I have 2 question the first is obvious! I have been dating this girl for about a 1.5 years and about 4 months into the relationship she kissed another person and i found out through third parties that she did even though she denied it at first she admitted to it later. Although i still stayed with her it was hard to trust her. She is good looking girl "although she thinks she isn't" and has alot of guys that hit on her and although she doesn't tell them off when i am around she says she does when i am not there. Anyways about 8-9 months in she kissed another guy who was hit on her before and she told me about it and i thanked her for her honesty and asked why she did it and if she even wants to be with me! she answered she doesn;t know and she wants to be with me forever! It is not uncommon for her to spend a night over at guys house that i know likes her and has hit on her before in my presence and although she says nothing happens! Would u gal/guys still date someone if this happens?
2007-11-22 06:57:48 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow tear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it shouldn't matter if she's a good looking girl or not....does her personality even match the outside? it doesn't seem she cares too much about your feelings. cause if she did, she wouldn't even kissed anyone period...
it is cheating, any intimacy, with another person is cheating..if you would have done the same thing i bet she would have gotten upset with you and dumped you by now..
and it is uncommon for a girl who is taken to be spending over at another guys place...its wrong..and you should be ashamed thinking otherwise....but apparently you guys have an open relationship...so maybre you two should be with each other and date other people...that way you know who she is kissing and sleeping over with...
just make sure to have plenty of condoms, and know what your getting yourself into...if your so calm about her kissing another guy...and you have to think about dumbing her or not...she's not worth it....she's going to do it again...
2007-11-22 07:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how serious the relationship is...but after 1.5 years I would think that you all should be to the point that kissing would be cheating....if you REALLY want to be with someone you won't risk it by kissing....as for the sleeping over at a guy's house.....I'm sorry but it really sounds to me like she's sleeping around on you. You two need to talk and YOU need to decide if you are willing to put up with this and try to work things out or if you have had enough. Sounds like she is kinda using you though. Sorry and I hope you get things worked out. Good luck.
2007-11-22 07:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anthem Demon R&S addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is cheating, and if I were with someone who did what your girl has done, I'd have left them by now. Even though she's admitting to you what she's done, she's still not trustworthy...she shouldn't be kissing other men at all! She thinks she's making it okay by telling you after it happens, and that doesn't make it better. You need to find someone who wants you, and doesn't even think about kissing other guys. I think you deserve better and should find someone worth your time and love.
2007-11-22 07:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should still stay with her because it takes someone with a big heart to confuse to their loved ones. Especially since she said that "she wants to be with YOU forever" not that other boy she kissed. But if she ever says that she kissed another boy I would suggest that you leave her because she does not know what she WANTS. So just give her another chance if she makes an another mistake then blow her off!
2007-11-22 07:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, once a cheat , always a cheat, and if she tells you she is not doing anything when she spends the night at another guys house, you are just being naive, I can almost bet she is cheating on you on a regular basis.
2007-11-22 07:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...hm...this actually happened to me.i was basically you...but i caught my boyfriend kissing and i still went out with him for 11 and a1/2 months...he did that 4 times.please dont stand for this!shes taking advantage of you.if she really wanted to be with you forever than she shouldnt be kissing other guys...its ok i guess to flirt or watever but kissing is not cool!even though this girl admitted to kissing that other guy(eventually)she didnt tell you right away and even denied it...that means she really isnt as into you as you think.i broke up with the guy who was doing that to me and im now really happy!so i hope you can make the right decision whether or not this girl is right for you.good luck!
2007-11-22 07:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kaitlyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
provided that the two one among you the place on an identical internet site meaning he additionally might desire to kiss yet another woman. specific it may be cheating and it may injury if i in my opinion cherished this guy or woman and im no longer cheating look in case you desire to me you adore the attention and if your unmarried kissing all the lads you elect is great once you sleep with numerous them you will loose the honour guy have for you you would be loosie susie
2016-11-12 10:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating, she will continue to do this because she loves the attention and doesnt have the strength to commit to you.Dump her before she comes home with another dude's baby.
2007-11-22 07:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in a serious relationship and kissing another girl is cheating.
2007-11-22 07:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look here what the loopster would do ...ive been in recession for a while so bear with me
seems to me your girlfriend is playing you for a fool...its obvious to me and im a stupid 15 year old
2007-11-22 07:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Loopy-d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋