i am a muslim girl and i love someone who is hindu.our family is against us.but we love each other very much and cant even think of living without each other.on the other hand when i think of my family it makes me stop and think IS RELIGION MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE?.plz suggest me what should i do??
2007-11-22 06:09:26 · 16 answers · asked by ranu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you strongly believe in your faith, then you should be loyal to it, but if your faith is what your parents want you to believe in, then thats not right. you should know that if you tell them that your going to go against them, and date the boy. they probably wont accept you.
good luck~!
2007-11-22 06:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also ask this question's everytime's..and hate all the religion's for very reason's........
If two soul's Love eachother's and something is dividing's thoses two soul's then it is evil.'s....
whatever divide's two loving soul's is an evil's........
ask urself can God 's divide two loving soul's? God ask's as to love's not to divide's....... ok's??
corret's?? or wrongs??
let love Rule the world's Not religion's....
and For God sake's dont Run away's and marry's .....
If u really love's that boy's then convince ur parent's...... Both the parent's and if u cant do that ,,,, then's..... earn lot's and lot's and money 's and go and settle in other part of world,,,,,,,,
but remember's........... just convince ur parent's..... tell them u cant marry any other person.... simple......... even if they force u to marry another person tell that person that u love anothr guy , so the new guy will not marry U... it's really simple yaar.......
u cant marry someone else if u love dis Guy... it is sick.. it's not good for both of u people.......
and if if... notting is working well.... i am here jannuuuuu. i will marrry U......... so dint take any stupid step's and leaving dis world........
but yaar i want we will have 11 children fine with U?
but dis is between u and me dont tell mY gurl freind. secret Ok??
hahhah ,,, just relax yaar , coz there will be a way ,,,,,
2007-11-23 02:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Find out How 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a Muslim the religious rules are a web that covers his/ her entire life!The Holy Quran contains the commandments of God. It Says try to marry a boy or girl from your own community.
Marriage is not a matter of few days or hours! It is alife long thing.
The so called young lovers belonging to different communities
forget what harm they do to their progeny!The poor kids are
looked down upon by their classmates and boys and girls in the street. That makes a deep aerk on their mind and affect their personality.
The parents who give their daughter in marriage to an infidel would be sent to hell only!
It is left to you to decide.
2007-11-24 11:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by The Tribune 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right, the most important religion is humanity and no other religion coz its humanity which is combining all of us and soon we realize this there wouldnt be any religious fights. Love should be your strength and not your weakness be it love for your parents or your partner. I hope you know what I mean. All the best girl.
2007-11-22 23:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well where do you live - okey u r in d western or European country it won't make that much problems otherwise u have to think twice or thrice before taking such a decision. convincing your parents wont work.
Whats the position & attitude for your b.f. if both have the guts to face the problem - i wish all the best to you.
2007-11-24 07:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love got no religion.
we all are humans first then anything else,
& no religion is bigger then humanity or love
girlie,
before you take any concret decision consider certain things
is the boy devoted to you, 'll he step out of his family for you or does his family supports you.
do u belive that your life will be good with him, will he be able to support his new family or new responsblilites.
if he need sometime to settle & take care of his responsibilites then wait & involve yourself with some kind of studies & pretend/tell to your family that you have stoped thinking about him & wish to make your own career & wish to do study further or do something, & start a new life.so that they don't get you married.Just be careful.
good luck
& take care
2007-11-22 14:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by the catalyst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You decide yourself whichever is good for you. No answer in this yahoo,can solve your problem and as per my suggestion, you don't take any body's suggestion into count. both side is important in your life. Try to make them understand towards your decision. Before taking decision think and go ahead.This would be better for you.
2007-11-22 15:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Udaya B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your one true love forever - then go with love
I hope LOVE finds a way for you.
Religion if you live by it, should be a guideline , Not a hard unbending rule that dictates everything.
Live your life, not have it live you.
2007-11-22 14:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two options
1. running away with him to some other place.
2. marrying him at register office
2nd option will be better if u dont want to spoil your parents name
2007-11-22 14:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by mathi kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm a muslim too.. and if you love this guy then just be friends with him.. cause if Allah SWT sees you married with him then you will have to become a hindu too... sorry but i don't think that you want to disappoint Allah SWT... i have the same feelings for some other guy.. but i have to think what will happen if i do my choice...
2007-11-22 20:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go & run with dat boy with away frm ur family & this bad wrld b happy
2007-11-23 03:45:53 · answer #11 · answered by MR.MIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋