My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We really love each other, but things are a lot different. When we first started dating, he was very loving and understanding. We broke up a couple times, twice because he liked another girl, once because I liked another guy. We got over it and it's been a while, but we started fighting a lot. I told him I feel like he's taking advantage of me. I do everything for him and all I ask for is a little affection in return. Whenever I ask him to sit or cuddle with me, there's always an excuse. Also, when we fight, he can never admit that he's in the wrong also and we fight...a lot. I'm always the person apoligizing. Plus, he knows it bothers me, but he tells me that he doesn't come to family functions with me because we're not married, but then when I ask him if he thinks we will ever get married, he says he doesn't think about the future and you never know what will happen. I thought he was my soul mate, but am I just wasting my time?
2007-11-22 11:34:06 · 3 answers · asked by Katie 102404 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Face it. this relationship has run it's course. You are just Ms. Right Now, not Mrs. Right.
Dump him already and find a man who will treat you like the beautiful woman that you are.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 11:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're wasting your time. People don't fall out of love because they happen to notice someone else. They notice or not, but they stay with the person they're with, because they happen to love that person. Besides, you're both very young. Date a bit, before you settle on any guy. You'll have fun while your doing it and learn a lot about what you want and like in a guy. Be young, have fun.
2007-11-22 11:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by racheldarling@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he isn't giving you what you want. Time doesn't make it better - it just gets worse.
2007-11-22 12:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋