My girlfriend is lonely, how can I help?

Question

My girlfriend, my honey, is feeling lonely. She has a very low self esteem, and she doesnt have many good friends. Today, the thanksgiving, her friends went out without her and I have to do something with my mom, so I couldnt bring her. She become very depressed and upset. I cannot give her my time everyday coz I have my own things to deal with. Can someone show me how can I help a lonely person to become not lonely again?

Answer 1

Hey buddy! Judging from other questions you have asked, I know that your girlfriend means the world to you, and you know it too. I am sure that you are doing everything in your power to not make her feel this way.

Well being lonely is a state. I have been in this state. It sucks bro. Believe me. But fortunately for your honey (she is lucky to have you) There IS a way out of that.

First off, I had to ask myself HOW I became lonely. The answer was me. It was my own fault. I was the one who did not make myself readily available to friends. I went out of my way to make everything right for my ex girlfriend.

So ask yourself why is your girlfriend lonely? There has to be ingredients to this concauction. Did she spend all of her time with you and blow her friends off? If so, I think that you need to re-incorporate those friends back into YOUR lives together. The couple that has fun together stays together. So hang out with a few other couples and you will all become great friends.

Reverse the loneliness by adding what you have subtracted

As far as the self-esteem, I think that will go back up when you and your friends start hanging out again. If not, let me know and I will see if I can help.

Have a wonderful day today and I hope that you enjoyed your Thanksgiving!-James

Answer 2

Maybe take her out into the town, meet some of your friends, meet new people together so you make the same friends. If she has low self esteem there are things you can do to boost her loneliness- compliment her, tell her what she's good at, even if she's not good at something, see if she can laugh it off. There's lots to do to make someone happier! Does she have any hobbies to keep her occupied? Maybe if she took up a sport and played weekly at a club or something, she can get to know some people. Hope this helps, good luck with everything!

Answer 3

tell her to read this it will build up her self esteem And buy the way its nice when you call them honey she a lucky person to have a boy for friend like you...i wish I had that

Answer 4

Umm i think you should take away the time when u have to do ur own things because it sounds like ur full of ur self and maybe buy her some roses and talk to her and maybe you should take her out to eat and also try finding her a friend

Answer 5

No, dear. You cannot do it for her. It sounds like her family is estranged and rather selfish. That is sad; but you can enourage her to find some friends as well as you to share her interests with.

Answer 6

you can make her 'not lonely' again by being with her. Is she not more important to you than 'your own things'? If not, forget her because things are more important to you than persons.

Answer 7

spend time with her........try to spend time almost most of the week...in other words out of the whole week, spend about 3-4 days with her and the rest to deal with your problems.....

i hope this helps ^_^

Answer 8

Throw her a surprise party for all her friends and family. She'll be so surprise!

Answer 9

i dont know if you've noticed but looks arent 100% percent, through it is part, you have to be outgoing, fun, and such.

Answer 10

send her a teddy bear with a letter that you wrote, that way, a part of you will always be with her!