I like this girl. She also flirts me by asking questions such "do u have a girl friend?" or " When you transfer, I'll tour you,give me a call". When I call her, we talk as long as we have things to talk about, and when I text her, she responds right away. Me,her and her Mom are going to an overseas trip.
first of all, does she like me or is she just being friendly?
second, her mom is really carefull about her, should I ask this girl out, straight?
Third, what if she says no! cause, right now her mom trusts me and respects me. I dont want her to think wrong?
please help with this and make a mind to cool down.
2007-11-22 12:44:28 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She likes you AND she's very much controlled by her mother.
2007-11-22 12:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She likes you first of all, I would go to her mom since they are close and tell her that you like her daughter and that you would like to get to know her better if she wants. I think a protective parent who is asked will respond better then a boy who is always around her daughter without knowing his attentions. Then ask her out and I'm guessing from your clues that she won't say no. Good luck man and have fun.
P.S. be careful to keep that respect they have for you, there may come some tight situations where you will make a choice at the moment or to do what is honest and right. Do the right thing and it will pay off for you but respect is very hard to get, don't blow it over something stupid.
2007-11-22 12:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, she likes you. No one puts that kind of effort into a friend.
Yes, you should ask her out. Her mom will either go along or sink you solid. Either way, you have to ask her out to find out what is going on.
Her mom will respect you for asking and not acting like a weasel even if she says no. The other point is that you want to go out with the girl and not the mom. If the girl says NO, you now know how she feels about the relationship (friend or potentially something closer) and can move to whatever the next step is.
2007-11-22 12:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by WallBaker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask her after you get back from the trip, whats the deal. Just say to her I know we are really good friends and all and i don't want to loose you by asking this but do you want a relationship with me? About her mom if her mom trusts you now then chances are she will trust you more once you are in steady relationship, because her mom wont have to worry if your going to ditch her really quick for another girl.
2007-11-22 12:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All right she likes u..but if i was u.. i wouldnt ask her now..let it wait few more weeks... if i was looking long term relationship with her... either she would have come herself by that time give u more than enough hints or tell u clearly.. hey r u ever going to ask me... about mom well she would understand it lot better if u before taking this girl out seek her permission.. well her daughter is growing up and she has to have a man in her life and since ur tried and trusted by her mom.. i would think her mom would be more than happy that her daughter is going out with someone who she can trust rather than with someone who she didnt know...
2007-11-22 13:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sachin Kumar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHe likes you. I mean if she was just being friendly, she wouldn't be that friendly. Maybe ask her for taking the next step. I'm not sure about her mom, but if her mom likes you and respects you, maybe she don't mind you dating her daughter. Maybe she will think that its better off you dating her then some jerk. Get her before its too late, Good Luck !
2007-11-22 12:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by ~!Ashley!~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I almost 100% sure she likes you. I dont think her mom will get upset or anything. If she liikes you and you like her, her mom will probably respect her daughters decision. It will be fine. Just dont pull any crazy stunts on the overseas trip and be totally respectful cause her mom will be watching you guys. Good Luck!
2007-11-22 12:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Great spot to be in Just play it cool and go slow whats the rush she will tell you all you want to know just listen and watch for the right signals than confirm them by straight out asking her as the moments arise! Good Luck
2007-11-22 13:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by johnboy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bro, let me tell u tis shes definitely in love with u right now what for did she ask do u hav a girlfrend? Tell u what call her out ask ger out for dinner and play along. See what happens good luck bro dun miss a golden oppurtunity to hav a girlfrend
2007-11-22 12:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by SkyScourge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just go with the flow for a bit -- see how the trip goes. SHE may end up telling you how she feels. Don't be in a big rush.....it's not necessary. If you push the issue now and she thinks you are just friends, it might mess things up. What's the hurry, right?
2007-11-22 12:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the mom likes you as much as the girl. I'm sure everything will be fine if you ask her out and it's not at all a big deal if she happened to say no. I'm sure she wants you to ask her out too so do it already!
2007-11-22 12:52:44 · answer #11 · answered by Tim A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋