I dated this guy for about 2 months, we broke up for a dumb reason, but it wasn't that big of a deal bc i really liked him but i wasn't attached to him. anyways its been a month since we broke up and we decided to try to not stay friends....although he and i started talking again a few days ago. he wants to get together to be friends with benefits basically. we are both virgins (19 and 20) and everything we've ever done has been with each other so far. there isnt another person either one of us is seeing. and i'm comfortable with him but everything ive ever heard about friends with benefits relationships is bad....should i even get into one???? thanks
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2007-11-22 08:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope it's not worth it. He's not going to be there for you, he's only using you for sex because you still have feelings for him.
2007-11-22 08:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with friends with benifits ok. this is a question for yourself no one else. r u ready for this? give it a try and see how things go. u never know u guys may need this is see if u guys really care and wanna be together or u don't
2007-11-22 08:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u realy do care about him go about. but i'd suggest not haveing sex with him unless u love him. u need to be supper comftoable with ur frist. but it may be a good way of him realizing that he doesn't want u with anyone else just him. so u may find ur self in a real relationship. go for it if it feels right.
2007-11-22 08:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've waited this long, I think if I were you I would just keep waiting for someone who really respects you and wants you to be his partner.
2007-11-22 08:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get used for sex, maybe get a disease and/or pregnant then dumped.Are you up for it?
You have my personal guarantee this will happen if you have sex with im.Orgasm does NOT = "love".
2007-11-22 08:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as I guy I'm am telling you know that he is trying to use you. Don't fall for it. Say No. Its not worth it.
2007-11-22 08:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends
2007-11-22 08:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget get about him. he his wanting to just use you, you deserve better than that
2007-11-22 08:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-11-22 08:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋