I am really pretty and mature for my age. I am 18 and so is my ex bf and we broke up we fell in love and loved eachother very much and we couldnt be friends it was 2 hard. hes mad at me and refuses to speak 2 me. he is now dating a girl that we work with. she is 4 years older than him. she hates me of course. but every time he sees me he just stares at me for the longest time and forgets that she is even their. they fight constantly and ppl say that they wont last. he calls me from restricted so that i will anwer the phone and he doesnt say anything. sometimes he follows me and burns out infront of me to get my attetnion. he drove by my house 2 hours ago. and called me from restricted today. he swears that he doesnt love me or care for me anymore. what do u think? does he still care? what would u do? why is he doing this? and whats going through his head when he sees me?
2007-11-22 13:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have no clue.. But I think the most important thing to do is to protect yourself... Although it might not be as serious as anything but it would probably be best to always have a friend close by. Eh.. I dunno but the situation sounds scary to me.
2007-11-22 13:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by dallyteenvac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do I think?
Just sounds like a typical, immature, 18 year old relationship.
Does he still care?
He probably cares about something but what does that prove?
What would I do?
I'd change my phone number and file for a restraining order.
Why is he doing it?
Because he's an 18 year old kid.
What's going through his head when he sees you?
Only he can answer that. A few guesses:
*#&@ that #^&*&@ for doing that ^&# to me.
Man I miss tapping that @#&.
I wonder if she'll suck my @^*.
Just a few guesses.
2007-11-22 21:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by John 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, let's face it, your ex is immature. Secondly, he is using this other girl. Add one and two together and you will see that he is only interested in satisfying his own needs. He can throw a good tantrum, but he is not in love with you, nor does he love you. If you can ignore him, do so. You may have to take legal action if he persists in this behavior over a long period. Without being alarmist let your friends (not his) know of this situation and ask for their guidance and help. As for your last question, probably stupid resentful thoughts. And as for your thoughts, get him out of your head and out of your life.
2007-11-22 21:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he countinues to deny the fact that he still likes you then, maybe you should tell the police because that sounds a little freaky to me...i wouldnt want my ex calling me all the time and stopping in front of my house or whatever you said...and if he still does like you and just wont admit it then, he has a problem because he is never gonna get you back if he doesnt tell you why he is stalking you...i would tell the police about it if i were you...especially if it gets any worse
2007-11-22 21:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but every time he sees me he just stares at me for the longest time and forgets that she is even their
Now there's some narcissism for you!
p.s. How should we know what's going on his head?
2007-11-22 21:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should file a police report.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 21:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be afraid that he is plotting some sort of revenge. and if he is you may want to get a restraining order.
2007-11-22 21:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by cmg120nuke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my, this is scary.....same thing happened to my mother....she got a restraining order, same thing you should do if this keeps going on.....idk ask your mom......but my advise is to try your best to stay away from him.....and, get a restraining order if it gets worse.....
good luck dear....hope things clear up :)
2007-11-22 21:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋