well were should i start. ive been dating this guy for over a month now. he is the most amazing guy ever. when ever were together we can talk for hours and just look into each others eyes. we both feel like were soul mates. every time im with him i cant stop smiling. i cant even express how i feel to him. ive been thinking for days on what i can get him for his b-day. but i cant seem to think of anything. i want it to be special but at the same time be a supprise and romantic. weve never been together physically and we both agree we want to wait.so can anybody help me. i need gift ideas that will blow his mind away. i want this b-day to be one that he wont forget.
2007-11-22 08:29:44 · 17 answers · asked by just curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're thinking too hard. Relax. Have fun with this. And stay away from sex. There's other ways to express yourself to him than that.
I'm not a flowers and chocolate and candle lit dinners romantic. (I would love those though) But I'm good at giving gifts that wow people.
First, think about what he likes, what he talks about, what him and you talk about, what he talks about to friends. I write out a list and brainstorm. List anything and everything, no matter what or how silly. Don't hold back or censor out things. List his favorite shows, if he likes knives, leather, kung fu movies, blue things, sword or gun replicas, anything.
Next go online and look up stuff from your list on sites and store sites, especially eBay. eBay has unique things and I always get ideas from there. Look around and write down and save things you like or think he'll like.
I tend to look for practical, cool things. Shiny, sleek looking things. Leather jackets, sword replicas, jewelry, glass rose, redecorate his room (guy friend has this done to him and loved it).
My ex who I dated online for 2 1/2 years liked Final Fantasy games a lot. He also liked gloves. So I bought him some black Final Fantasy gloves off eBay. He loved them, dearly. There was even a pair of sunglasses that main character wears on Trigun that I was going to buy him, but I broke up with him. He loved those too and always said he wanted them when I showed him them online.
I also tend to wrap presents many times and in various boxes. That's always fun. Heck, wrap up a key to a chest or something that has his gift in it... or has a bunch of smaller gifts in it and a key to the big one.
That helpful? Just have fun. Lots and lots of fun and be unusual.
2007-11-22 08:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Caroly Wheeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Valentines day this year I got a fish bowl and put stickers on the outside saying "101 Reasons why I love you" and I cut out 101 red and white hearts and wrote one reason on each one and told him to pick one each day to remember how much I love him. It's cheap to do but it's something he will remember forever and it comes from the heart and sometimes when you make something it's more meaningful. In your case if you haven't said the L word yet, maybe put 101 reasons why your my soul mate or 101 reasons why I like you. Hope this helps!
2007-11-22 16:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were together a month when his birthday came around. I bought him the Best of the Best cookbook and wrote a message in the front "to good food and great company", we've used that book over and over ever since and enjoyed every minute of it.
2007-11-22 16:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by danaja2001 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hun, you are in the right spot! I mean, ppl can give u all sorts of ideas, and u get to choose!! ok, if money is no object, here goes. do u cook??? no?? ok, go out to a great restaraunt?? Outback steakhouse comes to mind. buy him something that reminds him of u.. a nice picture frame so he can see u anytime, No digital / cell phone pic, crap. make it a real picture, one taken with a camera and developed. also, treat him to a movie, they like that! buy him a movie he likes, go get him a shirt he likes, and last but not least, send HIM baloons and roses, at school, or at work, if he isn't in school, and make sure ppl SEE him get them! Not to embarrass him, but guys like that sort of thing too. take him to the zoo, hold his hand and see all the cute baby animals. tomorrow is black friday, go to wal-mart and get him somethin he loves, like a game system, and by now, you you should know what he loves. Find out his favorite food, and cook it for him.nude.
2007-11-22 16:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The proper gift in this case would be to bake him a nice cake that you made all by yourself. Put his name on the cake with love. There's something about a woman that bakes a cake for a man that makes him cherish her dearly.
2007-11-22 16:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by bigapple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw thats cuteeee
you should get him tickets to his favorite concert
or if hes not a music man, give him sports tickets
to his favorite team. also a cute thing would be to give him little gifts that lead up to the gift. like for the concert get him the cd and like a band tshirt and then give him the tickets or for sports tickets get him like say a basketballl and then a jersey, and then hand him the tickets :) itd be cute & hed love it
2007-11-22 16:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by nickyr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Play Station 3, just dont dis him when he plays it all the time, he will love you big time for it though
2007-11-22 16:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tony Montana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By now you should be able to identify at least one thing that interests him, besides you of course. Find something related to his area of interest. I don't recommend that it be more than two figures. You should keep it within reason.
2007-11-22 16:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Andre 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Buy a ring of white gold or sterling silver with his birth stone.
2007-11-22 16:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him a puppy! I always wanted a girl to give me a puppy but it never happened.
2007-11-22 16:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Eric S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋