my friend is ignoring me and i don't know why?

Question

My guy friend and I were fine about .. a month or so ago, and then all of a sudden he stopped texting me and stuff - I texted him like four time since asking him if i've done something to upset him and if so i'm sorry - what was it that i'd done wrong? But nothing still, and then today i confronted him at school - he wouldn't even look at me and i literally had to hold onto his arm to stop him walking away - after about a minute of me saying 'whats wrong please tell me? why are you ignoring me? ' i let go because he wasnt doing anything or saying anything and walked away - what do i do ? please don't say leave it he can't be a good friend because we have been friends for a few years now and I don't want to throw everything away.

Answer 1

IF he wont listen to u get a friend to talk to him or his best guy friend to talk. Dont let this guy do u like that. What did u do? Nothing. He is just being a guy! Lol Get someone else to talk to him

Answer 2

this might be hard to hear but he is not the good friend you think he is. a good friend and a true friend would tell you what happened, if you did something wrong or if they are mad at you.

it is hard to deal with when your friend is ignoring you and you have no idea why. you need to try and talk to him one more time. and something along the lines of -

"listen i do not know why you will not talk to me. but that's fine. i am not going to wait around forever. we are still friends but until you can come to me as a real friend and tell me what is the matter, then I will just leave you be. but just know that our friendship will forever change if you can not talk to me".

it's hard to do but he;s obviously not worrying himself over this. you shouldn't either. he might come around, he might not. but go on as you would, don't cut all contact off but don't make the first contact. i am sure he will tell you at some point, and if he does not, then he does not deserve your friendship.

sometimes people just change and they do not know how to tell people what the matter is.

so leave it as it is now. because a real friend would want to talk things out. and of course you do not want to throw it all away but this is not fair to you. and sometimes when a friendship reaches a point like this, sometimes you just have to take the times you spent together, become your own person and love your life as it is, without your friend but always cherish the time you spent together.

good luck and i really hope your friend comes around

Answer 3

Well i would wait a little and see if anything clears up and if ur really scared call him on the phone cus the worst thing he can do is hang up on u and if u guys r really best friends he wouldnt do that. Or e-mail him what u really think and tell him u wish everything could back to normal and we could be friends

i mean when u think about it its not really fair for him not to tell u its kinda stupid actually

while u decided to do anything think of everything big u did or said that included him someway

Answer 4

I think that someone may have told him something untrue about you and he may be the type to listen to what others say instead of confronting the person at hand. If he won't talk to you i think you should get one of his friend to see if someone may have started a rumor.

Answer 5

i would say let him go but since thats not what you want to hear i'll give you a better answer.give it some time.he's a guy,you know how guys are.he'll come to his sences sooner or later.don't keep bothering him about it though.mabey it's not you.there might be something on his mind.be patient.

Answer 6

Simple don't text write a real letter and ask him what going on sometime more real that modern applicances...