I've been with my girlfriend 6 months, shes 17 and i'm 19, we are both virgins, but i feel close to her,
is this to early to bring up about having sex? how do i go about it?
2007-11-22 12:23:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure she is ready and use protection
dont push her make sure she is willing and wants to 100%
just let it come naturally, and thats when you know its right, when it just happens, and if you think the time is comming try and keep a condom with ya haha
2007-11-22 12:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by christine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Legal age of consent in most states is 16. So, to address what most people are saying that IS NOT illegal. Tell her that you love her, I'm sure that you've made out and done a little naughty things. Let it come on naturally. It's not something you should have to ask for, it will just happen when it will happen.
2007-11-22 12:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by <3 I LOVE MICHAEL <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really all people are ready for that at different ages.
6 mnths is a good amount of time.. but sex generally just happens when the time is right. Not when you ask on the internet.. really when its meant to happen it will... just respect her, dont push her and spent lots of time on making her feel good... the more you do to please her sexually without having sex will decrease the time you have to wait.
2007-11-22 12:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how far you've already been. If you rounded the bases, and on your way home, now is a great time to bring it up. Make sure her parents don't hate you, because if you have sex with her and they file a report, you can get charged for rape.
2007-11-22 12:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mark S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not too early to bring it up. You should be able to talk to each other about everything if you feel that close. But bringing it up doesn't mean that it has to happen. Talk about it and respect each other's wishes.
And for people that insist it's illegal. Look it up. 16 is the legal age for consensual sex in most states.
2007-11-22 12:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you could talk to her about it but I think both of you should wait because having sex is a big turning point in your relationship. It can also come with consequences and I think that both of you are not ready for a child so young. You have your whole lives ahead of you. Talk about it but wait. I hope I helped you in any way. Good Luck
2007-11-22 12:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ari Came On 4/4/09 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should always try to be honest with your partner, and if you're thinking about it -- she probably is too! Bring it up (not in an obvious way) and just see how she feels - It's not like it'll kill you. The only way to know for sure is if you ask, and I don't think it's too soon to bring it up.
2007-11-22 12:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Jack Shepherd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just let it happen when she is ready.6 months might be soon but you need to be in mutual agreement. You will show more respect for her and love for her if you guys wait till mariage, she might think you are weird or she might think you are the greates guy in the world, but it will mean so much more to you all if you wait.
2007-11-22 12:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you know if you are ready. it doesnt really matter how long you guys have been together. what matters is how you feel and if the both of you guys are ready. first you should talk to her about it. if you can even talk to her about it or bring it up then you're not ready. just bring it up and see what her thoughts are about it and see if she is ready. just make that you wont regret it after and you know it feels right.
2007-11-22 12:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by j yanks 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I say u should wait at least 2 more months. U know, just make sure. The truth is that every desire is just a temporarly pleasure.
2007-11-22 12:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Screw u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋