Think about you and all of your girl friends...if yall cheat once...would you do it again? and How likely is it if you do have a boyfriend and you go out with your girlfriends or just some other people to a club or where ever....would you cheat? If you wouldn't, do you think your other girlfriends would?
2007-11-20 17:53:09 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe not "Once a cheater, always a cheater" but once the trust is gone it's very difficult, sometimes impossible to get it back. I wouldn't be with a guy that cheated on me or with one of his exes, that's not a good trait to have.
2007-11-20 17:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by glitsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have never cheated on a boyfriend - I have never found it difficult to be committed to one person or I never would have committed myself in the first place. I think a lot of people cheat because they constantly need that rush of doing something wrong or the exciting feeling of being with someone for the first time. I believe once a cheater, always a cheater because they are continuously looking for this rush, which means they are all about themselves in the first place. I don't presently have any female friends that would go out and cheat on their boyfriends because I would not want to run the risk of them trying for my man and I don't find cheaters trustworthy anyway...
2007-11-21 02:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by becca311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, iv cheated before but i wouldnt say 'once a cheater, always a cheater'
I really think it depends on how strong ur feelings are for the person u are with .. If u really love ur "significant other" and would never want to hurt her/him then there would be no reason at all to cheat!
Yeah when i go clubbing and see a nice looking male, i certainly will look but would never go further than looking.. I know how id feel if my partner of 4 years cheated on me so i wouldnt want to do that to him... If im with my girlz, some will flirt and dance with other guys but the ones who go any further obviously dont care about their men that much huh!
2007-11-21 02:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont believe in once a cheater always a chearter because all people change.If I was out with my friends I would TRY not to cheat on my Bf.Even if he is a hottie! I dont know if my friends would cheat on there Bf's because it really depends on the type of person you are!
2007-11-21 02:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think at first probably because they are young and if they dont get caught they might think its fun without consequences. but once someone has been cheated on, or they lost someone they really cared about because of cheating on the person, i think it clicks eventually. i mean cheaters eventually have to stop (well, most) so yea it just depends on WHEN
2007-11-21 01:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are different our brains work different if a woman has cheated in the past and consequences caught up to her she is unlikely to cheat in the future, a man who has cheated will cheat again as he will never learn his lesson. He will always think that he won't be caught again.
2007-11-21 02:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi guys
in my view yes. a men cheats because he is weak from inside and is not strong enough to control his impulse,if he could not check himself from cheating once then it is more likely of him to deceive again in some frail moment.so guys never trust a cheater unless he got strict punishment for his misdeed.
2007-11-21 02:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by nazia m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.once a cheater always a cheater.but not only do guys cheat but girls cheat to
2007-11-21 02:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater of course
2007-11-21 01:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I can say that yes, once a chater always a cheater. Don't hate us for it, since it is only natural. Just accept the love we give you and try not to be so jealous of things that are none of your business.
2007-11-21 01:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋