How to even approach.....?

Question

I dont know what is going on with me. Sexually, I guess I feel attracted to girls....but I have found that lately....I think I may be feeling more than just friendship towards my friend Mitch. I am beyond mortified to even ATTEMPT talking to him about it, I love him so much, as a friend...brother even....but what if its more!? I'm so confused......

Answer 1

RELAX!!!!!!! Watch out for love buddy, there is a reason in our society WHY people are gayaphobic. It isn't about moriality or ethics, its about controling behavior. We have animal side to us, and the animal side could screw a hole in the side of a tree AND eventually develop a fetish for it. Its how imprinting works. Also as a side not, these feelings, have a tendency to sometimes pop up on us, but inorder to know the truth, you know more then me, how they truly make you feel. Like me I'm strait! Doesn't stop me from making myself sick once and awhile with some strange feelings. BUt if they don't give that reaction in you, then quite possibly that could be your prefence, you'd know better then me. Just making sure your not confusing it with the way love works, its a FIRE of feelings, and it can make a person feel that way..... and it not be the case that, that feeling excites them, like me it disgust me..... but to each there own.....