Im in love with a man that is married with kids but we have an UNBELIEVABLE attraction " love at first sight" do you think if I have sex with him he would leave his wife? They are having problems from what I understand. I'm afraid to have sex with him because I already feel in love. I don't want to hurt again. But I know if he did we would be in Love, Lust forever.
2007-11-22 13:48:27 · 21 answers · asked by Kj 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes if you promise to be his personal s l u t.
2007-11-22 13:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ew! Why would you want a man who'd screw his own kids over for a fling! And the "problems"? Sure they are having problems...and she's called YOU. Grow up, girl, and leave somebody else's family alone. When you're married, with kids, you'll understand. Men who cheat do it compulsively. If this dude has problems and you really, truly do think you care about him, you will STAY AWAY UNTIL THE DIVORCE.
PS. Hate 2 say it, but...he's NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE from you, and if you bang him, you'll not not only destroy your "friendship" forever, what WILL HAPPEN IS he WILL ridicule you behind your back: to his friends, his family, and his coworkers...for YEARS. Anyone who will listen, because he will want to put the blame on his marriage breaking up on somebody else besides himself!! Even "nice guys" do this!! (Personal experience speaking here.) You want to be made fun of?? What kind of woman wants THAT????!!!!
PSS. Screw it, have sex, then write another whiny question AFTER you get gonorrhea, and he leaves you at 8 months pregnant for a "hotter", newer chick.
2007-11-22 13:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
BAD IDEA!! He is less likely to leave his wife if you do have sex with him. Why would he, he could have his cake and eat it too. Of course he is going to tell you that they are having problems. And if he leaves his wife for you, who's to say that he wouldn't leave you for the next woman?? Please be smart about this. If you do sleep with him and he doesn't leave his wife(most likely scenario) and this all blows up in your guys' face you will be the one that looks bad, you'll be the whore and home wrecker. He will be the husband that strayed because of some harlot but has been forgiven and all is good. It's an awful double standard but is usually what happens. It is ignorant to believe that you and him are different.
2007-11-22 14:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so let me tell you the absolute truth and honest no being mean just honest.
NO NO NO DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!.
No hes not going to leave his wife for you. which is what alot of women/GIRLS think but really its just an unrealistic veiw that gets them hurt and used.
You arent in LOVE you are in LUST and thats it.
he has KIDS! Imagine what thats doing to them!
You really want to be the reason that he leaves his wife if thats what even happens which is really unlikey.
My father left my mom cause he was cheating on her and i havent seen him much since them. i think he is the biggest a hole ever and the women he cheated with.
I hate her guts and think that if she ever got cheated on It would totally be a good thing and she deserves it
Honestly once a cheater always a cheater anyways
2007-11-22 13:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Delena J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a nice single very available man. This guy is married, and chances are the only marital problems he is having is himself being faithful to his wife. Don't break up this family seeking something that is never really going to happen for you. Even if he did leave his wife, he'll cheat on you.
2007-11-22 13:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a. Take a cold shower.
b. Grow up.
c. Get counseling.
d. Make some friends (both sexes).
e. Join a spiritual group.
f. Finally, leave this guy alone. If he would leave his wife and kids for you, what makes you think he won't leave you when something better comes along.
2007-11-22 13:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by pypers_son 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad... do you think that a man that cheats on someone whom he's shared his life and kids will "leave everything for you". come on!! don't be stupid and think that it would last forever, remember you would be his lover. and if he has problems with his wife, let let him go and if the relationship ends in divorce, good for you, but at least you weren't the one that pushed things and he'll respect you more for not sleeping with him until after his divorce and maybe that will be the foundation for a strong and long relationship with him.
2007-11-22 13:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by chancro 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you want him if he would? what makes you think if he cant be faithful to his wife he will treat you any better? a cheater cheats thats what he does and is. find a nice man who wants a relationship with YOU ,not someone elses leftovers. He has shown you that commitment means NOTHING to him. You have the SAME thing between your legs that his wife does....Yours is not magic and will not turn him into a decent man with one hit. He is a cheating loser find your own man.
2007-11-22 13:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by choklit-chika 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you have to stay away with married man... please. I don't believe in "love at first sight", it's just physical attraction and the fact that he is having problems in his marriage, he is just using you feel up the gap right now. Leave and give this family a chance, okey? There is a kid involved, just be considerate and not to be a loser.
2007-11-22 13:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by margarita lady 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why would you do that to someone? to salvage his reputation for his kids, what would you think if you were his kid? What about his wife? Hello! Till death do us part?
If he would leave his kids and wife for you, god bless his soul he's got a lot of work to do. He needs to prioritize what's really important in his life. Even if his wife and him are having "problems". No
2007-11-22 13:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea, sure, if you want to be a HOMEWRECKER!!!
Find another guy who isn't married and go after him. Or wait for him to get completely divorced first.
Those butterflies you feel for him now, those will fade away eventually (probably faster than you think).
2007-11-22 13:56:08 · answer #11 · answered by qu1ck80 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋