Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

My girlfriend, my honey, is feeling lonely. She has a very low self esteem, and she doesnt have many good friends. Today, the thanksgiving, her friends went out without her and I have to do something with my mom, so I couldnt bring her. She become very depressed and upset. I cannot give her my time everyday coz I have my own things to deal with. Can someone show me how can I help a lonely person to become not lonely again?

2007-11-22 13:39:54 · 10 answers · asked by landzai 4 in Friends

2007-11-22 13:39:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he doesnt like me like that, yet he thinks i do , so why does he mess around with my feelings? he gives me hope that maybe we could be together, we work at a restaurant and we have hung out once at a club, he wanted to grind on me and give me a lap dance, he was drunk and followed me everywhere- he's cocky and he's 25 and iam 20, he was in the marines, he's used to getting his way -he asked me before if i liked him and i have said no but he thinks otherwise, he compliments me a lot and tells me how pretty iam.even when iam not wearing make-up..he isnt the only one, everyone at work tells me iam a pretty girl..but this guy knows i like him, how can mess with my feelings, when he sees me upset he runs to my rescue to make sure iam ok, maybe because he thinks he caused my upsetness, he befriended me on facebook and got upset when i didnt befriend him for good on it, for the time i did he wrote on my wall alot ..he looks at me alot and teases me in good ways..he can be a jerk sometimes.

2007-11-22 13:38:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 30 years old. I am pregnant. I have two children 12 and 8. I am recently divorced. Well, I do not think that I can afford this new addition.
So, I asked my parents if I could move back in with them.

I will have to sell my house and put my things in storage.

My two sons would share a bedroom and me & the baby would stay in the same room.

My expenses 'right now' is that i live paycheck to paycheck. i can afford what i have - but not much more.

does this make me a weak person?

2007-11-22 13:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf broke up and he got a new gf that i work with. my ex bf just stares at me and work. but he keeps calling me from restricted late at night and i answer and he doesnt say anything and never does. and when i dont anwer then he keeps callling. why does he do this? whats the point? i dont understand why guys do this??

2007-11-22 13:34:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its really not the END ALL of anything.

Its boring

Its a hassle

Its boring some more

Why do you women pretend that marriage is such a great thing?

I guess you have to take a stand somewhere in life after having all those promiscous single years.

2007-11-22 13:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 8 yr old son lives with me 40% of the time. I wanted to buy him gifts that he would be able to leave at my house so he had stuff to play with when he came over(ex. legos,ps2 games, etc.). Well all of the stuff he wants is stuff that would be hard for him to leave just at my house( gameboy games,IPOD, guitar ect) and in the past things like these get brought to him moms house and get "left" there. So dads what do you do for x-mas when your divorced? Should I get the stuff he wants knowing they will just end up at my exwifes house?

2007-11-22 13:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 8 yr old son lives with me 40% of the time. I wanted to buy him gifts that he would be able to leave at my house so he had stuff to play with when he came over(ex. legos,ps2 games, etc.). Well all of the stuff he wants is stuff that would be hard for him to leave just at my house( gameboy games,IPOD, guitar ect) and in the past things like these get brought to him moms house and get "left" there. So dads what do you do for x-mas when your divorced? Should I get the stuff he wants knowing they will just end up at my exwifes house?

2007-11-22 13:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband separated 2 months ago , he treated me really bad because i had fund out i was pregnant and then had a misscarrige, i try to call him to get the rest of my stuff but he ignore me, he dont want me to come arounsd so he serve me a injuction on domestic abuse! this has mothing to do with he not wantting me around, and he was the one that use to abuse me ! i dont get it....now i have a court date intwo weeks and on the staement he wrote that i scratch , slap , and curse at him at his job and the house and text messages, okay i never physical abuse him those things on the statement are false....the only thing that is true is yes i did text him mean things but he did too! should i be worried going to court? how should i defend myself? i really dont want to get charged for things that is false, and plus why in the world would he do that injuction over domestic abuse if i left him 2 months ago/??? can some one really help me ...i really dont have a lawyer or thinkitsths seriu

2007-11-22 13:26:54 · 7 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are sperated and living in two houses and every time my dad leaves my mom is so angry and hurt she runs after him and tells us that it is his absolute last chance and well i just wanted to know if i am wrong to tell her she is making the wrong desicion and that she can do better than him!!!!!!

2007-11-22 13:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by kaitlyn b 1 in Family

...my weird "friend" to calm down? Whenever my other friend and I joke around, and it offends her, she'll start getting mad and starts yelling at us. I mean, I can't joke around her. She takes ALL jokes seriously. She is kinda spoiled and gets EVERYTHING she wants. I'm not sure if I can really call her a "friend." It's kind of weird that I have to act a diffrent way when she's around. How can I tell her that the jokes I say aren't true?? [ I don't make fun of her or anything ]

2007-11-22 13:17:25 · 5 answers · asked by la Orden del Fénix 6 in Friends

he's living with a girl since sept1, and left me for her. my question is did he call me because he cares, or because hes trying to be a polite snob, or to torture me? i think its a and b. hes "making his rounds" he said. but i think its playing mind games, because just because its a holiday, why should i care? ( i do still want him, but why is he torturing me?

2007-11-22 13:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by Diana S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 13:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by aruna w 1 in Singles & Dating

every time i have a chance 2 talk 2 him i chicken out

2007-11-22 13:13:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i sent this guy i love a message saying we should stop talking because hes leaving in 2 months...and it would hurt us both so we should start saying buh bye now instead of the last minute
my message was:
i REALLY HATE saying this but its for OUR best and so we don't get hurt...i don't think we should talk as much and we shouldn't act like were going out...i have tears in my eyes rite now writing u this message but its for out own good and so no one gets hurt..this is my opinion but i don't know about yours....i just don't want neither one of us to get hurt after 2 months...and I'm SO SORRY that i made your biggest fear come true...I'm really sorry and i know its hard for u but its harder for me since I'm writing it....I'M SO SORRY

did i do the right thing?? or am i wrong and should i still continue talking to him and flirt like we used to??
all answers appreciated:)

2007-11-22 13:13:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since ive been pretty much 4 ive always been fascinated with casinos, card games, slots and all that other stuff. My dream has always been to live in Vegas and work in a casino, most likely as a dealer or any other job which is in the casino in Vegas! I come from another country so when I was a kid I couldnt even imagine I could get this close to my dream, now Im in America and living in Virginia and almost finished with high school. When I told my parents what I want to do they laughed and me, screamed, called me a failure. They push me in every single way to go to college and become a lawyer, a doctor, an accountant. Yet I don't want to be any of those things.They dont want to listen and support my choice. I dont want to study for someone I dont want to be and be miserable for the rest of my life. I want to be happy and have the job I always wanted. Yet my parents dont listen to me.What should I do? Should I pack up and leave after high school? I completely refuse to give up my dream

2007-11-22 13:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by klickersw 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

women understand men better then me do women??

2007-11-22 13:11:43 · 8 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 13:11:14 · 8 answers · asked by beachcutie_4_u 1 in Singles & Dating

I am new at this job too. It is only my second week..

2007-11-22 13:10:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mariana 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been married for 15 years and slowly my wifes drive has gone down. Now I think she only does it for me. It has been the source of much of our problems and I often think that if I would just have an affair the rest of our marriage would improve. The last thing I want to do is hurt my wife but sex is a very important part of life and although I would give it up before hurting her I don't want to have to.

2007-11-22 13:10:14 · 33 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who still keeps in touch with ex family members.. i have a sister of my ex i still talk to.. and a ex sister in law who married to his brother and they got divorce.. that i still keep in touch with..they have no children connectted to my children..no cousins..but we still keep in touch..me and my ex also get along is that strange??

2007-11-22 13:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really pretty and mature for my age. I am 18 and so is my ex bf and we broke up we fell in love and loved eachother very much and we couldnt be friends it was 2 hard. hes mad at me and refuses to speak 2 me. he is now dating a girl that we work with. she is 4 years older than him. she hates me of course. but every time he sees me he just stares at me for the longest time and forgets that she is even their. they fight constantly and ppl say that they wont last. he calls me from restricted so that i will anwer the phone and he doesnt say anything. sometimes he follows me and burns out infront of me to get my attetnion. he drove by my house 2 hours ago. and called me from restricted today. he swears that he doesnt love me or care for me anymore. what do u think? does he still care? what would u do? why is he doing this? and whats going through his head when he sees me?

2007-11-22 13:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When we do its completly passionless. and when she was a teen ager she had no res[ect for herself and i feel like she is holding back in our marriage. its killing me to think that she never wants to have sex with me, or even that she might occociate me with what happend. Help me. i dont know what to do...

2007-11-22 13:04:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every time I masturbate in my room, which doesn't have a lock on the door, I really get into it and I'll be standing there and my brother will come in and hit me in the testicles, right as I'm about to ejaculate! He's 17 and I'm 13 so I can't fight him, I can't go to my parents because they can't know that I masturbate to porn, and whenever I tell him to stop he thinks it's funny. I've thought about pretending to masturbate and when he comes in I can turn around and urinate on him... What should I do?

2007-11-22 13:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my friend myspaces say my cousin died but ive got no way to find out if this is true or anything else
so i need your hlp please

2007-11-22 13:00:32 · 1 answers · asked by miss_gorgeous_katherine 1 in Friends

My grandma is 72 and lives alone my grandpa died in late August. She lives 10 mins. away from me. I want to talk to her just to talk cuz I love her nd she's my grandma. She doesn't drive and I'm just worried cuz my grandpa died and it makes me worry alot. She's on the phone with someone else cuz it rings once and then goes to voicemail. She has it set likethat and its been like that for about an 30-45 mins. It worries me. I'm scared. Please help!!! She doesn't prefer talking on the phone. Please help I always worry over nothing!!

2007-11-22 12:58:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 13 about to turn 14 and in 3 months we are having the valatine dance. In my sitiutation I kind of new to the school and there this one guy i like. I really don't want to go to the dance dateless. ( Just to let you know i am not desperate) What should do? Also people who have or had boyfriends can you tell me how did yall end up together. Thanks

2007-11-22 12:53:30 · 1 answers · asked by I Love Afnan 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-22 12:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just posted a very good news on yahoo answers
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuotiPtc7hd4S1J5vD1W2eLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071122164109AA0vjIB
And right now my husband asked me that " If it is Okay that you do faternity test. Will you be offended". He said he always thought about doing that whenever he has child.
we married for 5 months. I was virgin when I met him. I never had any relationship with someone. He wasn't virgin when he met me. I came from a very traditional background and would never even think about someone else. Is that okay for him to ask these kind of questions.

2007-11-22 12:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have been with ny girl for more than 2 years and during that time she has always had girlfriends( I don't have sex with them) but she recently met an older women that she has became very invovled with, with is great. But do you think it's weird that the women is 52 years old? isn't that kinda gross? I mean I was thinking about the older womens "area" and almost threw up. Well, the other day I came home and the older women was there in her bedroom naked and licking her ++++++ I saw everything this women has and it was not that great( ok for a 52 yr old) I closed the door and got a beer and sat of the couth and thought...for min. then the older women came out and asked if I wanted too join her.( she next to me naked...well bottoms on and top-but close) My girlfriend went crazy on her ===== and I kinda liked it...what would you do? Please I need advice

2007-11-22 12:45:07 · 1 answers · asked by Road House 1 in Singles & Dating