me and my ex bf of 2 years broke up last week (not for the 1st time) he has shown me he loves me this whole time, but when i broke up with him last friday, and told him i didnt love him, he apparenly got "hurt" by it. i do love him, and i want him back. he ahs been texting me alot, saying that he misses me and loves me, but im wondering if he really misses me why hasnt he tried calling me. we have only been talking by text, and since he hasnt called it seems to me like he doesnt miss me. i ask him this and he says its because i hurt him by saying that i didnt love him.
starting today, im planning in not texting him or answering his calls if he calls, for like a week to see if he starts to see that he is really losing me. any advice? why hasnt he called??
2007-11-22 07:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by Pretti iiN Piink 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
texting is a safer way of talking especially when people are upset.Why do you want to compound the problem if you love him by not talking or texting him.Talk is the key to working out a problem,not hiding.It sounds more like your trying to manipulate him into doing what you want.
2007-11-22 07:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kirk K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just don't like calling, my boyfriend of nearly 10 months has rung me all of...... about 3 times lol, but he always texts me and talk most days when we don't see each other that way. It also means they can really think about what they are saying before they send/say it. Just because he isn't ringing you doesn't mean he doesn't love/miss you!!!
If you like him, ignoring him will just make him think that you really don't love him and are moving on and this is what he will start doing. It will confuse him EVEN more if you go from ignoring him one week and not the next and won't have the patience for someone that's playing games. Just don't do it, ok (if you like him)!
2007-11-22 07:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been able to read your mind?
You ACT like he can read your mind.
YOU said:
"I told him I did NOT love him".
YES THAT HURT him.THen you said :
"I do love him".
You either do or you don't, make up your immature little mind.It isnt that he isnt trying to keep you, YOU keep pushing him away expecting him to come begging for you back each time you wound him.Honey, here is how it works in the REAL world:
Kick the dog long enough he will eventually turn on you and go find another master who not only loves him, but TREATS him like they love him.
You may have lost him for good, because telling him you do NOT love him then refusing to talk to him drives the nail on the coffin of "I dont love you", and what else is he to do?
Most guys who continue after a girl after she tells them those things usually get arrested for stalking.
You asked why hasnt he called, WHY SHOULD HE?
He CANNOT read your tiny little immature soap opera mind girlfriend!
If you want to keep him ,then YOU call him apologize for being mean and cruel saying something so hurtful and cruel to him and that you didnt mean it.Otherwise some other girls are probably waiting to jump right in there and show him how a REAL g/f treats her guy!
2007-11-22 07:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I say just keep texting. Some people find it easier to write their emotions rather than talk and possibly end up crying. Ignoring him might help, but i wudnt do it. Just remember every decision has its consequences be it good or bad. It's just a risk you have to be willing to take. Two years is a long time. well hope things work out for you though.
2007-11-22 07:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Evelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah...........
2007-11-23 03:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋