Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

that makes your significant other want to ravish you!??

2007-11-22 07:59:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Several people share this home, most of us live in relative peace with each other, but one roommate does not. If there is something she sees that she wants, she simply takes it, regardless of who paid for it or who it belongs to. She has stolen from everyone in the house. She goes through all our belongings while we are not home and takes as she pleases. I have often found my own things sitting in plain sight in her bedroom. We have all tried approaching her, confronting her, fighting with her- now it is to the point that we are threatening to call the police.

I don't care about trying to reason with her anymore. Now all I want is revenge. Does anyone have a good idea to get back at her? She is probably the person I hate in this world right now, if for nothing more than her selfish, arrogant and childish behavior. She's taking my money, jewelry, clothes, movies, gadgets...I'm being robbed in my own home!! I've had enough!!

2007-11-22 07:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what if he has the proceedure and then decides he does want kids?

2007-11-22 07:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true if a man has sex more often he lasts longer??

2007-11-22 07:46:27 · 18 answers · asked by jilliebean_777 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this guy for about a year now, we met at the local bar we both hangout at. I would see him every couple weeks up there and we would chat, I was never really interested in him but he always seemed into me, then he asked me to dinner. the first time we hungout alone, he drove me home.the second time we hungout i slet in the bed with him and only cuddled. the third time we both drank a little too much and ended up having good sex. was is to soon?he is 32 im 27. What position should we both be in now?

2007-11-22 07:45:37 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my little sister has a huge tub or freakin' markers and they all work fine. my sister has a school project due in like 2 weeks and my she decided to start the project now....she needs to use markers for the project, so she sits at the table and tells my mom that she needs to use markers for her project. so my mom goes into my room and goes into my desk and takes all of my markers (btw- these markers are no Crayola they are expensive and i bought them myself) she starts to scream at me because i don't want my little sister using them my mom says all of her markers are dryed out when they are perfectly FINE! now everyone is looking at me like i am the bad guy even though i actually let her use the freakin' markers... my mom is not to happy with me now and i have no idea what to do....can someone help please...

2007-11-22 07:43:01 · 5 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*♥Vevo(: 3 in Family

2007-11-22 07:40:20 · 16 answers · asked by Mi vida 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do when there is a boy that youve gone out with and his three years older than you are and your mom and step dad make you break up. and we want to get back togrether but your scared your parent will find out. me and his sister are best friends so i see him every other weekend and days that we dont have school.

2007-11-22 07:40:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i need some seriously slushy heartbreaking poems and poetry, something to show my fella how much i love him and can't be without him,something so romantic it will make you cry.serious answers please

2007-11-22 07:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by SPONGEBOB 1 in Singles & Dating

Been with the boyfriend for about 2 years. Sometimes I feel he wants me to break up with him, even though he tells me that he doesn't want that at all, and he hopes we get married. He doesn't act as sweet as he used to. Part of it is I can be very demanding sometimes. I always want to hang out. He tells me the reason why he's not as nice as he used to is all because of me. He says I expect too much from him, and expect him to be everything, and I'm going to have to learn that he can't be my everything. He also tells me that I won't ever find a guy who puts up with my crap, and that he puts up with so much. I was upset because today he didn't call and tell me happy thanksgiving, but he said I never gave him a chance to, and that he didn't want to waste his minutes because it costs too much money. He said that he was trying to save up money so he could do something fun with me. We're both 20 and studying abroad together. Do I need to change or Am I being taken for granted?

2007-11-22 07:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Consultant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Married 11 years
girlfriend entertains husband six years
Got caufht in the sensual act
Wife quit work and husband quit work
Made a deal with husband
she wouldnt divorce him and he can keep his upper middle class lifestyle if she can quit work and live the good life
Husband didnt want to lose children and homre
decision after years of work
retired and let girlfriend support both of them
Girlfriend works two jobs and supports both of them while carying on the affair with wifes approval
Now six years later girlfriend is angry at no account wife

call wife lazy Wifes reply
just keeping paying for children and her and everything is fine
result girlfriend keeps paying
Children thinks shes a sweet aunt
Nothing is ever done in front of the children so they are happy
They think mom andad are rich

2007-11-22 07:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 07:32:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 07:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by Riya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when im with him i believe everything he says, but then things like this....i don't know what to do. i am really confused.

2007-11-22 07:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by sweetnancy602 1 in Singles & Dating

three years ago i meet a girl in yahoo's chat room,we used to chat everynights until she gave me her phone number.
after a while i found out that she has had another boy friend and is planning to marry him(her family was't agree to this marriage because he had no job and had evil character and everyone hated him)
but my gf who has always wanted to make herself a hero stood against her parents and made them agree by force.
in that time i asked her to marry me instead of that evil guy,but she rejected my request.
and she DID married but after a year they got divorced.
some days ago she called and explained their story and said taht she is sorry for her first choice.
i still love her ,what would you do if you were me ?(i mean get marry to her or not)?

2007-11-22 07:22:24 · 11 answers · asked by arash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-22 07:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 10 months, he’s my first sexual partner and he’s been with 2 other girls. I’m thinking it’ll be easier if we both get tested for STD’s incase in the throws of passion we don't have any condoms or we don’t have them on hand so have to skip and oral etc.

About 2 weeks ago, again didn’t have any condoms and ended up having sex without, that has been the only time we haven't used protection and we’ve had unprotected oral quite a few times (please save the lecture, I already know and i'll get tested anyway). He’s used protection in the past and doesn’t have symptoms but I still wanna get tested otherwise I’m gonna be paranoid even though it’s really unlikely. I'm more worried about HIV really.

How do go about asking him, I’m REALLY worried he’s gonna be offended and take it the wrong way?!

2007-11-22 07:11:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

view of the road after seizing me in a passionate embrace. I took her out for a run in the country in the car, stopping off at a nice country pub "The Snivelling Ferret" where they do nice "Cheese toasties" laced with HP sauce. It was her birthday you see and she does have this weakness for cheese-makes her go "all of a dither." She did go on the balloon flight earlier but survived it and really invigorated her. Anyway she grabbed me at an inappropriate moment taking us through a farmers gate right into the pig pen. This fierce old sow trying to protect its young stuck its head and shoulders through my window-considered Doris but then frightened by her, bit me instead. I don't think I will be quite the man I was. Dear oh dear-I am depressed. Can anyone help me get some new two tone Royal Purple and Scarlet waders? That Pig ruined them and I think that colour has been discontinued.

2007-11-22 07:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom joined the National Guard and she's in boot camp for 6 months right now. When she told me she was joining, I cried for a week or so whenever it was mentioned. But after a while I learned to accept it and didn't want to be the one to make her change her mind or make her feel bad about going by me crying all the time. But for some reason, now that she's gone, I don't feel like I miss her a lot. Like, it doesn't make me really upset that she's gone. It seems like it would though because she's the best mother ever and I've never been away from her for more than a week. I honestly don't know why I'm not crying and everything. Is it because I'm selfish? Or am I just trying to be strong for her?
Also, sorry for the sloppy grammar. Sort of in a rush seeing how it's Thanksgiving and all.

2007-11-22 07:06:27 · 7 answers · asked by Blargh. 1 in Family

I have strong mood swings with this guy. Sometimes I feel like I love him and other times I Hate him so bad, for no reason. I've been with him for a month. when I hate him, I want to hurt him and make him upset. What do I do? It's unfair to him. I don't want to talk about it with him because he'll think I'm a psycho. (I probably am a psycho...) what could be the reason ? what do I do???

2007-11-22 07:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex bf of 2 years broke up last week (not for the 1st time) he has shown me he loves me this whole time, but when i broke up with him last friday, and told him i didnt love him, he apparenly got "hurt" by it. i do love him, and i want him back. he ahs been texting me alot, saying that he misses me and loves me, but im wondering if he really misses me why hasnt he tried calling me. we have only been talking by text, and since he hasnt called it seems to me like he doesnt miss me. i ask him this and he says its because i hurt him by saying that i didnt love him.

starting today, im planning in not texting him or answering his calls if he calls, for like a week to see if he starts to see that he is really losing me. any advice? why hasnt he called??

2007-11-22 07:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by Pretti iiN Piink 4 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 question the first is obvious! I have been dating this girl for about a 1.5 years and about 4 months into the relationship she kissed another person and i found out through third parties that she did even though she denied it at first she admitted to it later. Although i still stayed with her it was hard to trust her. She is good looking girl "although she thinks she isn't" and has alot of guys that hit on her and although she doesn't tell them off when i am around she says she does when i am not there. Anyways about 8-9 months in she kissed another guy who was hit on her before and she told me about it and i thanked her for her honesty and asked why she did it and if she even wants to be with me! she answered she doesn;t know and she wants to be with me forever! It is not uncommon for her to spend a night over at guys house that i know likes her and has hit on her before in my presence and although she says nothing happens! Would u gal/guys still date someone if this happens?

2007-11-22 06:57:48 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow tear 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes an atheist. I kinda am too but not really, its just sometimes I doubt my religion. My family is totally opposed to atheism and thererfore, is totally opposed to him. I like him- hes good looking and talented, but I really dont see a future with him besides friendship. Plus, I heard that hes a perv and a player which when I met him doesnt really seem true. I was trying to avoid him to keep the distance but then I felt badly and weve started to talk on myspace/ facebook again. what can I do without leading him on etc? help! aLSO, i dont know how he feels. maybe he just has a flirtacious nature but might still want to be friends. what are some signs to tell..?? please help!

2007-11-22 06:55:38 · 2 answers · asked by papi 5 in Singles & Dating

There will be plenty of time in the future to live away from your family, why miss the best years of your life away from them? I mean, there are certainly exceptions to this but for the most part, the reasons are quite lame. Getting your own place so you can have irresponsible sex and do other irresponsible things is not a reason to move out. Sex shouldn't even come before marriage, but that's another issue altogether. Staying at home gives one the opportunity to spend time with their family since they won't be around forever. Plus, there isn't any rent or expenses, you get your laundry done and meals cooked. I don't see what the rush is! I am a 28 year old male and I don't plan to move out until I am at least 30-35. Life is good! But please, help me understand why people feel so rushed to move out and why women my age don't see the logic and beauty of this choice? Family values are not attractive? What a world we live in indeed!!

2007-11-22 06:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by Jack C 1 in Singles & Dating

because me and my best friend(that i like) talk on the phone for 2hours and sometimes i call and talk for 1hour then call later becaus she told me to and talk for 2 more hours. now she told me to call her tomorrow. just wondring if that was normal

p.s she is going to a different school now and we had never had a fight ever i mean NEVER(i known her for 3years now) she told me im the only person that she has never had a fight with.

2007-11-22 06:51:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it to her hard and fast and in less then 2 min I am done. I want to know how i can go longer? or be able to do ti more often ?

2007-11-22 06:49:19 · 5 answers · asked by Chad C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 4 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"
and now i think hes back with his ex girlfriend. but the other night i saw him and he had the biggest smile on his face. i saw him with
my friends..and we were sitting at a table..and it took him awhile to come over, but he came over and sat and talked to us. his hands
were shaking..and he was so sweet and friendly. but then his friend, the stupid one..came and he had nothing to say. he had this guilty face
on and he only waved to me. then the guy i like left with his stupid friend..and they were meeting up with another friend..and he said he
was gonna come back like 10 times, but he never did. i didnt expect him to cause i felt he was either scared, or easily influenced by
his friends, and they were prob like why would you go back. and now his default pic on myspace is of me and his brothers and he did
artwork on it as a joke. AND NOW I FOUND OUT..THE GUY I LIKE'S FRIEND..LIKES ME.


1. does he like me and have feelings for me?
2. is he using me?
3. was i just a hookup?
4. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
5. did i pressure him or push him away?
6. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
7. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
8. why hasnt he been contacting me?
9. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
10. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?
11. would he honestly hold onto me for over a year to have sex once and thats it?
12. do you think he'll come back around and we'll eventually go out?
13. if he's back with his ex girlfriend what does this mean? does he not like me? why would he do this?
14. the night after we had sex, he put on the fray song "look after you"..do you think..after sex he realized that he has really strong
feelings for me and got scared?

2007-11-22 06:45:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In January, I will be married 3yrs, we've always been sexually active. I try to please him which ever way possible. I even suggest different positions. I'm always caressing him, touching making him feel good. I discovered my husband loves porn. I had discovered sex web sites on my computer.. He likes to watch it secretely. It wasn't until the most recent time that he was confronted he admitted watching porno. He wasn't all truthful he omitted the sex chat room. I did ask my husband in the begining of the marriage if he liked porno. He said "NO", meanwhile, he acts all roly poly in front of other people. He prays 5x a day and preaches about his religion how perfect it is. What a big hipocrite. My fear is this behavior will lead from fanatsy to reality.

2007-11-22 06:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by doradogirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 06:41:09 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i gave my mom temperary custody then her health was getting bad so she gave rights to my aunt i never signed anything to my aunt or her dad its been 7 years now and i want her back she want to live with me she is 12 years old my aunt wont even let me see her.
Is she of age to be able to deside who she want to live with im from ohio i need to know also what steps to take i dont have alot of money to pay an atturney like my aunt does but i do have a stable home and income i do see her when she stays at my moms and i do call her everyday i hope someone can help me becouse she is not happy there she has told me that my aunt hits her in her face and leave marks on her she wont tell becouse she is afraid i want her out of there and home with me

2007-11-22 06:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by a.hilty 2 in Family