come on, almost 2 years? What should i do?

2007-11-22 20:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Phoenix. 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend who i've been living with for 3 months now and I love her or I think I do..She left her family, friends and city to come live with me and loves me so much but now I dont feel the way I used to feel about her..things between us is becoming like a routine now and she talks about a future that i dont see myself endulging in...It gets worse as I am talking to someone who seems to be more fun than my girlfriend..I dont know if I should end my relationship or tell my girlfriend about my feelings and let her decide..

2007-11-22 19:55:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jake97team 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you classify as hot?
i always wondered what the difference is between "cute" & "hot"

2007-11-22 19:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this guy whose courting me for several months already. He knew that I'm attached with someone but he keeps on courting me! I told him I don't like him but he doesn't like to stop! I'm pissed everytime he goes to my work or call me at home. How can I stop him? Do I need to say bad things just to stop him?

2007-11-22 19:53:06 · 4 answers · asked by _______definitely rude__________ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 19:48:39 · 15 answers · asked by bahsat 1 in Singles & Dating

I like ice skating and I pleaded with my husband to build an ice skating rink for me and Jessica in the backyard but he said no because they have an ice skating rink in the city but I told him they don't allow pets and I think animals on ice are soo cute!! My puppy loves snow as well. I have been so good this year I think and I cooked Thanksgiving dinner but my husband still said no and if I kept asking him he wouldn't let me go shopping today :(

2007-11-22 19:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm kind of mad about how ignorant some people are.

But at the same time i'm calm
and soo sooo happy that there is this thing called music.
:]

2007-11-22 19:46:50 · 14 answers · asked by MeowMix 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is back in the country and she told me she hopes we can hang out...thing is, I like her and she only likes me as a friend, pretty sure...i think it'd be best if we didn't hang out 1 on 1 so i dont start liking her more and i dont have to worry about trying to impress or something and not know what to say...but instead hanging out with a group

we're having a bday party for 2 of my friends and im thinking of inviting her because she has no idea about it...

would this be a good idea? or would it mean im still pursuing her? she said she wants to go dancing and stuff when she is back in town and i thought this is the perfect opportunity to go with a group...or should i ignore her and not tell her about it? i hear sometimes ignoring the girl will make her like you or something? whatsup with that? thanks.

2007-11-22 19:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 19:32:31 · 19 answers · asked by tension_dene_ka916 1 in Singles & Dating

she called me and tried to get in a gight and she's mad AT ME? what do i say?

2007-11-22 19:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor R 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't you ever feel blessed just to be born a human. Not a bug. Or a plant. Or a cell.

Don't you care that there are so many people with no roofs over their heads. That there are people suffering in hospitals. People suffering who cant afford to go to a hospital.

Arent you happy you live in a free country.
The air you breathe.
The family/friends you have.

When will people open their eyes.....

I can't stand the words "I don't care"

Think about that the next time you buy the lastest shoes or ipod or car or house or computer.
Because you should be happy you were even BORN in your family, in this country, in that house, with your health, and your freedom.

Because without any of that......a lot of things would be impossible.



opinions, good or bad are welcome.

2007-11-22 19:31:51 · 4 answers · asked by MeowMix 2 in Singles & Dating

I met the girl of my dreams in August 2007 and have been dating since September 1st. I'm 21 and she's 20. Everything is going well, we communicate well, we love eachother, we like the same things and pretty much everything is perfect. I've met her parents and her mom and grandparents love me to death. I've met her dad and have had conversations with him and my girlfriend tells me he does like me. We've talked about the future and we both definitely see eachother getting married etc etc. I've planned a trip for both of us to go on a vacation close to New Years to Montana ( where I orignally grew up at and i recently moved to California in Feb of 2007) I want her to meet my family and see how she likes them and vice versa. By that time we will be dating for 5 months, and I have the whole proposal worked out and I'm going to propose to her in Montana with either writing "Will you marry Me" in the snow, with branches or carve it in a tree and all that jazz. Is it too soon or no? Thx

2007-11-22 19:24:03 · 13 answers · asked by ryananderson86 1 in Weddings

you wake up and saw your partner feeling hot, touching ownsef in the clothings, legs open wide..........................
what will you do?

2007-11-22 19:22:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do i tell her that i really like her or let it go, help me out her guys im screwed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-22 19:09:18 · 8 answers · asked by Milkman 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-22 19:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does he not like me anymore, he is no longer attracted to me. Please help I am an English lady in distress

2007-11-22 19:04:52 · 57 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we broke for 2 months alr and i still miss and love him alot. we broke up because i said it out of spite and i thought he would pacify me. and the reason we quarelled was because he felt that he could not make me happy anymore.
he still calls me every night but is not willing to talk long.
he sitll accompanies me when i'm sad but each time i talk about us getting back, he would get angry. i am determined to get him back. sometimes i just cant control myself and finds him, but i know he does not like it. so nowadays i've been writing letters and putting it on his car secretly.
i'm afraid he might just fall for other girls within this period of time.

2007-11-22 19:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by flwergirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-22 18:59:57 · 12 answers · asked by ariel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dudes just pick one

2007-11-22 18:57:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i seam to not be able to find any good woman in Santa Clarita ,Ca. all the ones i find are way to out of control and all they want is money . I have money to spend just would like to get to know them first before it turned out to be a loosing thing for me..

2007-11-22 18:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by MPH777 1 in Singles & Dating

Type A: She is pretty and girly but she isn't exactly full of knowlege or opinions. And can't exactly fight her own battles. but is outgoing and nice.

or

Type B: She rocks skinny jeans, vans, and band tees. but she still is girly and has knowlegable opinions but is shy and reserved unless you got to know her.

Which would you perfer?

2007-11-22 18:50:18 · 6 answers · asked by MeowMix 2 in Singles & Dating

Can wivies also be business partners like a PA or would you think that work and pleasure be separated? One of the better known historial relationships like this would be Hitler and Eva Braun, for them to spend more time together (because he was very busy) he made her his PA. (PS: This is only an example I am expressing regarding a relationship btw a very busy man and a woman that chose to be with him, it is NOT a political question, thank you.)

2007-11-22 18:50:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a triangle love. Married with kids and now i wish to break up with this gal to return to my wife n kids.

How to do so peacfully and so to resolve this easily.

2007-11-22 18:49:20 · 16 answers · asked by ninjutsu77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married nine months, together for thirteen. We were married early because I got pregnant. Our son is now six weeks old. I realize, that being barely 19 as he is, it has to be hard to be mature and grown up. But I'm handling it fine and I'm 18..maybe girls are just more mature. Anyways, he's been texting his ex of four years non stop lately, been home late from everything, and got a text from her last night that said "goodnight my sweet xo prince" (that's the only one i read b/c it hurt). he denies anything is going on. i don't know how to deal with me or him. i am on the couch right now b/c i didn't wanna sleep in the same bed and he didn't even try to get me to come back in. he didn't even say sorry for me being hurt by finding that text today. i feel like it's my fault somehow, but it can't be. is he making me feel like it's my fault? how do i switch that around because i haven't done ANYTHING to hurt him. am i thinking right or am i overlooking something?

2007-11-22 18:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We met around new years, she is 20, im 19, and she had a BF at the time, so we were friends. In 2 weeks I started falling for her, it was crazy, she was my first love, and with her i learned what love is, so we went to a party one day, I didnt tell her nothing about how i was feeling untill she kissed a friend of mine when we were leaving the party, infront of me (she was still with her BF at that time) , we were with her car, so we got in, n i was mad, lol, i told her how i felt n we talked for about 1/2 hr infront of my house, n she told me she sees us as friends. We didnt stop hanging out, because she would call me, n would wanna hang out, n even thought i was waiting for her to call, i really loved going out with her, or anything, just staying at her house with her family. We kissed a week later, and from then, it just went from kissing, to all the other stuff, n she still was seeing her BF, but not like before, 24/7 she would be with me. We were pretty good, the first two months.

2007-11-22 18:45:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ever regret meeting a married woman and her family. and husband and truley regreted meeting her all the time comming on to me when she could when her kids. man. was gone wanting to act like a young woman at. her age in her.40.s well i truley wished i hadnt meet this trailer park trash she was always calling . and like before caught her family. gone and well it finaly happened. sex in her own home and those streach marks was sicking. she i never had respect for. but where i hated her. man as well her as well is why i did her and right in her own home and almost got caught by her man good his car was loud. or we would got caught. i truley wished i never meet that trailer park trask i ws only.19. at that time a w.va whore is what she was really has any meet one that sicking and regreted it later in life knowing she was divorced over me. regret it not on my part she was nothing to start with but a tramp at her age..

2007-11-22 18:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce