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My ex and I have a pretty uniqu relationship. He is going through yet another breakup and tells me all about it. We dated about 10 years ago & have been in touch ever since. What are some signs that he might want a relationship with me?!

His good friend told me that he (the ex) talks about me constantly and never has anything but good things to say. When we hang out we always have a great time and end up being intimate. Last time we hung out we were pretty drunk and said we loved each other.

THOUGHTS?! SERIOUS replies only! I have to say I am pretty easy going and laid back and it doesn't bother me when he talks about his past.

2007-11-22 08:33:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Nothing like the love of a friendship, beautiful thing, espacially if your mature enough to be intimate without having hard feelings, your a strong person, lol. I've been here before, one of the most intense relationships I ever had, but there is NO gauretee that commentment is going to work for you guys. It could, if you talk about it honestly, work, but its one of those things thats much, much harder to accomplish with someone who was a friend then someone who you romantically are interested in. The problem is, that we havn't ever been show'd how a true, unconditional love relationship would work in the trapens of a marriage, or a commentment. So both parties really don't have no clue how to handle it, plus its not light and happy, its deep, deep, deep as far as relationships go, something most people can't handle. The reason I say this, is becuase I tried to make it work, shoot we both did, but it runs so deep, that you can't get into it to avoid your problems, like most relationships. You most get into them to fix your problems, just like the friendship. Its sort of like in a romantic situation, you've got hopes and dreams. In a friendship situation those hopes and dreams are more... realistic, more real, and much more intense. And we just don't know how to handle this, so it could very much cost you the friendship, ESPACIALLY if thats not what he wants...... theres alot more to this, that I'm just now starting to realize, hard to even educate a person on how one relationship is more fantasy based, while another one would be more based on reality, on the struggle to grow and learn. Something that alot of people in marriages most be taught, becuase of HOW they did it, but I digress, there is no clear answers here, I'd love to talk more about it, I've got an e-mail. But its all going to come down to both yoru abilities to talk honestly with each other, AND share the same purpose in life. I had the honesty in my relationship, but alas our purposes were different..... but did manage to stay friends, thou the scars still hurt....

2007-11-23 05:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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