I just started seeing this guy for 2 months (met him online). So far things have been good; nothing to worry about- he's not wanted by the police or anything haha. I am planning a trip for spring break (end of March) to Cancun. we live in California so it is a pretty far vacation. I was wondering what you guys think about inviting him to join me and my friends (all coupled up) to go for a 5 days vacation. Recently he invited me to go to Hawaii with him and his friends over winter break (december)- I told him no.
My question is, is it too far ahead to plan in advance. By the time we're in Cancun, it will be ~6 months (if we're still together). I have to ask him soon because I like to plan early and booking early means getting better deals in terms of hotel & airfare. But I dont want to regret asking him if it turns out things dont work out. Too soon? If yes, when should I ask him? I'm confused!
How should I ask him? I'm afraid I'll scare him off by moving too fast. Be honest please!
2007-11-22 08:05:55 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That could be the vacation from heaven of the one from hell. Two months isn't very long and you're still blind. Ask your friends to HONESTLY tell you how they see him. Is he controlling, a tightwad, volitile temper, seem to be hiding something and so on. Promise them that you won't be mad at them if the say something negative about him and keep your word. If you can't do that, then invite him and if things turn south, keep your mouth shut and don't go whining to your friends later.
2007-11-22 08:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he already invited you on vacation, I dont think you'll scare him off by inviting him on one too. If you think it'll be a good idea, and that you'll still be together at the time, then go for it. It'll be a good way to get to know each other better.
2007-11-22 08:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would like to go and make sure he pays his part up front and no its not to early as you are going with friends.
2007-11-22 08:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋