Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

I like to get up and leave when we're done. What's the big deal?

2007-11-20 19:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by Vinnie Sciurini 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a couple months ago and have seen him twice and talk on the phone every week (we live 2 hrs apart) and he's already talking about not wanting kids (he has one with ex-wife) and whether I want any. Whats with this? Is this a little soon? Whats going on in his head?

2007-11-20 19:05:58 · 6 answers · asked by Dreamer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard many stories of people finding love online. How does it work? Where do you go to meet people online who live in your area?

2007-11-20 19:04:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male. I am decent looking, have a good personality, job and education. I didn't have a party mentality in high school or college, so I pretty much missed those opportunities to meet someone significant. I have gone on maybe two dates in my entire life (when I was 23) and to be honest, I am debating whether or not they can even be considered dates. I have not even experienced my first kiss let alone a girlfriend. I have put much focus on my education and my career, so dating/relationships were put on hold as no major successes had been achieved. I was wondering if getting back into the game is a good idea, or if I should wait until I am a little more financially secure with my own place. I currently live with my parents and other adult siblings and I do in fact love being around my family and of course having very few bills. This I believe is hurting my date-ability as many girls my age are overcome with jealousy regarding this.

2007-11-20 19:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean just the white people who do have a racial tension against blacks

2007-11-20 18:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by vballer4ever 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

chase after badass guys, even when they know it won't work? why don't they go for the nice guys...? i never understood this concept...

(and yes i am a guy on my girl friends account)

2007-11-20 18:48:20 · 21 answers · asked by Polygonia 3 in Singles & Dating

I have 6 different kinds of love

2007-11-20 18:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by what ever ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Last month my son told us that he was beginning the process of legally changing his name to Cash-Money God. I don't know the significance of it, but I figured it was just him being a rebellious 17 year old boy. He claims his real name, Ralph Finkelstein, isn't "gangsta" enough. Today he showed me the papers and all he has to do is submit them to city hall on Monday and it's official! I never thought he was seriously going to do this! As if this isn't bad enough, when my daughter found about what her brother was doing, she thought it was cool and told us that she decided to legally change her name to Jenny Juicy-Legs. She also doesn't like the name my wife and I gave her, which is Agnes Finklestein. Plus, she's only 16 years old! I tried to talk them out of this but they say I have no moral authority since I legally changed my name last year to Super King when I launched my rap label. What should I do with my 2 rebillios children

2007-11-20 18:43:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

thts all he talks about.is babies

2007-11-20 18:42:51 · 4 answers · asked by need 2 know 1 in Singles & Dating

I was recently cought smoking by my dad. he tottally freaked and my computor, cellphone, and i-pod were taken away. My mom said that i would get my cellphone back if i apoligized to her and my dad. it was easy to say sorry to my mom but its gonna be hard to say it to my dad. anytime i want to talk to him i start to cry and he gets angry and ends up yelling at me. How do i say sorry to him?

2007-11-20 18:42:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been with the same guy for about three years already! No engagement yet either! I believed in what he told me when he said I love you! I was weary about it at first but I was soon convinced that he did love me! He did things that showed he loved me. But then there were times like now where I feel that he doesn't care about our relationship? I'm fighting with him because he didn't send me the usual messages before bed! He still doesn't respond, I now have decided to stop bugging him about it! It hurts though because I thought he would care enough but he seems like he does not! I guess he is not that into me and that's what I am afraid of! I realized that I should let him show it without me nagging and see if he really means it when he says he loves me! I'm afraid that I may learn a truth that will hurt me! (I'm so scared and sad)

2007-11-20 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by I'm going crayyyyzeee! 1 in Singles & Dating

There are so many dating help-books that tell you that you should be a listener and not a talker, i.e. you should listen more and talk less. Well, how do you do that when the girl you are dating (or trying to date) is a shy silent type who doesn't talk much? For such a girl, what should I do?

2007-11-20 18:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or if have you heard of them or know anyone whos been on one? if so, whats it like?

2007-11-20 18:33:30 · 1 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 i lost my virgity about 6 months ago, i've been having sex very often with my girlfriend about 6 to 7 times a week.......
she's on birth-control but i'm still using a condom most of the time.......

is this wrong???????

2007-11-20 18:33:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sooo...I have been dating my boyfriend about a month. We had sex for the first time a few days ago and the lights were off.

What worries me is what guys think about the appearance of the external vaginal area.

My vagina does not look at all like the ones in Playboy...my inner lips extend beyond the outer lips and while they are not long and hanging they are puffy and visible. I am really nervous and having anxiety about what he will think when he sees it if the lights are on or if we have sex during the daytime.

I hate feeling so embarrassed and wonder what guys really think about vulvas that don't look like the ones in Playboy. Do you think my bf will be grossed out?

2007-11-20 18:28:54 · 35 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with a boy (just friends) and he's a really nice guy.

He's driving a new car and has offered to let me have his old car. It's a 2001 Mustang, and it looks and runs great. He wants to give it to me for free.

The car I drive right now is 20 years old and a death trap. Bad brakes, bad transmission, bad everything. It's gonna die any day now.

However everyone around me is warning me that this is a bad idea. I ask them why and they just say I'm naive.

But I mean...this guy is just a friend. He's a nice guy with good motives. He's offering to do something really great for me and I feel like I would be a fool to turn it down.

What do you think?

2007-11-20 18:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 20 yrs old and live with my dad. Im going to currently going to college. I help out around the house, keep my crap picked up and when my sibling come and visit i make sure theres food in the house and help while my dads working and so he can go out.

When should i move out so i don't over stay my welcome?

2007-11-20 18:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-20 18:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-20 18:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by abanti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so i was seeing this girl for over a week. then she thought i had a girlfriend and told me to "get your **** and get out of my place"


did i get dumped?
even though we were not officially together.

2007-11-20 18:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by jp4smiles 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my father has always been really hard on my about my school life. So the other day, after a severe mental breakdown, My mom took me in and i dropped my math class [ i was failing] and was demoted to another class next semester. During this whole time, i had a tutor. I forgot about my second meeting with the tutor, in which he chewed me out on harshly. Then, thinking tutoring was cancelled for the Thanksgiving holiday, i did not go tuesday as well. My father called to day and sounded like i was the biggest piece of s*** in the entire world. And on top of that i have to go to his house for Thanksgiving, AND i dont think the counselor EVER told him about the class drop like he said he would. i really really dont want to go see my dad, because every time i talk to him, i come home wanting to put a bullet through my brain. And a few times i almost did it to. What should i do??

2007-11-20 18:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-20 18:11:21 · 6 answers · asked by art_53074 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in an intimate relationship with this guy from work.He came out of a 8yr relationship 9mths ago and said that he wasnt yet ready for a serious relationship though we were always with each other and did everything like a couple would.But as of 2weeks ago he has suddenly became very "attached to me".We started making decisions together and he actually came out and said "i love u".He has become very romantic and cant get enough of me.We have even started carrying our kids out together and talking about moving in. i cant help but feel as though something is amiss even though i truly believe that he is genuine.Am i trying to wreck my happiness by being pessimistic?Or am i right to think that after not wanting to have a serious relationship and suddenly do want one now that probably something is wrong?

2007-11-20 18:04:23 · 1 answers · asked by Empress 1 in Singles & Dating

she is not welcome in our house. so the holidays and grand childern are going to be a problem

2007-11-20 18:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by lily m 4 in Weddings

I am a single, very work-focused female. There is a coworker who is married, but acts as though he has feelings for me (flirts, asked me out, pays extra attention). I have said no, but the thing is that we are both in the same field, and have a lot in common. He could be just having fun, I don't know. But, I sometimes think that I have a crush on him too. But, I am not the kind that will approach confess or anything. Any advice on what I should do?

2007-11-20 18:03:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 18:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that I've known practically all my life and have been cool with and I recently got buzzed on a school trip and got a little too close. One of his best friends told me he liked me in the 7th grade but that was two school terms ago. Everybody thinks we are in a relationship but he keeps stressing to me that we are "close friends". He acts interested and he even asked for my number but theres that "close friends thing that is killin me. I'm so confused is that just to show me he is not going to rush into a relationship or is he just not interested in me that way. He is very protective of me and he's always askin for hugs and stuff but I don't know what to think. Some days he ignores me and some days he acts totally interested in more than being a friend. I don't want to come right out and ask him about what we have because I'm afraid he might not give me the answer I want. I'm losing my mind over this!!!

I need help please!!!

2007-11-20 17:59:22 · 1 answers · asked by KAI 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel so jealous of my friend. She has the hairstlye i've wanted for ages but can't get, she has a really nice boyfriend and no boy would ever think about dating me, she has a great family and my family is totally disfuctional, she's way more popular than me...I just feel mad because she never works hard-she's a total slack-and yet everything falls into her lap. I work hard, i know i do, but i don't have anywhere near as much as she does.
How can i stop feeling like this? It's wrong, i know, but i can't stop. Please help me-i don't care if you're mean, just help me!

2007-11-20 17:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Think about you and all of your girl friends...if yall cheat once...would you do it again? and How likely is it if you do have a boyfriend and you go out with your girlfriends or just some other people to a club or where ever....would you cheat? If you wouldn't, do you think your other girlfriends would?

2007-11-20 17:53:09 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have (in my opinion) the best b/f a girl can have. He is smart, good looking, loyal, caring, ect... I love him to death but he has the WORST breath. I don't even like kissing him because of it. I know he brushes his teeth daily (he doesnt floss tho). I have hinted to him before that it smells in subtle ways hoping he would start paying more attention but ...nothing. How do i deal w/ this? has this ever happened to any1 else? He is a great guy and i dont want to hurt his feelings... but i cant handle being close to his face sometimes.

2007-11-20 17:49:21 · 30 answers · asked by anibelleaz1 4 in Singles & Dating