ok, so lets say i have a girlfriend right? but for some reason when she is about to give me head, i lose my *****! im REALLY neverous, so im thinking thats why. i mean i KNOW im not gay, i def love girls hahaha...but its just soo strange i never thought that i wouldnt be able to bring it up, especially at this time. the only two things i could have thought of is i really am not that attracted to her, or i am just not ready. but the funny thing is when i think about it and when we get together i am SOO ready, and many other times i am. It makes no sense. help would be nice. thx in advance.
2007-11-22 14:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you just need to relax. Sometimes being nervous can do that to a guy. Maybe you should wait to experiment with sex. Maybe you aren't ready. Wait until you're a little older, if you can.
2007-11-22 14:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready your not ready. Dont rush it. You have to be comfortable in every way. Maybe its just not the right girl, so you shouldnt do it with her. The right time will come.
2007-11-22 22:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by T I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be that you get nervious like you said you did.. what are you so scared of... She is the one that might be scared because she is the one giving you head... but you might just not be attracted to her or you are just thinking way to much into this...
2007-11-22 22:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have an aversion to your girl-friend being another Monica Lewinsky.
2007-11-22 22:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may-be shes just not the ur type or ur just nervous cause u are just nervous i mean if u want to be wit her just get over ur nervousness but if not let her go its as simple as that.
2007-11-22 22:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Smilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you think too much about how you are NOT into her.
STOP thinking!
I am NOT a guy [ obviously] but it seems reasonable.
Next time.......just enjoy the moment.
Don't think about it.
2007-11-22 22:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like ur just rly nervous. things will eventually get better
2007-11-22 22:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by hdsnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your having performance anxiety.
2007-11-22 22:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Hardhorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just love to get it.. two words dick head
2007-11-22 22:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read cosmo, buy some lotion?
2007-11-22 22:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋