Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

I love sex and have a strong sex drive but when my boyfriend is always groping at me it makes me feel the pressure to have sex which turns me off. He is offended when I ask him to back off a bit.
What should I do?

2007-11-20 16:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for three years. My wife and I separated in July and I am trying to get some new ideas for coping with some things that continue to bother me - for example

I discovered after getting married that my wife is used to having her family act as a "safety net" when she gets in financial hot water...so i'd routinely "find" unpaid bills or nsf notices, etc

My 14 year old (from another relationship) moved in with me after I got married... she doesn't care how her actions affect others in the household, UNTIL she's in trouble (like running my cell phone bill up over $500, or getting caught stealing)

My wife has problems setting and maintaining boundaries with her daughter - sometimes toeing the line with neglect.

I've not been able to keep my cool with some of the things they do. Counseling hasn't helped. I'd like for my family to be a source of pride for me, but they alway seem to be wrecking my peace of mind, and I wonder if they give a sh--.

Am I expecting too much?

2007-11-20 16:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by Shell Answer Man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My question is...... Is it alright for a 21 year old guy to go out with a 17 year old girl?

2007-11-20 16:44:59 · 19 answers · asked by Samer 1 in Singles & Dating

haven,t seen any yet with a slow build up what slow filth but i do watch

2007-11-20 16:42:55 · 16 answers · asked by becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets see ..
I am married, had a previous break up. We don't stay together because of my job. I don't love him, its not a complete love marriage. I feel it was a mistake. I don't think I am a bad person, it is just I want to be with my soulmate. Now why I married, because of family pressure, even himself was pushing me here. But at the end I was the person who thought this could be best for me. But now, I dont feel even a lil spark, what a unlucky person. Months before my marriage, my ex cheated on after being with me for 3 years. Now he cries that I was his soulmate. But I dont trust him anymore. I used to pray for him every day. I lost the faith also..
What shd I do in my life?? Serious advice needed..

2007-11-20 16:41:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so basically i started my new job today and et a few guys who are super good looking, nice and we flirted all day. did i mention funny. haha, they were between 18 - 21, anyhow, im a junior in high school, i seem to be attracted to older guys. why? is this bad? what can i do. and pleas dont tell me stay in my age range, i only like one guy, and i get super nervous around him, which i usually dont,l and he has a girlfriend, so hes off limits obviously. so any ideas? haha, please. i got asked out recently by a freshman in college whop i said no to, and really regret it too. ughhh

2007-11-20 16:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 16:40:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we talk on the phone every nite and i really like her and she likes me. how can i make this work?

2007-11-20 16:40:31 · 9 answers · asked by jas 1 in Singles & Dating

a married freind told me he have some feeling toward me, and since then i ignored him and did my best make him realize that i don't have anything for him and i don't accept this at all. but the problem now that frankly speaking i am thinking about him a lot , and the last thing i need now is that i just broke up with my boyfriend 2 month ago and i was really really hurt , i don't need any other pain so what to do

2007-11-20 16:39:56 · 26 answers · asked by DIDO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 16:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

There's so much pain inside of me and I need an outlet ftor my misery. What do you suggest?

2007-11-20 16:39:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 16:38:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Long story!!!!!! :(

2007-11-20 16:38:25 · 39 answers · asked by Bo-bo22 1 in Family

i am 14 yrs odl and sometimes have the urges to want to love.. i get lovable very often, lately for the last 2 weeks i have been wanting to get a girlfriend and sleep with them and cuddle.

my question what type of men do you prefer?

very cuddly guys or tough tough "let me get some" with guys?

i am a regular teen, i crave masturbation, let em get some type, but when i get a real girlfriend that i really like, i want to be a snuggle loving and warmign man to her and make her feel warn and loved inside, so which do you prefer?

2007-11-20 16:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are very close and we talk all the time on aim or through text messages and sinse we live an hour apart we see eachother only at least once a week. He acts like he really likes me and he always says so, but he NEVER calls me and he is ALWAYS out with friends so we cant talk all that much. We are very open with eachother ad we tell eachother everything. We have only been going out for a month but i REALLY like him ALOT and he says he feels the same way. Is he just too shy to call me or is it something else?

2007-11-20 16:35:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found messages back and forth from her and my husband. They weren't actually sexual or anything, but they were definitely flirting. I have already confronted my husband about it, and I want to say something to this women about leaving my husband alone. What advice do you have on what I should do or say to this woman and my husband?? Thanks for the help!

2007-11-20 16:35:04 · 16 answers · asked by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why is every girl turning lezbo

2007-11-20 16:34:26 · 7 answers · asked by hytydd 1 in Singles & Dating

divorced?

2007-11-20 16:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and his friends think they all run us females in the relationship. They say the girls are the ones that need to listen and the guys could do whatever they want. They try to run but they seem not to understand we are the dominate ones.

2007-11-20 16:33:16 · 6 answers · asked by Little Sammy Sam 3 in Singles & Dating

Women would you still date a man thats unemployed and has a serious alcohol problem?

2007-11-20 16:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 15 and i mean a girl around my age

2007-11-20 16:31:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend really really likes this guy she met through family [but is not part of the family] and she doesn't know how to say she likes him but she's totally addicted to him . . . She wants to say it but she's too shy and even when I helped her to call him she immediately hung up the phone [while i was holding it!] because he answered... That's how shy she is , i'm trying to tell her to just say it straight up, but she's too afraid to! What else can I tell her?

2007-11-20 16:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so glad that I met you and that I can love you. I'm not sure who I would be today if you weren't in my life.

I've come to love everything about you, from the way you laugh to the way that you open up and tell me everything. I love that you are kind and that you care so much about those that you love. But what I love the most is just how simply wonderful your love is.

It’s been a short time that I’ve known you, but the memories we share are irreplaceable and I’m thankful for the good and bad times.

We might not always get along perfectly, we may have our moments, yet we always seem to get through them


I need help with the order to put them in and how to tie them together, thanks for helping ^^

2007-11-20 16:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Singles & Dating

Being in the middle of a custody "battle" i am find myself torn in the decision i should make.First i will say that main reason i was attracted to my ex is because he is such a great father, admitting that bring me to this.
We share a son who will be three soon.We both love him dearly and we both want what is best for him.However right now our opinions vary on what is in his best interest.
He says we should shuffle him back and forth,i say no,as i have worked my *** off at establishing a routine for him,as far as taking him to daycare,bedtimes,eating habits etc.I say he should stay with me most of the time as his fathers career his extremely demanding and i know that i will be picking up his slack the majority of the time,and why should i continue to live my life around his.
I want what is best for our son but i am not sure if he is just wanting the equal time to avoid paying child support.He says no but me my child have been struggling money wise to pay basic bils and i need the$

2007-11-20 16:29:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cant bare it anymore im only 19 and dont want this anymore. Whats the best thing for me to do.

2007-11-20 16:27:56 · 25 answers · asked by The girl next door 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've noticed a change in my boyfriend, he has a lot of stress lately mostly with his new job, and stress from being in debt, is it possible that it's affecting our relationship? He doesn't think he's acting any different towards me, but I feel more like aroomate than his lover. He's real distant and on edge, he answers me real mean, even sleeps on the couch most of the night, doesn't call me or text me much anymore I tried talking to him about it he just gets mad, and doesn't hink he's acting any different. I asked him if he needed time away or wanted to eend it he said no, what do I do, this hurts, I don't feel like hes here for me anymore, I love him very much, will this blow over? What do I do?

2007-11-20 16:27:55 · 17 answers · asked by coronaqt2004 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone has ever asked you out, and you said "no." Did you ever end up regretting that decision and if so, why did you say no in the first place? What happened in the end?

2007-11-20 16:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by Emory W 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for almost 8 years.
I recently found on his computer that he has been looking at internet sites that are a bit ...um... unorthadox.
Not the normal boy/girl, girl/girl, boy/boy stuff.
I'm taking WEIRD.
I dont know what to make of it.
We share a laptop - he uses it for his writing and I use it for school (I'm 27 and he is 31)
I've found stuff on his computer before (the first time by accident) and it makes me not trust him.
All of this happened recently so I feel like I've been lied to all these years. Like he wasn't showing me the real 'him' because he was scared I would judge him.
Truth is, what I found is so ... odd, that its hard not to judge.
I have to say I'm definitely NOT into it and I can't help being disgusted by it. So he is right that I don't like it.
8 years is a really long time and he is the love of my life, but I don't know if I am being stupid for staying with him.
I'm not going to say what it was that I found though, I just cant.

2007-11-20 16:25:18 · 18 answers · asked by boom chicki boom 3 in Singles & Dating

I was really felt like I didn't mean much to him. I'd do things for him, and get lackluster responses, and whenever I was upset about something, and I spoke to him about it, he always claimed it to be such bad timing, or he'd be silent for a few minutes and say he'd call me back. Apparently, he had better things to do than hear my feelings about our relationship or my grandmother's death (yes, my grandma's death). He nickeled and dimed me through our 2nd anniversary, after I got him a digital camera but he didn't get me anything on our first because he got laid off. I first met his parents after 3 years in our relationship. And when I found out that he was lying about not knowing how to cook so he wouldn't have to do anything special for me in return, it was the straw that broke the camel's back. I said I wanted to leave. I went to Europe for 3 months to clear my mind. Now he's changed. He's making an effort. He asked me to move in with him a month after I got back.

Is it too late?

2007-11-20 16:21:11 · 11 answers · asked by Angelisurifrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to get engaged in 2 weeks time.I have been talking to this guy for the last 2 months.i like him n he also likes me... but there are times when we r totally bored with each other.we dont have anything to talk,.. in fact he sometimes tells that he wants to call if off... i dont know what is happening.not that we r in love with each other but we know we gonna get married.. but still there isnt any excitement or love in the air.... im confused as to what is wrong.. ths guy had a girlfriend with whom he broke up with.,.i dont know if hes comparing me n her.........i dont know is it just taht we need to know each other more to fall in love.. or is it that we r not meant 4 each other.............i am so confused......we run out of topics at time... y is it like this? i dont know what to do....... i cant understand what do people talk in their courtship period.we speak max 2-3 times a day...n that also not much.i dont know how to keep him happy?p;ssssss help

2007-11-20 16:14:59 · 9 answers · asked by chimpu 1 in Singles & Dating