My now ex fiance was home for about 4 weeks and everything was going great until i went back to work. That friday i had a girls night out and he was at the bar with his buddies. One of my girlfriends said she didnt trust him and we should see what was really going on. We went out there and he had his engagement ring off and was with another girl. I confronted him there on the spot. He said he wanted to go home and talk about things but ended up going back inside to stay with his friends and left me there. I kicked him out and he came to get his things. He got arrested that night because he wrote bad checks last year and they never got paid. He wouldnt talk to me for a few days and when he did he said he was sorry and wanted to be together just not right now. I'm stuck in an apt alone which he knows i cant pay for. I'm having a really hard time dealing with this break up. We dated 2 1/2 yrs ago and started dating agian this past feb and they wedding is this coming feb of 08. Any....
2007-11-22 05:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
suggestions on how to get over and move out. Hes back living with his mom and step dad and his mom knows that i've called but i'm not sure if shes just not telling him that i've called or if he just doesnt care. But either way i've got to get past this.
2007-11-22 06:01:04 · update #1
Move on! It looks like he has. You know he's not the right person for you. Start dating again. You will get over him. Good luck. :--#)
2007-11-22 06:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a list of all the bad things he has done and put it on the fridge where you are reminded often why he is your ex, be glad that you found out about him before the marriage and not after, and then move on. The fact that he wants to be together with you but not right now shows he thinks that he is able to walk all over you, so show him that he can not do that. I will give you a web site which will help you I think.
In the meantime, move out of the apartment that you can not afford and get something you can afford or move back with your parents if possible until you get the money together to get your own place. Don't get into another relationship too quickly until you are sure this guy is out of your system or you may end up with another loser. I hope the website I give you helps and that you are able to find the right person next time who will not cheat on you and be there for you. Good Luck!!
2007-11-22 14:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no you don't really want to do this but I say you need to move back home with someone. Talk to the landlord and tell him/her the sistuation or look for a cheaper apt. It's gonna take time to get over what happened but go out and spend sometime with your girlfriends or even message me my email is gtrale@yahoo.com. I check it all the time! Good Luck Hopefully I can Help!
2007-11-22 14:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else to share the cost of the apartment. Maybe a friend. You shouldn't trust him, in my humble opinion.
2007-11-22 14:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by mapperfavore! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋