why did he play me?. i dont understand how this could have happened :( i delt with the situation perfectly and he just blows me off. my dads friends son who is this guy i work with and i have been flirting for the past 3 months. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyonemeaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:
2007-11-22 04:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me-wat u doing friday
him- im going shopping in new york
me- thats too bad i was gonna tell u im free fri
him- lol so how are the boys treating u? have you found that special one yet
me- no have u?
him- ye im kind of talking to someone right now
me- really who
him- lol u wouldnot know her
me- I don’t understand u
him- I mean u don’t know her so if I tell u her name it is pointless
me- noo not that, nvm
him- what then tell me
me- lol u play games
him- I don’t play games. I didn’t lead u on, cuz if I did I would have kissed you up and stuff but I didn’t. we didn’t talk on the phone everyday, we didn’t even chill outside of work. I didn’t lead u on, sure we flirted here and there but it was all verbal, nothing physical.
Me- ok true but u did other things to make me think otherwise
Him- all I did was give u hugs and asked you questions to get to know u…
Then he goes offline.
okay so my question is does he know that i obviously like him???? and why did he push me away?
2007-11-22 04:36:28 · update #1
hes getting off on leading u on.
block and delete this guy off ur msn
hes playing a game, very typical stuff, ive encountered little boys like this b4, dont get caught up in it, and dont let him know its affected u...cause its an ego boost for him. even if he comes back to u, ignore him. shows a lot about this guys character, after he played a little game of flirt and then "hard to get"...its hard to move on, but please do, theres men good men out there.
2007-11-22 04:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate_cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont suppose so. The final port organization was once a British organization. Im now not evaluating a British organization to a UAE organization however the truth the neither was once or shall be dependable for our safety could be very predominant. Security is dealt with by way of the Coast Guard and Customs. That dosent difference whena new organization takes over. Im now not announcing we will be able to be more secure. I simply dont feel we will be able to be in anymore hazard than we already have been.
2016-09-05 11:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience has always been never date someone that you work with first of all, second I never take anything for granted if the guy does not come out and say hey I like you, can we go out, can we date, will you be my girlfriend, all the above then I would not think anything. Yes he was flirting with you but he was not sure that he really wanted to go out with you and was being wish washy about it. guys will always say well I never said this or that when they know they were giving you all the signals for go, never take that as a sure thing, let him be a man and tell you to your face.
2007-11-22 04:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Marcilla M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knew that you liked him. Forget about him and move on to someone who is more mature than that. Hey at least he didn't end up getting u pregnant and leaving town. That's what happened to me. So be thankful that things did stop when they did sweety.
2007-11-22 04:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by tonya_j84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested, sounds like a flirt and a womaizer. Find someone better.
2007-11-22 04:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you are way too complicated love and need to get a life i almost fell asleep reading your question
2007-11-22 04:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by doozer_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody led you on.only your imagination,poor guy was just trying to be friendly,and you have to make it into a full blown romance
2007-11-22 04:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋