Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

My friend is 13 and her parents dont allow her to use facebook, MSN, Bebo or any other chatrooms or sites such as these. Do you think her parents are right????

2007-11-20 21:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sabs 2 in Friends

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2007-11-20 20:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Slave labor?...

2007-11-20 20:59:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf had a wife who abandoned him for 10 years when he got sick. She came back for asking support to their child who is now in first year high school and my bf agreed to support the child. We met when they are already separated for years, and now we are planning to get married legally. I just want to know if we can still have a chance to get married legally if he will file an annulment with his wife?

2007-11-20 20:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone out there separated from their partner and got back together after some time? After how long? Did things work out?
Myself and Wife have separated, things havent got nasty yet and we have a lovely little 3 year old. Just need to know if anyone else has gone through this and got back together cause I still love her

Thanks

2007-11-20 20:56:16 · 7 answers · asked by Tris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont even want to look at him i just cant explain what im feeling all i know is that its breaking my heart.
please advice.

2007-11-20 20:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My b'friend is involved with some pretty dodgy guys through work. They get together almost every night and smoke stuff. Whenever Im around which is all the time as my b'friend doesn't really let me go out they try and hit on me and if I try to push them away my b'friend tells me to be a good girl and relax...I can never get away so end up havin sex with people I dont really want to but my b'friend says there his mates and they have needs and thats why he lets me live with him.

Last night I thought this guy was really nice and chatted to me a bit so I confided in him about what was goin on thinking he'd support me but instead he said Im a good girlfriend to my man!?

These guys have so much confidence just to walk in the house and start hitting on me and doing stuff knowing that my b'friend thinks they are his mates so are entitled to me...its like he is proud of it but Im sure these guys dont care they just come round to see him and use me buut my b'friend says he loves me?

2007-11-20 20:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-20 20:43:44 · 4 answers · asked by HS s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a relationship and I'm a very shy person.i cant open up to my boyfriend.And i meant dont dare to hold hands and do things other couples do.Maybe it's because of my past?I dont know..I got molested before and since then,I begin to be afraid of guys touching me and such..How can I overcome this?

2007-11-20 20:37:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and recently lost my virginity to my BF. The first time we did it, it hurt but it was fine. Second time we did it, it hurt like hell and felt like I had to pee. The third time, I just felt a constant need to pee. I always pee before sex, and right when he penetrates, I have an urge!! It's sooo annoying because I just can't enjoy it! It's uncomfortable. I have to tell him to stop every 5 minutes. It's not a UTI because I don't have any of those symptoms. Oral sex used to feel great but now everytime he puts his fingers in, I have an urge to pee!!! Am I doomed to a sexless relationship already? Plz help! WHAT DO I DO?

2007-11-20 20:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 20:15:06 · 3 answers · asked by doll 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she gave me her gum to put in the trash and my first reaction was not to touch it, I felt bad because I didn't have enough time to think that was going to upset her, she is single but in general she have a lot of chances with boys and I have none with girls.

2007-11-20 20:11:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

husband left 7 weeks ago but only just moved into his own place say he needs time to forgive me for the emotional torment ie taking him for granted not thinking of him when i just went and bought things even if we couldn't afford it. i have realised my faults and he says he is starting to like the person in front of him but not romantically, he gave me his wedding ring back (because i don't want to loose it) and if it gets reused by use great we have a 3yr old boy who misses his dad greatly, he says he doesn't know if he can love me again or wants to but desperately wants a friendfship that we can build on (and then anything can happen) what should I do.

I am trying to accept that its over but it hurts he says he doesn't love me anymore or that he can see at the moment until he can forgive me its a closed book.

I really love him.

2007-11-20 20:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by kittycat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 20:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by shalababes 1 in Singles & Dating

i just got a new job. its a very small staff of four people. so far, i really like everyone i work with. my boss is new as of three months ago. she's not very professional, but she's very nice. one of the other people i work with is a very attractive male who is my age. i wasn't initially interested in him, he's not my type. he's athletic and i expected him to be a narcissistic jerk (bad judgment i know). he's actually very nice. but i still wasn't interested in him because i would assume he'd be taken or he wouldn't be into me, i really just hadn't considered it. then my trouble maker boss made a coment suggesting that she's never seen him talk so much before i came. she asked me if i was dating anyone. (she's funny). i said, "no, i'm VERY focused on school and work and men are distracting". i wouldn't make a move myself, but if he were to make a move on me, i don't think i could say no. does he really like me or is my boss just causing mischief? i hope he doesn't. i like this job.

2007-11-20 19:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 19:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by sheetal k 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean people you've met either to date or as just friends. Just wanting to hear other's experiences. Bit chicken to meet people that way myself.

2007-11-20 19:48:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl over the internet. She send me a photo last week. I don't think I can say that I feel attracted to her but on the other hand I believe I must wait til I see her in person. She might surprise me when I see her and maybe I see things that make me attracted to her physically.

2007-11-20 19:46:03 · 3 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband used to use drugs & is now clean (I know via drug test). Had kicked him out then until he completed treatmt program. I had banned alcohol entirely from our home due to his overuse & lies about how much he drank. He "convinced me" that since he was "clean" of drugs that alcohol would be no problem, so I allowed alcohol back in our home-moderation 2 drinks max. His mom & he used to drink a12 pack/day @ our house when 1st child was only 2 mos old. Now he & his mom go out at least 1X/wk to a local bar after work & when she comes over here for me to cook dinner 2X/wk, I will have 1 or 2 with them, but I can stop easily, they usually don't. Moderation is no more! I have 2 kids under 2 and a half. Last Thurs, they were supposed to pick up a grocery order 4 me & failed to disclose about going to a bar but I suspected when they were late & both fairly sloshed-husband lied about how much he drank, as did she. I snapped because it has gotten so out of hand & can't or won't take the lies!

2007-11-20 19:41:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know she doed love me but not as much as my sibling it only because im overweight.so how would she really love even if im overweight.

2007-11-20 19:36:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My oldest sis told(not asked) us that she was having Thanksgiving AND Christmas at her house cuz she wants to and plus her adult children were all coming. Mind you we all have kids but they arent adults like hers.
Normally we all go to my brothers home and have gone to her home for Christmas. My brother told her well, we normally have it here and Id really like to keep it that way as we dont live that close......so to make a story short, she didnt want to accept that ans. My family decided on impulse last week to go to my brothers like norm. My sister is now all mad due to us all not coming up to her home. She says she feels rejected . She has always had her way and it is not going over well. Is she being rediculous??

2007-11-20 19:34:01 · 3 answers · asked by AB 3 in Family

We're very much in love, things have been gold for years now. We looked at rings a few weeks ago. I'm committed to this. I love her and I love our life together. The problem is that I have this amoral approach to sexuality and I want this other girl very badly. I still think I should marry my girl. But I don't think I'll always be faithful.

2007-11-20 19:30:37 · 44 answers · asked by Ginseng 2 in Singles & Dating

i do not like people to compare me with others. like asking how much u earning, you should go for course etc. i think its like comparing a rabbit and icecream , everyone got their own thinknig like some people put family first some put career first there is no right and wrong. how should i reply?

2007-11-20 19:29:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have associated with guys but i don't hav a BF. so some of my friends say there is a prob wit me. is that prob?

2007-11-20 19:25:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My GF lives in the Phillipines.Shes awesome.Weget along great.We love eachother.Im very poor.She's very poor.Im going to be starting college soon.What must I do to get the woman I love?

Can I get a star folks?PLEASE?

2007-11-20 19:23:42 · 7 answers · asked by SHOCKWAVE 3 in Singles & Dating

The thing is I see loads of pretty girls on the streets. I know how pretty a girl can be and therefore I feel like I need to be with somebody that its attractive. Unfortunately I am not too pretty myself and I always end up with girls that are not attractive. I know I need to be more open when it comes to a girls physical appearance but I can't help it to look for a pretty face.

2007-11-20 19:23:38 · 22 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Singles & Dating

i am really scared i told my mom and she thinks i'm lieing HELP!!

2007-11-20 19:20:19 · 28 answers · asked by Willie Wilson 1 in Family

The baby's dad dumped me the very MOMENT i told him i was pregnant, he also demanded an abortion. i didnt get an abortion so i went through the pregnancy alone , supporting myself, i called him from the hopstail, he didnt come to see the baby. i even took the baby over there he wouldn't even look @ her. I am pursuing child support, and now he is requesting a paternity test. its absolutely ridiculous becuase he already admitted he knmows hes the father, it was never in disupste, he knows i dont sleep around. Anyways, im worried he is not a good guy to have around the baby. he is 30 years old, has mentla problems and is obsessed with mary kate and ashely and hialry duff movies. his dad is also very strange. I could use the child support money becuase im broke and single BUT i dont know that its worth it to RISK him filing for custody or visits, and my daugheter might have to spend time alone with him - it scares me. shuld i just go on our way and not go for child support?

2007-11-20 19:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and she believes that he will never cheat on her.What she doesn't know is that when she's not home he brings girls to their house to have sex and he tells them that his not married.

So i dicided not to tell myfriend as it's not my bisiness,a my doing the right thing.She trust him too much and they have 2 children together and they've been married for almost 10 yrs.

How do i know this -My friend who is a friend of one of his girl friend told me.
She saw them coming from my house and she ask me weather i know that guy and i said yes his my friend's husband and she told me everything about him she even knows his name.

2007-11-20 19:18:42 · 17 answers · asked by zoleka k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and niece started some chaos with me and got my mother involved in it saying untrue things that I supposedly said and I didn't. My mother was upset and confronted me about it and began yelling at me and I had to hang up the phone on her and we didn't speak for a few weeks. Well now my mother knows that I didn't say what they implicated that was said by myself and she is now talking to me. However, my sister and niece are still acting like they are high and mighty and better than me and have always treated me in this manner. I don't want to be around them and I don't want there to be any problems at my mother's home during the holiday. My sister cannot leave things alone and I know she will say something smart and I have had it with her and my other sisters with the way they act because they married into money and thing they are better than everyone else; should I stay away or should I go and hope that nothing will be said to start any problem.

2007-11-20 19:12:00 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy 2 in Family