Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

I like this girl. She also flirts me by asking questions such "do u have a girl friend?" or " When you transfer, I'll tour you,give me a call". When I call her, we talk as long as we have things to talk about, and when I text her, she responds right away. Me,her and her Mom are going to an overseas trip.
first of all, does she like me or is she just being friendly?
second, her mom is really carefull about her, should I ask this girl out, straight?
Third, what if she says no! cause, right now her mom trusts me and respects me. I dont want her to think wrong?
please help with this and make a mind to cool down.

2007-11-22 12:44:28 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am so upset. i found condums in my moms drawer. i was looking for socks and she said top drawer. i looked in the other top drawer and it was going threw the socks looking for the ones to wear and i found a big pile of condoms! what does this mean! is she having sex! SHE DOESN'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND!

2007-11-22 12:43:15 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my girlfriend like crazy and I was planning on asking her to marry me when our anniversary comes up in a few months.

But she recently deciced to quit her job and go back to school. I'm already in graduate school. Her attitude toward school is a lot more intense than mine, and she made some comments about us being in "transition periods" now. Frankly, it kinda makes me want to quit school and get a job... lately I feel like one degree is enough.

But in any case, do you HAVE to be stable financially to get married? In my grad program, most of them are already married.

Do you have to choose BETWEEN a career and family life?

2007-11-22 12:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by menorans23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He chose me out of all the girls that liked him. He's a true boyfriend that every girl deserves but there's this girl in my school named Samantha who called me a ****** just because I'm going out with Alex, who is my boyfriend. To tell you the truth, I barely even know who she is. Alex loves me to death he calls me like everyday and texts and I do the same, What do I do??

2007-11-22 12:31:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help. I Love my ex so much i really go crazy without him every day. But he has another girlfriend now and she is not his type at all. i miss and love him with all my heart. is it possible that we will get back together? he still tells me that he loves me when i talk to him but now its been a month and i cant move on i litterally cry every time i think about him i want him so bad. i feel so bad for kcking him out how can i get him back? does he still love me like i love him

2007-11-22 12:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 12:28:18 · 21 answers · asked by back2wait 2 in Family

please help!!!

2007-11-22 12:25:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend 6 months, shes 17 and i'm 19, we are both virgins, but i feel close to her,

is this to early to bring up about having sex? how do i go about it?

2007-11-22 12:23:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i known since 6th grade, has a very terrible personality, he punched teachers, carried guns, pulled knifes on people, all kinds of bad stuff. now we are a bit older 25 now, and he seems to have changed, he is very nice, polite, suave and friendly. well he got this girl, then broke up with her after getting drunk and treating her like crap. then he got fired from his job for degrading a manager (she had a scar on her neck from neck cancer surgery , and she said he looked mean, and he replied saying "we cant all have 2 smiles like you" then nick named her smiley. now he got a new job in sales by being really nice and friendly to one of the managers. my question is is he really trying to change, or just hiding his real self and playing people?. is he aware of what he is doing?

2007-11-22 12:23:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girlies, do you prefer a guy who wears glasses or one who doesn't?

2007-11-22 12:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by spanish stroll 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what is going on with me. Sexually, I guess I feel attracted to girls....but I have found that lately....I think I may be feeling more than just friendship towards my friend Mitch. I am beyond mortified to even ATTEMPT talking to him about it, I love him so much, as a friend...brother even....but what if its more!? I'm so confused......

2007-11-22 12:04:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i go to my moms house every 2weeks the 2 sundays ago we had a big fight and she callled me my bro and my dad messed up and some other terrible things im not sure if i 4give her yet and still havent talked to her im Spose to go with her tommorow and im sitting here with the phone in my hand wondering if i should call her or not plz help me

2007-11-22 12:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by the Guru 1 in Family

omg, im in the 8th and this boy i like who also likes me is in the 7th should i go out with him, or just forget it?!
Please help

2007-11-22 11:58:35 · 22 answers · asked by Juicy Girl.♥♪ 4 in Singles & Dating

He says it is not me he doesn't want to marry anyone. I am almost 27. Never married. 2 kids. Is there something wrong with me ? I ask him why he doesn't want to marry and he always comes up with a new excuse such as our age diffrence. He is 39. Or he says I quit everything and he thinks I will divorce if married. He also said he doesn't want me to find someone else later and be stuck married to him. What should I do. I don't want to leave but I also don't want to never marry.

2007-11-22 11:53:51 · 33 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they dont even let me go to the movies or mall without an adult there. and it sucks because i miss out on so much because im "not allowed"
so i just need to know what you think i can do to convince them to let me do more things.
please && thanks =]

2007-11-22 11:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by Ü 4 in Family

me and my girlfriend went out for 1year and 2 months .she broke up with me due to a fight .she will not talk to me or answer my calls.shes the type of person of that all ways likes to be right no matter what.she told me that she doesnt love me but she told me that all the time we fight . Can some one please help me find someway to make it up to her.and take her breath away

2007-11-22 11:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by lil_jayrunner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do older men date/likes younger women?

Can anybody tell me why older guy like women that are 10 to 15 years their junior. I can understand if someone is 10 years older (still a bit old though) but 11 – 15 years older!!! I mean what’s all that. Some people say that older guy only goes out with young women because of some of these reason;
**Just using them for sex
**They naïve
**To make himself looks good
**Have control over them

They might be wrong or not. All I want to know is why older men like younger women?
**Do they like them for real or the opposite
**Are they going out with young women because she’s young
**Will they date them for long relationship or the opposite
There are thousands of question I want to ask but don’t know where to start from.
In my case I have men from early 30 to late 30 after me, don’t get me wrong on this (am not being negative), I have more guys in my age range after me than the older guy. But I don’t know why after chatting with some of them, they always want more than just friendship. I mean am only trying to be nice and don’t want to be seen as a snob. I don’t understand this, Am I doing wrong being friendly? (Trust me am not over friendly).

Ps...
I hope the question is understandable to everyone and if anyone is offend or whatsoever, my apologies.

2007-11-22 11:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by thwifey 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 11:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by lilwuteva 2 in Family

Nah, I'll keep it terse. Go ahead and pound it into my thick little skull. We were together 5 years, lived together most of it. He had to take care of me. Now I am more able and have a place and job. He says he'll be around and will help financially as long as I need it. He says he loves me 'but...' Now he is moving on with his life. He says he just wants to be alone. If we 'go our separate ways,' will he want me again someday?

2007-11-22 11:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 11:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally feel so horny all the time and i cant focus untill i have orgasm by any means. whats yor experience? and how to overcome on this?

2007-11-22 11:42:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It feels like it's always ME that gets hated on. I can sense that everyone hates me and doesn't want to be near me. I'm extremely shy, but very nice... would you hate me? I'm not even lying for attention, I barely have any friends and I was made fun of in elementary school. I'm in highschool now. I don't really dress differently (that wouldn't matter since I have to wear a uniform anyway) and I don't think I look weird. Why does everyone dislike me? Why ME? Do you hate people like me?

2007-11-22 11:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That I am pregnant. my home test came positive. I will do the blood test tomorrow for sure. What to do. How do I know that I am pregnant. I can't wait till tomorrow.
I am nervous and excited. I am married and I just told my husband and my friend. We will tell my inlaws tomorrow.

2007-11-22 11:41:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

u aska girl/guy out and they say no...them ignoring u? complimenting or flirting with them and they dont flirt back?

2007-11-22 11:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last weekend we did it. It was with a old girl that I have know for a long time. It happened spontaneously and it was amazing. We talked about last night and she is interested in doing it again. Should I ride the donkey tell it falls down, or put a stop to it before it goes wrong.

2007-11-22 11:36:13 · 29 answers · asked by funkyballs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're both in high school, and he's extremely religious, while I'm agnostic. Other than that, we have a lot in common, and I really enjoy his company, but he doesn't want a relationship. "Relationships? There's no time for relationships in high school!" He said this to someone else in a teasing voice, but I think he was being serious.

The logical side of me knows he's absolutely right, but at the same time, I feel like I've met the perfect guy... and I can't do anything about it. How do I get over him? Any thoughts?

2007-11-22 11:35:55 · 12 answers · asked by lirael1019 1 in Singles & Dating

settled in life....whether its with your spouse, job or anything else?....

2007-11-22 11:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by unbroken29 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We really love each other, but things are a lot different. When we first started dating, he was very loving and understanding. We broke up a couple times, twice because he liked another girl, once because I liked another guy. We got over it and it's been a while, but we started fighting a lot. I told him I feel like he's taking advantage of me. I do everything for him and all I ask for is a little affection in return. Whenever I ask him to sit or cuddle with me, there's always an excuse. Also, when we fight, he can never admit that he's in the wrong also and we fight...a lot. I'm always the person apoligizing. Plus, he knows it bothers me, but he tells me that he doesn't come to family functions with me because we're not married, but then when I ask him if he thinks we will ever get married, he says he doesn't think about the future and you never know what will happen. I thought he was my soul mate, but am I just wasting my time?

2007-11-22 11:34:06 · 3 answers · asked by Katie 102404 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this man for 2 1/2 months, during this time I have met his family and friends . Things were going very well, until little by little he stopped texting me little messages, he did not call as often as he used to. And yesterday we were supposed to see each other and he did not call me back to confirm. I have not herd from him since. Last night I talked to one of his friends online and he advised me not to get to attached to my man. He told me that he was a good friend but not a boyfriend material since he is immature. Basically, he told me that I was too good for him. The problem is that I really like him. What to do? Should I move on? I have a feeling that perhaps he lost interest or he prefers spending time with his x-box/friends rather then me.

2007-11-22 11:31:06 · 16 answers · asked by Natalia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and i have been together for just over four years, In April she went overseas for 2 weeks without me and when she came back she was really in love with me and 100% committed to our relationship.
Over the last month or so she has just told me she doesn't know how she feels anymore, she doesn't know if she loves me or not! I still love her very much and don't want to lose her.
We decided to break up yesterday and see if her fellings change.
What should i do?, should i stay away and hope she comes back?
As i said i don't want to loose her.

2007-11-22 11:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce