Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

2007-11-22 06:27:43 · 4 answers · asked by Alex N 3 in Family

2007-11-22 06:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by FRANsuFU 3 in Singles & Dating

my sister in law moved in with us a month ago, she has only paid 1 weeks, she sleeps till 3pm, doesnt work. I dont think its unfair to ask for her help cleaning up. I realise she doesnt make all the mess, but I cook the dinner that she eats, and I think that she sleeps all day, the least she could do would be to stach the dishwasher (I clean every morning while she is asleep.) I asked her about it, and she answered 'only if you dont use too many dishes.' every time we go to the shops she gets us to get her things but doesnt giv eus the money for them, we would be up to about $100 there too, we lent her the money for a cable 3 weeks ago and while we havent heard another word about it she is telling my husband heowes her 5 dollars for lunch. How can we all get along, coz I am working looking after a toddler, cooking and now cleaning up after 3 other people, and i think i will go insane if it keeps up

2007-11-22 06:17:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

taken your pride and respect and dignity. you gave him everything then ended up calling you a sl ut fat ugly stupid who r e, amongst other bad things

2007-11-22 06:14:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i'm fed up of being quiet and shy and then people think they can walk all over me y do people do this ? and what can i do to change? thx xxx

2007-11-22 06:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a muslim girl and i love someone who is hindu.our family is against us.but we love each other very much and cant even think of living without each other.on the other hand when i think of my family it makes me stop and think IS RELIGION MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE?.plz suggest me what should i do??

2007-11-22 06:09:26 · 16 answers · asked by ranu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How old are most people when they get/give their first kiss. I am asking because I am a good looking, single, straight, successful 28 year old male and I have not experienced my first kiss yet. I would say some people get it earlier than me, but most have to be in the same boat as myslef as I am a normal kind of guy in every respect. Your thoughts are appreciated.

2007-11-22 06:08:30 · 17 answers · asked by Jack C 1 in Singles & Dating

My now ex fiance was home for about 4 weeks and everything was going great until i went back to work. That friday i had a girls night out and he was at the bar with his buddies. One of my girlfriends said she didnt trust him and we should see what was really going on. We went out there and he had his engagement ring off and was with another girl. I confronted him there on the spot. He said he wanted to go home and talk about things but ended up going back inside to stay with his friends and left me there. I kicked him out and he came to get his things. He got arrested that night because he wrote bad checks last year and they never got paid. He wouldnt talk to me for a few days and when he did he said he was sorry and wanted to be together just not right now. I'm stuck in an apt alone which he knows i cant pay for. I'm having a really hard time dealing with this break up. We dated 2 1/2 yrs ago and started dating agian this past feb and they wedding is this coming feb of 08. Any....

2007-11-22 05:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a really rocky relationship about 8 yrs ago with a man who nearly killed me. He had a really nice brother who looked after me, and made sure I was ok. As a matter of fact the brother drove by my house on Sunday and waved. I was really surprised to see him in this neck of the woods.
I about flipped when I saw his name in the obituaries yesterday. He died. I dont know how or why or what its all about, but I am so sad. Should I go to the funeral? I am afraid I will hash up some old hateful emotions since I dumped the brother and married someone else within a short time. The family basically dislikes me.

2007-11-22 05:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

I have been playing football with my husband and his pals. they play a rough game of tackle which sometimes includes the men "accidentally" tackling the women by grabbing our boobs to tackle us. my husband says its all in good fun so to just deal with it when one of his friends does it to me. does anyone have any advice how to get these guys back? one problem is i'm only 5'4 and most of these guys are big and built.
the guys think its so funny that i'm so vunerable because its so easy to take me down with a squeeze up there.

2007-11-22 05:46:26 · 11 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 05:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by queeny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Basically I a soft natured guy and emotionally attached to everybody.

Ours was an arranged marriage more than 10 yrs old. Of this, we were apart for 10 years with 5 spells of reunited life aged not exceeding 2 – 4 months. We have a girl kid of 10 yrs. Efforts of reunions were initiated by me. Their family members are the culprits.

In the present spell of reunited life my wife behavior is too erratic, adamant, arrogant, beyond control and out of character and control. Sometime psycho / eccentric behavior. Now, we are leading separated life within house. She spoiled the kid and she also following her mother .

Now she is not willing to go away as was earlier and also not for legal separation. I proposed for mutual separation considering their future and avoid embarrassment to both. Serving divorce notice will certainly affect their future and I do not know under what ground I should.

All this issues hampering my official and other activities. Please advice honestly

2007-11-22 05:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've had a little problem with a girl I like quite a bit (but not yet my gf) and I'm wondering why she's reacted in this way...

Is she just in it for revenge, or is this another mind game??
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnYoW6qaMmJBmIVp9JNcCXjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071122084254AADRXUX

Thanks soooo much everyone!! Happy thanksgiving.

2007-11-22 05:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want to know how to get a girl to stop and smile and say hi or start a conversation with me?

2007-11-22 05:35:51 · 4 answers · asked by mustang_350 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for 3 years and we had a relationship then he got married to somene else and i didnt speak to him in a year and then one day he had gotten my new # and got in contact with me and calls me all the time we have had sex several times and he told me that he loved me for the first time but will not divorce his wife but we still see each other every once in a while.

2007-11-22 05:27:56 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which is a better last name morales or mcartney

2007-11-22 05:26:34 · 5 answers · asked by Rey Mysterio 2 in Friends

I knew this girl since we're in skool in and got disconnected in 8th grade. we met again on facebook after 13 yrs and now we are chatting with each other since last two months and are very good friends. We share each and every moment of our life..we fight and we enjoy nice moments also. but the bad part is we never met each other in rescent time...we did all that on phone or on messenger. we can go on chatting for 6-7 hrs non-stop. we got so many memories and things to discuss..we both luv it.

Everything was going good at this moment. I didn't went to her city and proposed her coz i wanted to give some time to understand me and than only I wanted to tell my deep feeling to her. Suddenly, few days back her cousin and his friend came from another city and stayed at her place. I asked her on monday she said yeah i like him and she think dat guy also likes him too. guys what should i do to express my deep lov to her as now she has this guy in her mind. I LOVED HER SINCE I WAS IN SKOOL

2007-11-22 05:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met around new years, she is 20, im 19, and she had a BF at the time, so we were friends. In 2 weeks I started falling for her, it was crazy, she was my first love, and with her i learned what love is, so we went to a party one day, I didnt tell her nothing about how i was feeling untill she kissed a friend of mine when we were leaving the party, infront of me (she was still with her BF at that time) , we were with her car, so we got in, n i was mad, lol, i told her how i felt n we talked for about 1/2 hr infront of my house, n she told me she sees us as friends. We didnt stop hanging out, because she would call me, n would wanna hang out, n even thought i was waiting for her to call, i really loved going out with her, or anything, just staying at her house with her family. We kissed a week later, and from then, it just went from kissing, to all the other stuff, n she still was seeing her BF, but not like before, 24/7 she would be with me. We were pretty good, the first two months.

2007-11-22 05:16:19 · 2 answers · asked by Mike M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't you ever feel blessed just to be born a human. Not a bug. Or a cell.

Don't you care that there are so many people with no roofs over their heads. That there are people suffering in hospitals. People suffering who cant afford to go to a hospital.

Arent you happy you live in a free country.
The air you breathe.
The family/friends you have.

When will people open their eyes.
I can't stand the words "I don't care"

Think about that the next time you buy the lastest shoes or ipod or car or house or computer.
Because you should be happy you were even BORN in your family, in this country, in that house, with your health, and your freedom.

Because without any of that......a lot of things would be impossible.



anyone share my opinions or care to add any of their own?

2007-11-22 05:08:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Becuase hes not ready to say i love u yet, and he has his phone off becuase he went on a road trip with his best guy friend randy, and he all ways wants to see me, do u think he really cares about me?

2007-11-22 05:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by wildride07 3 in Singles & Dating

Basically my friend Danny really likes this girl Kirsty who plans to use him for his money.

She never showed any interest in him before and shot him down before until she found out that he's minted. She started talking about how Christmas is coming up and she really wants a new stereo.

How can I tell him without upsetting him and is there anything I could say to this Kirsty? Thanks.

2007-11-22 04:58:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My man doesnt want to do husband wife things.Neither gay nor is there any other girl in picture.My man wont want intimacy even if i intiate it,no romantic holidays or doing things talking romantic with eachother,no gifts.My man works very busy in his career he works with my relative so theres no other girl or not gay.My man was same before marriage when we were dating.Whats wrong its 7years.

2007-11-22 04:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was married 17 years first time. Have one daughter, great relationship with her father, stepmom and halfbrother. I am frugal, independent financially have my own business and home. Guy we'll call...Homer! Unstable financially(Michigan economy no fiscal discipline), huge heart, pretty good job, one daughter...oh and ADHD!
I love him, but sometimes we can fight like cats and dogs. Just as much me as him!
Any advice from those who have been in this situation would be appreciated!

2007-11-22 04:52:20 · 2 answers · asked by Macy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im fed up with my hubby coming in from the garden with muddy boots and stepping all over the back passage when I have spent hours cleaning the floor, I have asked him to go round the front but he never listens...what can I do?

2007-11-22 04:48:15 · 34 answers · asked by Jenny O 4 in Marriage & Divorce

a rumor

2007-11-22 04:47:35 · 26 answers · asked by toxic 2 in Singles & Dating

well..here it goes..
-i am 18..happily married for 2 yrs.
-my hubby is 27..( i know..it is weird but don't laugh @ me!)
-i came from india last yr and my hubby grew up in america
-we have a few cultural differences...and he is a doctor( stilla resident so he just make $3000 a month plus med school debt) and has friends who r very materialistic and always talk about bars, wines, high class restaurants, fashion and jewelry ...so i don't like to hang out with them. but he does and i don't mind.
-i go to college a local community college and i have no car (again financial problems)

now my question is how do i make new friends? All my frinds are in India and i was so busy last yr being newly married and helping my inlaws..and studying that i did not socialize even a little bit...and i am a bit shy too..
How do i make friends? i can't go out a lot becoz i don't have a car only my hubby does

will people get scared and not talk to me as i am married at an early age? coz i am still learning

2007-11-22 04:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why did he play me?. i dont understand how this could have happened :( i delt with the situation perfectly and he just blows me off. my dads friends son who is this guy i work with and i have been flirting for the past 3 months. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyonemeaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:

2007-11-22 04:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is separating from her husband,and my mom invited him to have Thanksgiving at her house.My sister said she wanted to stay friends with him.She came over and yelled at mom how dare you invite him to dinner! so was my mom in the wrong for inviting him to her house.I can understand my sister being upset.But i also understand my mom wanting to be nice and inviting him,because she still likes him. I would appreciate any advice.

2007-11-22 04:35:41 · 13 answers · asked by Cinderella 5 in Marriage & Divorce

he always told me he loved me what happend just da week beffore he told me he wanted me two be da mother of his kids how can he do this 2 me he only knew her for 3 hours he knew me for 6 months he could of atleast wated a litte more i cant take this its hurting me soo bad i rather be dead all those memories thrown in tha garbag cant take dis

2007-11-22 04:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by girl 1 in Friends

My guy friend and I were fine about .. a month or so ago, and then all of a sudden he stopped texting me and stuff - I texted him like four time since asking him if i've done something to upset him and if so i'm sorry - what was it that i'd done wrong? But nothing still, and then today i confronted him at school - he wouldn't even look at me and i literally had to hold onto his arm to stop him walking away - after about a minute of me saying 'whats wrong please tell me? why are you ignoring me? ' i let go because he wasnt doing anything or saying anything and walked away - what do i do ? please don't say leave it he can't be a good friend because we have been friends for a few years now and I don't want to throw everything away.

2007-11-22 04:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by workaholic 2 in Friends