Ok so my best friend straight out said that she doesnt want to be my friend at all the other day just cuz i coulcnt hang out with her. N now she thinks that i like her boyfriend n that he likes me. I told her different n she doesnt believe me. She thinks that every one should do what she wants them to. I told her she needs to grow up. She said when she wants to she will but until then every one is gonna be her *****. What should i do?
2007-11-22 08:25:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow..what a b*tch...lol
You can tell she won't change overnight so just stay away from her until she gets over it
You can't talk and reason with head-strong people, so just avoid her, be the bigger person
Don't make it worst and talk to other people about it...that's how rummors get started (he said she said)
Just let it go, you did nothing wrong so you should not worry about it
2007-11-22 08:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt seem to be that nice of a person. Let her know whats up and tell her the truth even if she doesnt want to hear it. Let her know that when she is ready to be an adult about the situation you will talk to her. Tell her how important she is to you and if she is really your friend then she will believe you.Then reevaluate your friendship, if she is really important to you make an effort and if you can live without her then do it.
2007-11-22 16:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dreaming with a broken heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend probably isnt mad for you just not being able to hang out. It must have been that plus alot of other things. And if her bf likes you than dont worry about it you can't control who he likes. She doesnt sound liek a good friend, but like any other fighting sisutation say your sorry. and mean it. lol. :) Hope this helps.
2007-11-22 16:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sillygoose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have other friends, call one of them up and go to a movie. Don't talk to this girl. If she calls you then tell her you agree that she shouldn't be your friend anymore and hang up.
End o' story.
Why do you worry about someone who is so rude to you? She's a waste of time. There are other girls who would be your best friend.
2007-11-22 16:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another best friend. In the mean time see site below and learn all about yourself so you can be best friends with yourself. Learn how incredible you are and be in perfect peace and limitless happiness. That is what you are here to do. It is your birthright.
2007-11-22 16:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't state your ages but you both appear very young. I recommend a cooling off period where you avoid each other either completely or as much as possible. If you are truly friends you will eventually get back together. If not, you'll stilll be better off than bickering or trying to please a difficult person.
2007-11-22 16:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by thegoodeg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm most def talk to her and ask her what her problem is...other than that you just have to ignore her and eventually everyone will begin to hate her for her attitude about them. then she will want her old friends back b/c she thinks that you guys will still be her friends. thats when you can tell her about how hurt you got about it and explain to her everything. then its up to you if you want to give her a second chance or not. good luck
2007-11-22 16:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Efron <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her. You probably deserve better anyway. Youll hve no trouble finding someone else to be your friend. you could stay with your friend if you think shes just going through a rough patch, depends if youve had enough of her moods
2007-11-22 16:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to **** off... an if she dont like the fact tht ur not her ***** every min. of the day then she can find someone else who will do it.. an see how long it takes b4 she gets beat up
2007-11-22 16:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by bethizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. She wasn't a very good friend anyways. She sounds like a control freak. Eventually, everyone will get tired of her crap.
2007-11-22 16:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋