a married freind told me he have some feeling toward me, and since then i ignored him and did my best make him realize that i don't have anything for him and i don't accept this at all. but the problem now that frankly speaking i am thinking about him a lot , and the last thing i need now is that i just broke up with my boyfriend 2 month ago and i was really really hurt , i don't need any other pain so what to do
2007-11-20 16:39:56 · 26 answers · asked by DIDO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it isnt. Period.
2007-11-20 16:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Abolir Las Farc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in having a feeling towards a married man as far as you are not spoiling his married life. Married men are always experienced and will always keep you happy. Enjoy with him and you will really experience a high. You will get to know all the highs and lows of a married life even before you really decide to get married to another man and settle down for good. His experience will really help you in keeping you own married life happy. But don't ever commit the mistake of discussing this with your new husband. Dont waste your time feeling hurt. Look ahead and enjoy life.
2007-11-21 01:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Awdhesh S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to respect the fact that he is married. Second, if he's willing to cheat on his wife with you, he'll have no problem cheating on you either. You are probably thinking of him for lack of someone better to think about. Go out and have some fun with friends. Give yourself time to get over your ex and find someone available and worthy of your love and attention that will be faithful to you and give you the love and attention you deserve. It is definitely NOT okay to let anything happen with this married man. If he's having feelings for you and not his wife then he needs get a divorce BEFORE he persues you or anyone else.
2007-11-21 00:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want more pain, do not get involved with someone who is already married. That way can lead to a lot of pain.
Better to treat this man as nothing more than a friend, or if that's too hard, to ignore him completely. Just think would you deserve a man who cheats? You deserve someone who can be open and free to treat you properly, not someone already involved elsewhere.
Take care of you.
2007-11-21 00:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no and no again.
there are to many single men out there to start up an affair going nowhere and being a HOME WRECKER !!
It is wrong so start putting your thoughts to better use and stay away from him you are just lonely and there is not one good reason a women shouldn't be able to say no and mean it to a married man.
You wouldn't be asking this question if you had somebody else. Would you like it if another women came after your husband????
2007-11-21 00:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldent have feelings towards a married man thats in the bible,Your just really vornable right now don't fall for it only bad things will come out of it.
2007-11-21 00:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by so curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you can't control who you think about...unfortunately you will get hurt if you pursue him and you may only be thinking of him because you just got through a breakup and could possibly still be feeling vulnerable and are flattered by someone interested in you. That's happened to me before anyway...I fooled myself to thinking I felt the same.
2007-11-21 00:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by R.I.P. Princess {7/31/08} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doomed on 2 levels. !st, he's married. This doesnt mean that you cant be attracted to him, it just means that you cant act on it. @nd, if you did act on it, remember that you just got out of a relationship and he is a rebound, Take the time for you to get back in tune with yourself and what leads to your true happiness without the unnecessary stress of a love triangle.
2007-11-21 00:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men are off limits. I had feelings for a married man once and it is a complete waste of time, not to mention makes you feel dirty and worthless for not finding a man who can give all of his attention to you. It's not worth it. Just stay away from him... he is direspectful towards you and his wife for even mentioning his feelings for you. What a jerk.
2007-11-21 00:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by *the dancing machine* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you thought it was right, you wouldn't be asking.
Does the word "Home Wrecker" mean anything to you?
He's married. Hands, eyes, and thoughts off another woman's man.
Never, ever, ever, play with another woman's toy.
2007-11-21 00:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by hrcarr 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look to someone that is available . You will be in a bigger world of hurt if you don't . You will also be hurting more than yourself. Karma and many other things to. To thine own self be true.
2007-11-21 01:12:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋