hi all visitors
plz help me out
me n he had sex last night
he said he used condom
but when we begun,he said he hasnt
we had it 5-6 times this weak
that i think means i am pregnent
today my mum was extremely angry on hearing all this
what can i do
if papa comes to know....he will kill me though after that he goes to jail
he warned me before also that dont dare do such things
please tell me what to do
i know i have bad spellings
please dont mind.
2007-11-22 21:48:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
papa means father or dad
2007-11-22 21:50:07 · update #1
You're an idiot to leave birth control in the hands of the guy!
2007-11-22 21:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always check that he puts a condom on or better still sort the birth control out yourself!! Men don't care about the consequences of not using anything until its too late and hes got child maintanence to pay!! You need to do a pregnancy test asap! I personally would have not said anything to my mum until I was sure I was pregnant. It's just pointless rawing! As for your papa if he loves you he won't kill you he might be dissapointed but there's nothing you can do about that any dad would be!! I know mine would be for sure.
Like I said don't worry yourself until you know for sure. I've read that if you get the thought of being pregnant in your head and you are convinced that you are pregnant your body starts to show the signs for example you miss your period, this has happened to me before which of course made me take a test and I discovered I wasn't and a couple of days later mt period came!!
Take a test!! Good Luck
2007-11-23 05:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't necessarily pregnant - but get tested soon if you miss a period. If you want your guy to use a condom, make sure he does!! If not, he doesn't need to be with you!! Condoms also guard against disease transmission.
If pregnancy is your main fear, then get birth control yourself. Pills, Provera, or an IUD are all excellent, reliable methods of birth control (more reliable than condoms, in fact). Pills can even be used as morning-after protection.
Hopefully you menstruate on schedule...
You might consider whether you are ready for a sexual relationship, also...
DK
2007-11-23 05:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by dooberheim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find out where you stand - get a pregnancy test done. If it's positive, then you have to make other decisions ... not easy, but your decisions.
If the text is negative, take this situation as a valuable lesson, and take control and look after your body and your sexuality, and do not leave your birth control in the hands of a man again. Benefit from women's fight for hundreds of years to actually be able to control our own bodies, our own sexuality, and our own reproductive organs.
2007-11-23 05:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have just relied on him - if you are sexually active you should probably be on the pill. There is a morning after pill which you can take but I'm not sure how long it will go back for?? You should be concerned about ST D's too- next time be more responsible. Hope you are not pregnant- you sound really young.
2007-11-23 05:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure how old you are or what country you are in... however, i suggest you abstain from future encounters with this guy and if you don't at the very least protect yourself and wear a condom. why would you even do something like this in the first place knowing you can get pregnant? well aside from this there are places you can go to help protect you. you obviously have internet access find a ob/gyn in your area that can check you to see if you have any disease or are pregnant. Please please please use safe sex if it happens again, and not because of your dad but because of you.
2007-11-23 05:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just because you are having unprotected sex doesn't mean you will get pregnant. there are so many factors. So wait to find out if you really are pregnant or not for sure before you freak out.
ok random side note if you are bad at spelling, I am horrible, get Mozilla Firefox it has automatic spell check.
2007-11-23 05:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by guymandude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to check it with an ob- gynecologist s/he alone can say to you that you are pregnant...since you decided to have sex w/ your guy then you should face the consequences unless that guy would ask your family to marry you since he is the father of the baby you are carrying in your womb :) if ever you are not pregnant then that would serve as a lesson to you, next time always bring "protection" with you if he does not have then offer him ur "protection- condom"
2007-11-23 05:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by fairlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doc and do a complete test...
Cheers
2007-11-23 05:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called a preg test. Have one.
2007-11-23 05:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋