What's the best way to stop a guy from courting?

Question

I have this guy whose courting me for several months already. He knew that I'm attached with someone but he keeps on courting me! I told him I don't like him but he doesn't like to stop! I'm pissed everytime he goes to my work or call me at home. How can I stop him? Do I need to say bad things just to stop him?

Answer 1

No, don't say bad things to him...It would not help and would only worsen the situation...Still, the best way is to talk to him once and for all...Tell him that you can't take the love his offering because you're inlove with another man and the only thing that you could offer him is just plain friendship, no more, no less...And that you're already irritated just by the mere presence of him...Give him an ultimatum and tell him that if he won't stop courting you, then you can't do anything but to ignore him and won't talk to him anymore...I'm sure that guy would surely not want that to happen...He would just back off and accept that situation that you can't be together...(",)

Answer 2

I consider persistence a virtue, but it looks like this admirer or yours has gone from being persistent to being a pest. Before you resort to saying bad things to him, maybe you can try more subtle ways. For one, try to screen your phone calls. If someone in your household answers the phone, instruct them to tell him you are out or unavailable. If you happen to be the one to answer, just hang up as soon as he hears your voice. At work, instruct the guard not to let him in. At some point it will be too embarrassing for him to continue pursuing you. If he still persists, then a verbal assault might be called for. One other thing, it might even help if you enlist the aid of your bf. If you know this guys number, ask your bf to call him to confirm that you are indeed already attached and to tell him to lay off and stay away from you.

Answer 3

the unatainable is the desirable....either that or he is a stalker

Answer 4

wtf is courting...