Okay there's this guy in one of my classes and he said he was like in love with me last year and flirted with me a lot this year. He emailed me and called me about going to a concert together. We went to the concert together and it went well. Nothing horrible happened and i did nothing wrong. Then the day we go back to school he ignores me and flirts with this other girl really obviously in front of me. I know he saw I had a lot of txt messages on my phone from other guys. Is it possible he got mad about that? I asked him if he was mad at me though and he said he wasn't. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship or is gay lol. I don't care anymore cause i moved on and dated another guy a week later, but it still bugs me to know why he's ignoring me. I know it's definately possible he doesn't like me anymore, but i want to know what everyone else thinks about the situation.
2007-11-22 13:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well hun, it could be the date to the concert didn't go as well as you think it did. just because you think it was okay, doesn't mean he did. just a thought. also, it could be that maybe he likes you and is at a point where he doesn't really know how to show it or what move comes next. as for the texts messages, yes you are right, it is quite possible he is jealous and why he was flirty with someone else in your presence. the best thing to do, as you said you have done, is to move on. if things are meant to be, they will be. keep this in mind, too...if you did something wrong and are unaware of it, do you really want to be with someone who will ignore you, or would you rather be with someone who will talk to you, even holler if need be, to let you know what you did wrong, so that you can have a chance to work it out and better the relationship? i dont know how old you two are, but if you are old enough to be going to a concert, then you seem a little too old to be playing the 'ignore' game. just give him some time and some space. see what happens down the road. people do change under different circumstances. and as i said before, it is meant to be, it will be, whether you are serious, just friends, or mortal enemies. just out of curiosity...have you tried talking to him, in private, away from your friends and his?
2007-11-22 13:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Christine M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are fickle. Could be that one of his friends blew up his spot about liking you. Just do your thing, and if you miss him a bit, ask him to another concert of the same band. See what happens.
2007-11-22 13:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by mmaxinya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why worry about what others think, this seems to be HIS problem not yours, You have moved on and it may just have been on his "TO DO BEFORE GRADUATION" LIST. Let him get over it too and Move on, Don't waste your time waiting on try to understand the guy. You may never understand him. You may not have been what he was hoping for. That is why we date.
2007-11-22 13:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by littlerascal711 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the whole thing out of your mind. You moved on, so just keep moving on.
2007-11-22 13:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young men believe that if you ignore a woman, it makes her want you more. Works. eh?
Or maybe he's just no longer interested. Maybe he found some slut who puts out...
2007-11-22 13:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even more importantly, why would you care? Move on, there are plenty of shrimp in the sea.
2007-11-22 13:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sister Lourdes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's your typical guy. Find a guy that actually cares about you, okay? =)
~ Elle
2007-11-22 13:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Elle ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had a similar problem.
but in this situation, hes obviously jealous.
he wants you to himself.
and you just have to play hard to get.
2007-11-22 13:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YEA...iT'S PROLLY CUZ HE SAW THE TEXT FROM OTHER GUYS...iF HE WAS MAD, HE WOULDN'T TELL YOU HE WAS ...
2007-11-22 13:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by mizznancyk19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already replied to this
2007-11-22 13:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋