Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

2007-11-22 14:27:07 · 24 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Friends

i've been with my partner for 6 years now, and kind of thought that we would at least be engaged by now. we love each other but i need to know .....

2007-11-22 14:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been looking after our 14month old granddaughter since my daughter returned to work in April.We were invited to stay at some friends for the weekend and she told us she needed 4weeks to book it off.I only get her shift rota the week she is doing and besides my husband works shifts and we have only been away once in 8months.She works in a shop as assistant manager and works over quite a lot.My husband told her we wanted to go thursday evening as he didnt want to travel on a friday as he has a bad back and didnt want to be sat too long in traffic.Well to cut a long story short we felt we had been taken advantage of long enough and decided to stand our ground and instead of doing all the running about we have told her that they must drop and collect our granddaughter off at our house when she is working.Up to now when she works a late our granddaughter has slept at our house.On the days she does days my husband drops her off home which is a 36mile round trip,which makes it a long

2007-11-22 14:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Big momma 2 in Family

why is it when you move in with someone you think why buy the cow when you get the milk for free.. don't you ever move in with that person to find out if they are the one for you?????

2007-11-22 14:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I just got married. And since he is a Christian, he couldn't have sex until he was married. Now we do it three times a day but it has gotten to the point that I'm tired of it. I can't tell if he does love me or not. What should i do?

2007-11-22 14:17:39 · 19 answers · asked by Pancake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been suffering from postpartum depression since my daughter was born, she is now 18 months. I had a very rough childhood growing up. But now my parents act like there perfect condeming me, for saying "no" and also not letting my daughter stay the night with them (they live an hour away and my mother just got back surgery, she can't watch anyway), and when she goes over there house, they want complete contol over her, and basiclly tell her that she dosen't have to listen to me. to day on thanks giving in front of my husband and daughter, to me I am destorying my daughter( I got pregnant the day I got married, they told me to have an abortion, when she was 3 months they told me I need to give her up for adoption to them). That my daughter is perfect I shouldn't say no to her. Just let her do what she wants. I admit i do have problems, But my daughter has a nice home, Plenty of food & water, My husband works full time and I am a stay at home mom, i dont' go to clubs,drink,or smoke.

2007-11-22 14:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica c 2 in Family

I met this girl a while back around September at a party, we talked a little there and everything and she said she thought i was cute. After that i asked her for her screen name and i talked to her on AIM, but even when i talked to her on AIM she kinda sounded annoyed like if she didn't wanna talk to me, and i didnt even talk to her a lot. I tried talking to her in school, i would say "hey wuddup" and she would just say "hey" and then keep on walking and ignore me i guess. I thought maybe she was just shy or something, but then i IMed her one day and she wouldnt respond or anythin, so i kind of stopped talking to her. But in school in the halls i see that she looks at me when i pass by so i dont get it, and about 30 min. ago i IMed since like 2 months and all she did was respond with a "?", and i dont get it, why doesns she even want to talk to me as a friend or anything?

2007-11-22 14:13:31 · 12 answers · asked by Leo 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, so lets say i have a girlfriend right? but for some reason when she is about to give me head, i lose my *****! im REALLY neverous, so im thinking thats why. i mean i KNOW im not gay, i def love girls hahaha...but its just soo strange i never thought that i wouldnt be able to bring it up, especially at this time. the only two things i could have thought of is i really am not that attracted to her, or i am just not ready. but the funny thing is when i think about it and when we get together i am SOO ready, and many other times i am. It makes no sense. help would be nice. thx in advance.

2007-11-22 14:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a woman sent you this poem, how would it make you feel?
I know this doesnt belong here, but you are really the only people who talk.


When you feel lonely
I want to keep you company
When you feel sad
I want to bring a smile to your face
When you are laughing
I want to laugh alongside you
When you are feeling great
I want to be your cheerleader

When you are hungry
I want to make your food
When you are weary
I want to give you rest
When you want to dance
I want to be your partner
When you want to fly
I want to be right there beside you

When you need some loving
I want to take you in my arms
When you want some comfort,
I will bring you soft cozy feelings
When you want peaceful solitude
I will take you to a quiet haven
When you want to feel love like you never have before
I want to give you me

2007-11-22 14:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm divorced and here's my experience and it has happened several times. When I tell a woman that I have a new house, she shows interest. When I tell her it's mortgaged to the hilt because my ex just had to have it and then filed for divorce 5 months later, that kinds of backs them off. When I tell her I live in the country, that's good but when I say I live on a working farm, that's not so good. When I tell her I have three kids (18,16,12), that's ok but when I tell them they live with me most of the year i never hear from her again. I've found that if the woman has kids, the new guy is supposed to love them like his own but when it comes to his kids, the custody agreement had better be the common2 weeks in summer and every other weekend. Why the double standard?

2007-11-22 14:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by bikinkawboy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 23 yrs old. I started college at the normal 18 yrs old and I had 2 take out a loan and use my mothers tax return 2 determine how much financial aid I would get. My mother tried 2 scam (as usual) and didnt put my father down as a parent living with us. She wasnt working for a long time so she didnt have any tax returns after a while making me have 2 take out a greater loan.

I couldnt afford it anymore and she wouldnt let me use my dad and I was very nervous about debt but because of this I ended up owing my school thousands of dollars anyway. My sister got an AA from a community college so it was cheaper for her. I want 2 go back 2 film school because I am a writer now and I want 2 be a film director. I need an education for this.

My mother thinks that I ruined my chances the 1st time (my 1st college wasnt 4 film) and I was stupid 4 dropping out cuz I couldnt afford it. She says I should just 4get about it and do a me medical assistant training since I'm 2 old 4 anything else

2007-11-22 14:05:08 · 15 answers · asked by Vicky Lovers 4 in Family

Have you ever gone to a social event, wedding, church and notice that the ugly chicks marry the charming, hottest, nicest, most family oriented guys? I have lived in different places with different environments (Cancun, NYC, Connecticut, Kentucky, Tennessee, California, Texas.) and I have noticed that all the hot chicks are always single currently dating the average looking assholes that treat them like garbage. I started thinking about it and I came out with a couple of the possible reasons about this Phenomenon:

Advantages of being with an ugly chick:

1. It is easier to be yourself because they do not have high expectations.
2. You do not have any competition.
3. You are the best she can do.
4. They do not have 1000 guys trying to get in their pants therefore they tend to trust you.
5. Less vain therefore an ugly chick will have more time to take care of you.
6 She does not think she is God's gift to earth and behaves like a real human been.
7. Will please you sexually because she wants to make sure her man doesn't try to find "it" outside the house.
8. They are more likely to forgive infidelity.
9. Most of the times make the best mothers cause there is nothing besides her family (model shots, clubs, bars, girls night outs).
10. Tend to fall in love easier.
11. They are humble.
12. This society has not taught them that they are sexual objects and they are not ****** up in their mind.

Disadvantages of being with a hot chick:

1. They always think they can do better.
2. They always think there is someone else waiting if you do not work out.
3. They judge you.
4. They feel every man look at them like a piece of ***.
5. They are more likely to cheat.
6. They like challenges and enjoy games/jerks and assholes. (Even though they say the opposite)
7. What they say is far apart from what they really mean.
9. They are mean towards unattractive people even though we are all equal.
10. They do not trust anybody.
11. They love having "special" friends.
12. Your bestfriends will aways want to **** her.

I am not saying that is the reason why but I guess that could be some of the reasons.
I guess if the hot chick wants to compete against the ugly girls they need to adopt some of the ugly chick behaviors and ideals, this could be a hard task for the hot chicks because I have noticed how they are treated, raised and educated different from the ugly chicks ( the ugly chick does not know what it is to have a guy open a door for them or having the ability to make a guy nervous by just looking at them straight in the eye) but I am sure it is not impossible. Being this said I believe the worse type of women out there are the ugly chicks that think they are hot because they have hot guys hitting on her... they do not realize they only want some booty and when she finally wakes up from her dream and realize what they really are they already have 6 kids no education and are too lazy to get a job.

I personally want an average looking girl that I can trust so I will probably end up with a goal oriented, open minded, clean, college educated ugly chick that will take care of me and our future kids and that I can trust in any situation after all looks fade away but inner beauty is forever.

2007-11-22 13:59:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 13:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf (7 months & adores me) & I had a big fight last night which was over a misunderstanding, we have the best relationship but the fights are becoming more frequent :(, I do tend to cause as im insecure
Anyways I msgd him this morning saying basically I love him, he means the world to me and I dont want to lose what we have and is he ok with us..
He replied with "Yeah ill get over it.. You mean everything to me & hopefully this makes us stronger..Love u."
I responded with I hope this hasnt ruined us and he replied with "I dont think this has ruined us..When we are fine and having fun I am having the time of my life with you."
The last msg I sent him was im really sad and dont think ill be fine until I hear from you
His reply was "Yeah I still feel **** 2..Im sure we will b fine..Time will hear all wounds... Speak later luv (which he never calls me :()

Do you think I havent lost his love and respect and that he still adores me, im stressing bad :(

2007-11-22 13:55:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have been friends for about a while and have hung out and stuff. Yesterday at his house he said he liked hanging out with me, then he asked me out. I said yes. He says hes had a crush on me for a while now. As I was about to leave, he said "Its not that I'm ashamed of it or anything, but could you try not to spread it around that we're going out??" If hes not ashamed, then why would he care whether or not I tell anyone?? Why do you think he said that??

2007-11-22 13:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many times have you told a woman what she wants to hear and lie versus keeping it real even when she leaves an open invitations to keep on walking with no strings attached? I have wanted to hooked up with this one peticular cowboy that i have had my eye on and damn it man, i am wondering if he is going to pursue me or "this" or if he was just blowing smoke up my ****. He is defintley a ladies man and now i am wondering if i am going to end up just another name on his list? It would be o k, as i have just gotten out of a long relationship and i am not ready for serious things right now, but why lie if i said it would be o k in the first place.I was gonna save the horse regardless. I don't do this sort of thing regularly,hell he was the first "horse" i have "saved" cowboy wise.
I have to say the night was worth it. How long should i wait to see if he calls me before i forget about him?

2007-11-22 13:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay say this girl is totaly fit! 5'10 and has lond legs and toned! ANd shes tan and she has DD's but then she has a big nose and pimples and really ratty redish hair

2007-11-22 13:51:14 · 44 answers · asked by Rebecca J 2 in Singles & Dating

We're teenagers, and I won't take him out on a date because neither of us can drive, and it's on a school day and I have plans afterschool. I really don't know what to get him. I was going to go to Build-A-Bear and make him a doll, but I kind of think he's doing that for me because he said something that sort of implied that.
I'm really lost. So far, I wrote him a love letter that he LOVES, and a dog tag with our names engraved on it. I can go all out if I have to.
But the last thing I want to do is get him cds, clothes, watches, etc. I want to get him something sweet, romantic, and cute. Any ideas? I'm DESPERATE for help.

2007-11-22 13:51:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 13:49:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Should teenage girls or boys for that matter be spanked? The parent of the opposite sex might be aroused and then it is sexual abuse. Or even if it is the same sex parent it could still lead to arousal.

2007-11-22 13:49:19 · 10 answers · asked by openupfresh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in love with a man that is married with kids but we have an UNBELIEVABLE attraction " love at first sight" do you think if I have sex with him he would leave his wife? They are having problems from what I understand. I'm afraid to have sex with him because I already feel in love. I don't want to hurt again. But I know if he did we would be in Love, Lust forever.

2007-11-22 13:48:27 · 21 answers · asked by Kj 4 in Singles & Dating

This girl says she is from Indiana. And she went to Nigeria .because her parents died and she went to the funeral . And now she is ready to come home . But she does not have enough money for her flight home which is almost 400 dollars . Should I report her

2007-11-22 13:46:08 · 4 answers · asked by llgii i 1 in Singles & Dating

im 39 weeks pregnant and my brother has got social services involved with r family because he is suscidal and the social services has me and my baby down as people at risk but i dont want them involved in me or my babys life at all and there calling a meting which will have my midwife and consultant and gp involved pluse 2 police men can i just tell them i dont want them involved with us at all im scared they will take my baby away all because my brother is suscidle im really scared incase they take mi little boy away from me when he is born please give me some advice thanks very much...

2007-11-22 13:45:13 · 17 answers · asked by natalie 2oo7 1 in Family

Are there any good web sites for married people to hook up? Please spare me your comments about the morality of my quest. I'm quite aware of the moral implications. Thanks

2007-11-22 13:44:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I heard him cough his lungs out again, he's being a smoker for almost 12 years. I don't know what to do, I throw away his cigarrets several times during 9 years of our marriage, only to get into arguments, I bought patches, gums for him, but it doesn't work, he doesn't have the will or for some reason he's not inspired.
He catches all colds my son gets in the winter, I'm watching him slowly killing himself, and I don't know what to do. I ask him to ask his doctor for prescriptions to quit, but he doesn't want to tell him.
Does anyone have any sucess to get their spouse to quit smoking?

2007-11-22 13:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to have several girlfriends at once, and they all know about it. Maybe like 7. How can I achieve this? I dont want to marry them. It's just always been something I've wanted to try out.

Anyone ever done this?

:D

2007-11-22 13:43:49 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 2 in Singles & Dating

I recieve social security for my depression, I'm seeing a therapist, and taking medication; but I've never neglected my child. My therapist has me bring her into our sessions, just to get an idea of our relationship and interaction; and she's said that I'm an execellent mother, that my child is well taken care of and growing just fine ( emotionally and physically). Now that my husband and I are divorcing he's threatening to take sole custody of her and I'm worried that because of my disability he might acutally win. Does anyone know what the odds are of me losing physical custody of my daughter in this situation?

2007-11-22 13:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay there's this guy in one of my classes and he said he was like in love with me last year and flirted with me a lot this year. He emailed me and called me about going to a concert together. We went to the concert together and it went well. Nothing horrible happened and i did nothing wrong. Then the day we go back to school he ignores me and flirts with this other girl really obviously in front of me. I know he saw I had a lot of txt messages on my phone from other guys. Is it possible he got mad about that? I asked him if he was mad at me though and he said he wasn't. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship or is gay lol. I don't care anymore cause i moved on and dated another guy a week later, but it still bugs me to know why he's ignoring me. I know it's definately possible he doesn't like me anymore, but i want to know what everyone else thinks about the situation.

2007-11-22 13:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-22 13:41:01 · 22 answers · asked by boardgamebob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think she was bsing but she said that her and her mom have sex with the same guy( she take a turn, then the mom takes a turn) is that the grosses thing you could ever do? I really don't know all the details, but she said that her my and her never touch another, but they will direct the penis inside of another????????? she is a fat liar???? or just sick

2007-11-22 13:40:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating