Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

My mum as a cousin and hes my great cousin if you tell him anything he is not sistening he stops for a rest and when you have said your bit he carrys on with is talking. He makes us a curry and asks us a lot of questions about it saying if we liked it or not. and if we make one and give him some we will say did you like it and he will say its ok. We once took him to see his mum who was in hospital and we pipped our car horn and when he come out he said I ham sick of horns hooting. his mum died 3 years ago and now he lives on his own he comes to see a lady on our street and dosent come to see us. and my mum goes to bingo with him once a week and last week she said to him did you like my pie I made you he said it was ok but I have had beter.my sister works and has 3 kids and never has much time to see him . and last week my mum said are you comeing for your christmas dinner this year he said no I have got stuf in my fridge.

2007-11-22 08:45:07 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Family

why slutty girls who dress slutty n sleep around with guys even girls (ew gays) anyways, always have good personality means dont yell dont scream kinda nice to others

however, girls who dont sleep with others n dont smoke dont drink you quicly think that they;r nice but u find out that they are
bitchy
gossip alot
complain alot
you would wish she was a hooker just to be quiet for while

why is this happenin?

2007-11-22 08:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, me and my partner have been together 9 months. I am nearly divorced with 2 children and let my childrens dad see them 3 times a week. (Regardless to what he did in our marrige) My partner is going through a divorce also and choose after loads of heartbreak to be with me. He pays to his children and sees them once a week on her terms and conditions. He lives 60 miles away from them and has lost everything to be with me (parents included). He goes to parents evening at a seperate time than his wife, goes on trips with his daughters school works to provide for me,his kids and my kids. However much he compromises with his wife she goes out of her way to make things difficult. One week shes going to New Zeland the next down South and telling him he cant see the kids when hes due to travel 60 miles to see them. She asks him to help with the kids more then when he says he will after loads of sacrifices she says they want nothing to do with him. Whats going on? Help!!!!!

2007-11-22 08:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for about 2 months, we broke up for a dumb reason, but it wasn't that big of a deal bc i really liked him but i wasn't attached to him. anyways its been a month since we broke up and we decided to try to not stay friends....although he and i started talking again a few days ago. he wants to get together to be friends with benefits basically. we are both virgins (19 and 20) and everything we've ever done has been with each other so far. there isnt another person either one of us is seeing. and i'm comfortable with him but everything ive ever heard about friends with benefits relationships is bad....should i even get into one???? thanks


HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

2007-11-22 08:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is in Iraq... half my family hates me, the other half thinks I'm worthless except that I have a husband (despite that I'm a pre-med student and doing well)... so I'm home all by myself. Feels like I'm the only one, so I'm going to ask--

Is anyone else alone on this "holiday"? If so, why?

2007-11-22 08:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Aia S 3 in Family

Okay, like about a month ago I went home with this guy that i met last year. We fooled around but we didnt go all the way. And recently we've started talking and stuff, i really like him and i think he likes me too. The problem is he's graduating this year and leaving university. Do you think it's a bad idea to start a relationship when we're gonna be so far apart? I'm going to be in my senior year in varsity, he'll be gone. I just don't wanna miss out on what could be my one chance at the real thing. Tell me what to do, please!!??

2007-11-22 08:36:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will be 18 soon and my girlfriend is 15, we have been having sexual relations, once I turn 18 what will it take for me to stay with her legally, in washington state?

2007-11-22 08:35:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a good girl for the most part. i party and drink but for the most part i am good. . I am 5'4, 120 pounds, black hair and eyes, 36d, flat tummy, athletic and tan and in good shape. i get checked out by guys but its always by bad boys and those r the ones i go for then and end up getting hurt. u dont know what i do wrong and what good guys like?

2007-11-22 08:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have a pretty uniqu relationship. He is going through yet another breakup and tells me all about it. We dated about 10 years ago & have been in touch ever since. What are some signs that he might want a relationship with me?!

His good friend told me that he (the ex) talks about me constantly and never has anything but good things to say. When we hang out we always have a great time and end up being intimate. Last time we hung out we were pretty drunk and said we loved each other.

THOUGHTS?! SERIOUS replies only! I have to say I am pretty easy going and laid back and it doesn't bother me when he talks about his past.

2007-11-22 08:33:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a child two years ago. ever since she was born my husband doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. what could be the problem?

2007-11-22 08:31:36 · 18 answers · asked by lovely1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well were should i start. ive been dating this guy for over a month now. he is the most amazing guy ever. when ever were together we can talk for hours and just look into each others eyes. we both feel like were soul mates. every time im with him i cant stop smiling. i cant even express how i feel to him. ive been thinking for days on what i can get him for his b-day. but i cant seem to think of anything. i want it to be special but at the same time be a supprise and romantic. weve never been together physically and we both agree we want to wait.so can anybody help me. i need gift ideas that will blow his mind away. i want this b-day to be one that he wont forget.

2007-11-22 08:29:44 · 17 answers · asked by just curious 1 in Singles & Dating

cps came in my home and recorded my kids during an investigation of neglect or abuse. we told them not to ask them about there private areas and they did anyway. then they told me it was not my exwife who reported it.

2007-11-22 08:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Mac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is horrible.. she is my friend though.. she cuts me off when im talking and she talks about herself and all her stories are incredibly boring... she didnt used to be like this but now she sucks.. she used to be amazing and be my BEST friend .. i gave up trying to make friends once i became friends with her because she has a couple other friends who i chilled with at the same time as her.. its a weird connnection to these "friends" because i never hang out with them without my mean friend. she always puts me down to make herself feel better..she isnt popular she has like 2 friends.. but she is my only friend so i cant "hang with other friends"
she also makes comments about my weight ... calling me fat.. and whatnot..its completely unfair because i am 5'8 and therefore weigh more than her.( i also have boobs) .she is 5'7 and 115 lbs and eats practically nothingshe is unattractive yet calls out my "bad" features.. makes fun of my hair color.. and anything else she can think of.

2007-11-22 08:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by mirage 3 in Friends

Ok so my best friend straight out said that she doesnt want to be my friend at all the other day just cuz i coulcnt hang out with her. N now she thinks that i like her boyfriend n that he likes me. I told her different n she doesnt believe me. She thinks that every one should do what she wants them to. I told her she needs to grow up. She said when she wants to she will but until then every one is gonna be her *****. What should i do?

2007-11-22 08:25:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband left me in august 2 go & live with his daughter(who is now pregnant with twinsby ivf) & her boyfriend, he cant talk 2 me if they are around yet he tells me he wants 2 save our marriage but is not willing 2 move bk 2 our marital home but he is living in his ex martital & his daughter's ex marital(long story) home, the house is rented by his daughter & her boyfriend off my husband's ex wife( get that if u will)! He is applying 4 housin off the local council & expects me 2 move 2 be near him but he is not willing 2 give anything in exchange, am i a fool or wot????

2007-11-22 08:25:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 08:24:42 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im over him.. probably so is he. all residual chemistry evaporated ages back , we live nearby and i happen to be a friend of his wife & (teach few basics of baby bringing up to her..also help her with the baby at times) i see little more of him than usual.i saw some sparks coming back but i totally discouraged his warmth .now just few mins ago he was making his wife hear some sad recording of his colleague ..& his wife asked.."why did u record this" and i lol'd... cos i was v amused by the recording..not the sad talk in the conversation...and this So cald EX..started quering me..why are you amused ? whats soo funny?

his baby was on my lap so i couldnt just barge off..i said i cannot explain ... and then he lied on the bed .. his wife next to him.. then this guy started tickling her ..n then ME!! three times i had to say to let it be stopped.
im just pisd m not into him.. & i am the immediate neighbour so i keep getting her calls for help.
What does HE want ???& what to do?

2007-11-22 08:19:49 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If im still going out with my g/f during Xmas what should i get her?
We are 13-14 so i dont want it to be jewelry or something.
Also, any good date ideas for guys with empty pockets...or borrowing some from the old man?

2007-11-22 08:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by theweddingrocks 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay please dont judge me,,, listen first.
My boyfriend is the sweetest guy on earth! He's totally in love with me and is the most caring and sensitive guy i've met in my entire life... its just, i'm a bit shallow (JUST A BIT!) and i usually start liking guys looks-wise first. With this guy; I loved his personality (and i still do), which is why i said yes when he asked me out... but now i just dont think its working.
I know he'll make a great husband some day and he wants this to get serious, but I'm still 17 and just right now... I'm in a phase where i need a hot boyfriend to show off with and get naughty with, you know? So now I get jealous of my friends who have hot boyfriends and check out other guys...
I cant break up with him because i dont want to destroy him and i'm scared i might regret it later. And i'll die before i cheat on him...
HELP...What do i do???

2007-11-22 08:18:47 · 15 answers · asked by ♥JayJay★♀ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to get a divorce from my wife but in the mean time she has taken my daughter out of state. My daughter was born where I live and I want to know whats the best way to get her back before were divorced. What can I do?

2007-11-22 08:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that wont tell me a so called secret! He says I'm tto persistent but I really REALLY want to know! How do I get him to tell me????

HELP!!

2007-11-22 08:11:43 · 4 answers · asked by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 in Friends

he didnt tell me that this one guy had naked pictures of me and he actually asked that guy to send him the pictures. so my bf gave me his myspace password and thats how i found out and so should i brake up with him or give him another chance (he is a good kisser)

2007-11-22 08:11:22 · 33 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 08:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I heard about blue pills for men and can anyone tell me what they do please?

2007-11-22 08:09:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just started seeing this guy for 2 months (met him online). So far things have been good; nothing to worry about- he's not wanted by the police or anything haha. I am planning a trip for spring break (end of March) to Cancun. we live in California so it is a pretty far vacation. I was wondering what you guys think about inviting him to join me and my friends (all coupled up) to go for a 5 days vacation. Recently he invited me to go to Hawaii with him and his friends over winter break (december)- I told him no.

My question is, is it too far ahead to plan in advance. By the time we're in Cancun, it will be ~6 months (if we're still together). I have to ask him soon because I like to plan early and booking early means getting better deals in terms of hotel & airfare. But I dont want to regret asking him if it turns out things dont work out. Too soon? If yes, when should I ask him? I'm confused!

How should I ask him? I'm afraid I'll scare him off by moving too fast. Be honest please!

2007-11-22 08:05:55 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel P 2 in Singles & Dating

I would certainly hope to if I were with the one I love!!!

2007-11-22 08:04:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help like my mom love to ***** and whine about things so give me some ideas to shut that ******* mouth of hers up please...thank you .. or i'll shut it up for her ... and doing that i'll be in jail so please help me.

2007-11-22 08:02:06 · 2 answers · asked by Big Chops 1 in Family

Hi......Sorry for my english becouse i'm italian girl and i'm not very clever. at school i have 5 in english... but i would like to know someone... who want?!? i'm here...bye bye

2007-11-22 08:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by Gioggia:-P 1 in Friends

i've been with a bad boy and he has knocked up a bad girl, which is more up his alley since he's a bad boy. So its natural that bad boys click better with bad girls?

2007-11-22 08:01:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 08:00:01 · 10 answers · asked by pink_panta120 1 in Singles & Dating