I have strong mood swings with this guy. Sometimes I feel like I love him and other times I Hate him so bad, for no reason. I've been with him for a month. when I hate him, I want to hurt him and make him upset. What do I do? It's unfair to him. I don't want to talk about it with him because he'll think I'm a psycho. (I probably am a psycho...) what could be the reason ? what do I do???
2007-11-22 07:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i tried to break up twice and everytime he tells me he loves me etc and I change my mind... Now if I break up seriously he'll think I'm just saying it so that he tells me he loves me
2007-11-22 07:08:23 · update #1
I know you don't wanna hear it, but I don't think this is the guy for you. If, at some times, he makes you unhappy and it is hard for you to be with him, it's not good for either of you. You'll most likely be able to find someone else who you enjoy 24/7!
2007-11-22 07:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by L. Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be funny but i think you should see a doctor. Also if he hasn't done anything there really shouldn't be a reason for you feeling that way. Maybe some sort of depression?? I suggest you inform him how you feel in order not to hurt him any more and try and get yourself in a better frame of mind before committing to a relationship. Good luck!
2007-11-22 15:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need a way to vent that anger ...take up a hobby listen to music that really explains how you feel, take up kick boxing (which in the end might not be too good for your boyfriend) but do something that will leave you tired at the end off the day...or you could just swallow what ever you feel inside of you and talk to him, thats what he's there for right
EDIT: tho im the only person with the thumbs up i have to agree with what everyone else says....a doctor visit might not be such a bad idea
2007-11-22 15:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Loopy-d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont hurt him. It sounds to me like you need some meds. what does he do to make you feel like that. You need to break up with him before he gets hurt. And then you need to get some help and try to figure this problem out,. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-11-22 15:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you either hate him at times because you are very selfish and self centered and he didnt let you have your way, or said something that didnt set well with you, or you are fruit loops hon.
If not then he is doing something to cause you to feel that way.
Which is it?None of us know because we arent in your shoes hon.
2007-11-22 15:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should see a doctor, or to go an anger mangement
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Gdd Luck
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2007-11-22 15:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor. if u reall dont want to hurt him and u dont want him to think theres something wrong with you, go 2 a doctor.
2007-11-22 15:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by April M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should break up with him and go and find yourself a psychologist.
2007-11-22 15:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to the doctor...sound to me you might be bipolar
2007-11-22 15:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and stop hating
2007-11-22 15:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋