Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

He has cheated on me twice already, but the first time was a week after my dad passed away and with someone much older than me. He knew my dad ment everything to me, but still he had to go out and enjoy himself. The second one was with his sister's friend. I want him to feel the pain, anger, humiliation etc that I've felt. So, should I cheat on him now?

2007-11-22 22:31:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-22 22:29:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and lies too....

2007-11-22 22:26:39 · 8 answers · asked by everij2004 2 in Singles & Dating

It's my best friends birthday soon. We've been best friends for 11 years. She's turning 11, I'm also 11. That means she's been my best friend since birth. I know lots of things she'll like but I can't decide. It's been a tradition for me to give her a teddy bear but I'm scared she's grown out of it. I always gave her a bear and she always loved it. Lately she's been changing though. Becoming a bit meaner. We are TOTAL opposites. I'm a bookworm and she loves sports. I love Harry Potter and she hates it. She's sort of a tomboy. So is something like a teddy bear still a good idea?

2007-11-22 22:24:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-22 22:21:51 · 18 answers · asked by Henry D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 22:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by everij2004 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 22:17:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because I stayed out a couple of hours longer than I said I would and was a lil drunk? (this rarely happens)

2007-11-22 21:58:57 · 16 answers · asked by AlexNP 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, there are moments of peace and good times. Not everything is a drag, but it is like part of your makeup. It's not hard to become sad again, especially when a relationship doesn't work. And the only thing that seems to help is when you fall in love, but when it doesn't work out, you are no better than before. Even sad music can sink you into melancholy feelings.

2007-11-22 21:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel very tearful and I don't know why. I've never had a proper good relationship with someone before and wondered, could it be because I love him? He treats me better than anyone ever has and after we have sex I just feel like crying but it's not sad tears. No horrible answers please.

2007-11-22 21:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by Mum-Ra 5 in Singles & Dating

hi all visitors
plz help me out
me n he had sex last night
he said he used condom
but when we begun,he said he hasnt
we had it 5-6 times this weak
that i think means i am pregnent
today my mum was extremely angry on hearing all this
what can i do
if papa comes to know....he will kill me though after that he goes to jail
he warned me before also that dont dare do such things
please tell me what to do
i know i have bad spellings
please dont mind.

2007-11-22 21:48:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Obsessed
Horny
Passionate
or sensual

2007-11-22 21:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On Halloween a guy I know said he wanted to dress as a girl. He asked if I would help him. I liked him and thought it would be fun. So I helped him pick out costume and got him a wig and some black hi heels! It was kinda fun shopping with him. We picked out a sexy witch dress/costume. He came to my house and I put some makeup on him and did his hair, He actually looked cute. So I started putting more complete makeup on him and some earrings and jewelry. I even got him to wear one of my bras and a pair of my panties. Then he put on the fish net stockings and hi heels we bought. I also put pink French press on nails him.

I had allot of fun making him look like a girlie girl! When I finished he looked like a girl! Pretty and feminine. We went to a party and a club and had allot of fun.

We have become BF and GF! Today he asked me to dress him up as a girl again. I did and it was allot of fun!

Is this going too far? Do you think it's OK to dress him up as a feminine girlie girl?

2007-11-22 21:39:39 · 21 answers · asked by prettiestgirliegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and 2 weeks after we got together it was my birthday, he bourght me a digital cam!!!:D
But now his birthday is coming up and i have NO CLUE what to get him.
Hes crazy so something exciting is needed...
PLEASE HELP

2007-11-22 21:38:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he went to our college to follow his girl friend, that's all I have to say.

we were cuddling and he brought her up, was talking to him on aim and found out he was at her house. ( we both went home for thanks giving) I'm just starting to get to know him, what should I do?

2007-11-22 21:37:16 · 7 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 21:27:24 · 27 answers · asked by cenkgurler67 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced and in my 40's. I have 3 children so I don't need any more. Since my divorce several years ago, I've dated women who were pre-menopausal and menopausal...and they often went so far off the deep end on me, it was truly scarey. I'm talking like picking up a hammer and trying to bash your head in because they found one saucer in the sink after you spotlessly cleaned the rest of your shared living space.

I've not been so shallow as to start chasing much younger women. And even if I did and got serious with them, they might want children or eventually go through menopause themselves and I'm not sure I want to deal with that again.

I'm not making more out of menopause than I should and I do know that for some women, the change of life does not bring on a deluge of behavioral changes. I've just seen it now in about 3 different relationships and if I have a choice, I want to avoid it.

So do women who have been through it just make better mates for the 2nd half of life?

2007-11-22 21:14:13 · 13 answers · asked by John S. 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 3 years lived together for 2. I made it clear from the start that i want to get married... since we have been together i have lost 15kg but still need to lose more.
he says that he loves me and treats me well... i love his company and him we get an very well together and have a happy home.
on the times when i have bought up marriage he says that he loves me enjoys me and wants to be with me but does not feel comfortable being with me at this weight (he has never been with a big girl before).
he has been married before and has 3 children, next year two of his children are coming to live with us they are teenagers. and i feel that, i am not to fat to act like a mother to his children or a wife to him but am to fat to marry.
I am worried that i will end up hating him.
also he is 50 and i am 29 ... the age gap has never been an issue with me.

Thanks for listening

2007-11-22 21:11:44 · 46 answers · asked by miawa88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys give an eye contact without a reason ??? What if they give a sweet eye contact for 2-3 yrs continuously????

2007-11-22 21:09:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday. we talked for hours .we seem to have lots in common . the next date is on saturday ;should we rip one anothers
cloths off ; or wait .

2007-11-22 21:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really dont know what to do anymore. I have tried to level with him on this and it still isnt working. He's very insecure and in his insecurity he resorts to accusing me of things and he approaches me about things that I really dont understand. Like for instance today he asked me if I still love him, I told him yet and wholeheartedly so, On asking me why he's asking me the question, he tells me it's coz I sat on a different couch to his last night...I mean REALLY now!! It's affecting me big-time coz I dont even know how to be myself around him anymore, coz I dread I'll do something which I wont read much into and he'll be thinking that it's a sign that I dont love him. He gained weight and he's always telling me that he's not cute and stuff. Hell, if I wasnt in the least bit attracted to him, I wouldnt be with him. I'm marrying this guy and I love him, but I'm afraid he's letting his insecurity manifest itself anf it might get really ugly in the long run. Sum1 plz say sumthing!!?

2007-11-22 21:00:01 · 13 answers · asked by Aloha 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this "guy" code really exist? as in, guys shouldn't date their guy friend's ex? I've seen it on tv shows & stuff, but in real life...

I dated a guy, but i dumped him, & then a few months later, i went out with one of his close friends (they've been friends for maybe 8 years). We broke up a while back, but not on bad terms.

Anyway, just wondering why a guy would go out with his friend's ex, esp when he knew that my ex still liked me at the time.

2007-11-22 20:58:54 · 11 answers · asked by guesswho 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 20:56:55 · 15 answers · asked by david r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 20:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3 in Singles & Dating

is he flirting with her, is he just joking around, or is he gay?

2007-11-22 20:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been with my man for 3 yrs and i love him alot and i have no plans on leaving him.we decided to have a kid in the first week by the end of the month i was pregnant,now our daughter will b 2 soon and im one month pregnant.im very happy with him.it doesnt bother me that hes married i dont worry when he is not with me.i dont care or think about his wife.he takes very good care of me and he loves his daughter so much,he has all boys with the wife.when we are together we are very happy.i have no copliants when hes gone home,we talk about living together but i dont care when it happens.i didnt plan on wrecking anyones home but i fell in love.i dont care or worry about the wife.y is it that i dont care that he is married.am i horrible person

2007-11-22 20:42:06 · 22 answers · asked by millss77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the journey might be thousand miles away.

2007-11-22 20:41:17 · 21 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Singles & Dating

actually i have been loving for three years but he did not had any feeling for me.afterward he began to be trouble with his n come to that his wife did not love loved him and she married him only to compromise with her family.now he is in love with me and says he is badly trap and will marry me after one year .he always respect me and we have not sex.

2007-11-22 20:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by dreamlata 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I usually grow it out, which I am again right now? Do you like it long or short on me? I like it either way, but how do you like it? It is short right now.

Short
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Or long?

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2007-11-22 20:37:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mean friendship by contact email

2007-11-22 20:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by shafique 2 in Friends