Family & Relationships - 20 November 2007

okay, so i understand this is an easy 2 points but i really need help.

okay so this guy really likes me & i really like this guy.
and i told a few people, but not everyone. But all of the sudden one of my friends is like "IM YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOU DIDNT TELL ME?" and now shes SO mad at me. And this is a normal thing for her, shes a bixtcxh. but i dont know, im just sick of being hurt by someone for no reason. i mean is it honestly a big deal that i didnt tell her ONE detail of my life? i know this is hard to understand but i just need help. she hurts me WAY too much. what should i do?

2007-11-20 15:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so my best friend went into emergency surgery yesterday and she was sick all day yesterday. it was a really emotional time for me and her. Seeing her in pain hurt me a lot. I went to see her and i brought her 2 stuffed animals, some flowers, and a coloring book incase she got bored. She got to go home late this afternoon. I went to see her for about an hour, but i want to do something for her. Any ideas?

2007-11-20 15:02:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im not sure what to do

2007-11-20 15:02:05 · 10 answers · asked by anne546430 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a million things going on in my life right now and I have all of the weight on my shoulders. I work a full time job, have a family, and a Mother in a nursing home that I feel guilty about not going to see every day. How am I suspose to lift some of this? (and don't say talk to my family because they all seem to think I have nothing to do or be depressed about)
I am a really fun, and easy going (which is one of my problems, I let to much slide) person and I want to be that person again.
Any ideas?

2007-11-20 15:01:26 · 8 answers · asked by MomToDavid 5 in Family

I have been married for 15 years but now separated for a month now from wife. She decided to leave the house and was not happy. Ladies only. What do women want in a husband in a man? I did all the cooking, majority of cleaning and laundry for most of the 15 years, can't remember the last time she cook me a meal. I also went to school to make a better life and finished and still did all the cooking and cleaning when I got home. It just felt that it was not good enough. I also make a good living. I am able to keep the house, have nice car, and provide for my daughther. We did not have sex life, she would never kiss me on mouth or hug me, have not slept in the same bed since my daughter was born, she would always sleep with my daughter. I know I am not perfect, but do women want these things in men or not. Right now, I just focus on myself and my daughter try figure out what I want in life. I want to figure this out with god and for myself. I do workout 4 days a week.

2007-11-20 15:01:22 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i tell my sister that i hate the birthday present she got me?? she seemed so happy when she gave it to me and i was kinda disappointed. id rather she not give me a present at all. btw, she gave me a bright pink lehenga bordered in blue and gold and i REALLY hate it and might prefer it in a different color, but how do i tell her??

2007-11-20 15:01:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

virginity is it odd to still have it at 16? and want to save yourself for marriage?
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because I'm the only one of all of my friends!

2007-11-20 15:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda Fay! 3 in Singles & Dating

please be patient to read the foll:
i was 19 & he was 23 when we got married. after two years of marriage he married another woman when i was 9 months preg. i got a divorce. me & my son stayed with my parents. my husband did not give any financial support. my husb & the other woman had a son who had cyctic fibrosis. after 10 years of marrige she left her son and my husb and ran away. my husband came to me and felt sorry for his behaviour. he divorced the other lady & we once again married. after my second coming i had a son and took care of his cystic fibrosis son. he expired last year. now my husband wants a divorce from me. he needs only my last son. he does'nt want my elder son or me. he drinks, beats & uses all filthy lang. to me & my children. it is a mental torture to all of us daily. even if i eat or sleep he scolds me for no reason. often he asks me to go out of the house. If i divorce my husb do my children & i have a share in his property? pl. adv. i need my children.

2007-11-20 15:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says that it won't hurt and I also want to kno, when your cherry pops how much blood will there be,how long will you bleed afterwards and will it continue to bleed after we're done???

2007-11-20 14:59:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My heart is broken into so many pieces that I have no words how to explain my sorrows??What should I do to get out of this phase?Please help me. Thanks!!! I am married and have two boys but my life is hell with my husband.He is a cheater, abuser,insensitive but I can't leave him because of my boys. I love my husband and my boys but I think my husband doesn't love me. Married for 12 yrs. My boys are 9 &10 yrs old. Help me out????

2007-11-20 14:59:25 · 18 answers · asked by anamika s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

divorced or maybe separated or maybe widowed or just unhappily married. Just wondering. Thanks for your honest answers in advance.

2007-11-20 14:58:20 · 8 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex-best friend has added my boyfriend on myspace. and since hes a year older than me and hes in a different grade i dont get to see him a lot. ive told him about how she threw a tray at me, but i didnt say exactly which girl it was. she's in his top friends but at the bottom.and im at the top. i shouldnt be mad...but i am and i dont know why. AND should i tell him to delete/block her? how would i say that?

2007-11-20 14:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I give this man, Soooooooooooooo,much respect! Because,he followed his heart! These last 2 women seem more content that he would say "Well,it's a t.v.show and I HAD to pick one!" Now, he's getting slammed for it!
I wouldn't want him to choose me,just because I was the last women standing in front of him.And be divorced 2 years later.And say,Well he tried.
I think Brad ,it one of the last true,blue gentlemen.He and all the 25 women committed to this show.Each knowing they may end up still not being married!
And although he didn't want to marry either of them.I'm sure it is not easy for him to break their hearts!
These women ,had alot going for them but, they weren't for HIM.
Why is that so hard to understand!
I wouldn't want to be either of these women! But, I want to plan the special day of rest of my life,with a man who knows he is 100% in love with me!
What's your thoughts?

2007-11-20 14:58:16 · 12 answers · asked by need2know 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so i got married on july 7,07 and you know the part when they say if their are anyone who thinks these people should not oin in marrage speak now or fover hold your peace? well my mother in law raised her hand and said " that i really dont think they should get married wait scratch that i dont feel like they should get married because she is a cry baby, she wants everyone to like her but i don't and my third eye is telling me that they will not last and that my son is making a huge mistake and he is way to good for her!" i started to cry and all i could think of is that she ruined my day. but since no one agreed she walked out and we got married instead. i am so hurt of what she did and then when we were on our honeymoon and called and told my husban d oh you made a huge mistake and you would regret marrying a b****. and now my dad in law invited us to go to their house for thanksgiving and i really dont want to go but my dad in law already paid for the tickets we are leaving tom

2007-11-20 14:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm in a new relationship (both he & I are in our late 30's). All he want is sex, Sounds great eh? Well, actually no - because I feel that I must "perform" "on-demand" The other night, despite me saying no from the very beginning - he became persistent - & eventually leaves saying "it's my god given right to have you when I want you" - which is the whole time - he doesn't see the point of the sensual stimulating play before hand - none of that - because he just thinks with his overly intelligent brain - he lacks all emotional skills in every aspect.. Now he's saying that my lack of wanting him is simply that "his love is unrequited" . I apologies if this is too "detailed" for the forum - and if so, please remove it asap- I just really needed to "talk" especialy to non-interested friends etc - so any feedback would be great - positive & negative - Guys & Girls - your thoughts, reactions, personal beliefs whatever - would be really really appreciated. Huge Thanks to All

2007-11-20 14:55:59 · 3 answers · asked by Gj H 1 in Singles & Dating

no women wants to date they always say its either cause i have no kissing experience or that i am a virgin, what am i to do?

some also say its cause im unattractive but i do take care of myself, get haircuts, take daily showers (twice a day) use deodorant and a use a sane amount of cologne. i dont get it, i tried switching up cologne but nothing. and some wont date cause of my lack of experience. im 25 years old

2007-11-20 14:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 14:54:09 · 6 answers · asked by GEORGE S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom is a very sensitive person when it comes to anything. And i've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and want to move out and in with him. Im 21 years old and very responsible. But everytime I bring it up with my mom she starts crying and we can never finish talking. How should I bring this up with her? Or should I just move out and let her feelings go wild. I need help and don't want to hurt my mom. Thanks anyone.!

2007-11-20 14:53:01 · 9 answers · asked by kissable_chipmunk 1 in Family

i want to make him something unique
i always buy him something and this time i feel it would be nice to make something
any ideas?

2007-11-20 14:49:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and i love him so much i want to stay with him forever.

2007-11-20 14:49:09 · 29 answers · asked by Lauren L 1 in Singles & Dating

or had a boyfriend. all ive ever done was held hands with my brothers friend at a movie, and he was high. so it doesnt count. but i did REALLY like him, then he got a girlfriend.

2007-11-20 14:47:28 · 15 answers · asked by Jillian 3 in Singles & Dating

who eventually told you "they were not happy", "loved you but was not in love with you", "believed you were best friends but could not be husband/wife anymore", etc, etc. How did you deal with it and eventually let go and move on? How did you deal with it if you had kids and had to deal with this person on a regular basis? How did you deal with it if they ended up leaving for another person?

2007-11-20 14:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a problem and im only 14 so there isnt much i can do..... well my mom has been drinking for some time now and its starting to get bad i mean to where she drinks every day. It never used to bother me b4 but its got to the point where she picked me and the neighbor up from school buzzed. and it really makes me mad b/c i am starting to have parties and she drinks during them and comes out and starts to be really anoying........ we can all clearly tell she is drinking to...... and its really tearing my family apart my dad almost went up to our cottage one time b/c he could take it anymore idk what to do most nights i cry myself to sleep b/c shes not doing anything to stop and when shes sober and we confront her she denies it or blams it on us..... also we tried to dump her liquore and whisky but she buys it and hides it..... then she promised if we stopped dumping it she would slow down but again she lied..... i really need help my dad and brother dont know what to do!! :'( plz

2007-11-20 14:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by UrbanGirl 2 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and he still lives with his baby mama.. I understand the fact the he might still be with her for the his child, but i just feel comfortable knowing that he goes home to her... what should i do

2007-11-20 14:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lips of an Angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My biological father who I have rarely seen in my 32 years of life is coming to Txgiving dinner for the first time. I am not happy about my brother inviting him, however, I am taking everyone's advice and am going to go anyway. My brother refers to this man as "Dad" (they rekindled their relationship a few years ago). I have yet to rekindle our relationship; I barely know this guy since he hasn't been involved most of my 32 years. My question is when I see him this Txgiving, do I call him "Dad?" I have always referred to him by his first name "Bob" when talking about him. I don't want my brother to get upset, however, I am not comfortable calling him "Dad" nor do I feel as if he is worthy of me calling him "Dad" What do you think?

2007-11-20 14:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by renea_phd 2 in Family

we both know each other for sometimes, and we chat many times. He asked for for date, it will be our first date. Is it okey to watch movies? what about if he asked to go privately. HOw can i say no that would not offend him.

2007-11-20 14:32:38 · 2 answers · asked by Lanie V 1 in Singles & Dating

he walks in on my and my boyfriend without knocking all the time, he goes threw my stuff, flips my bed over, breaks and steels things. i've tried putting things in my room that will scar him for life but he just thinks its funny and tells his friends. i have tried locks, yelling till im blue in the face, matury explaining this to my mom, imaturly explain this to my mom. nothing works im at a loss. what. do. i do? im on the border of insanity

2007-11-20 14:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by Notyret 2 in Family

Ok, this will be a bit long, but bear with me.
I have been with my "boyfriend" for about four and a half months. I am 28 he is 33. Neither of us have been married but I do have a 3 year old child from a previous relationship whose father is not involved whatsoever.

We dated 10 years ago for about 10 months, but were young and it didn't work out. We hadn't spoken in all that time until we reconnected four and half months ago. At first we had a lot in common and both said we were looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.

I have fallen in love with him and told him. And have naturally called him "honey, babe, sweetheart, etc." It just feels right to do so. He comes to all of my family functions. My friends expect him to be with me when they invite me somewhere. But none of that is returned by him. He says he "cares a lot about" me and is "attached" to me. I have been around his family once, despite him being close to them. He is emotionally distant

2007-11-20 14:30:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-20 14:28:35 · 58 answers · asked by Tica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-20 14:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Savannah W♥ 2 in Singles & Dating