Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and he still lives with his baby mama.. I understand the fact the he might still be with her for the his child, but i just feel comfortable knowing that he goes home to her... what should i do
2007-11-20 14:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lips of an Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmmmm....ever heard of the other woman? I can never get over the fact that people allow to be treated like they don't deserve to be treated any better....why??????? Is it wanting something they can't have or think they can't have? If this is what you have settled for from the beginning this is what you get.
2007-11-20 16:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the baby momma know about you? I know it might be an odd situation but I had a friend that went through the same thing. The guy was married then he divorced but still lived with the ex wife and kids. The ex wife knew about her though they actaully met! So I think if she knows about you then it is not really deceitful. The only thing I fear is that sometimes baby momma's can keep up so much drama especially if she starts to see that he is really into you like she wished he would have been with her.
2007-11-20 14:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lightning 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f is using you and the baby's mama for sex.You aint special to him your just a sex toy hon.
He isnt going to give EITHER of you up.
One of you are going to have to be an adult and dump him.
I think you meant that you do NOT feel comfortable with him having sex with the baby's mama when he goes home to her.
You have been played and are BING played.
Dump this guy concentrate on your spelling and grammar so we can better understand what you are trying to say.
Also, if he would do this to the family he made by cheating on them with you, then he WILL do it to you too!GUARANTEED!
2007-11-20 15:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable knowing he goes home to her then what's your question?
Personally, I wouldn't have put up with it from the first day I found out. You knew what you were getting into didn't you?
And now you want to know what you should do?
What is the first thing that comes to your mind about this situation?
You have to leave everything (he has told you or promised you) out of your decission.
Is this something you can live with? Because it sounds like as long as you are willing to put up with it, he is able to get by with it.
2007-11-20 15:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So are you just trying to say that you are the mistress? Or does his baby's mama know you exist? If you are uncomfortable with where he lives, after 10 months I feel you have the right to say something.
2007-11-20 14:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Corona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
should quit letting him have his cake and eating it to as he aint leaving her girl ..... hes enjoying what he can while he can ...... go find yourself a boyfriend that you might actually get to spend time with instead of sending him back home to where he should be
2007-11-20 14:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care about you. He just wants a little nookie on the side.
Dump him and find a good man.
2007-11-20 14:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by gail s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you claim him as a boyfriend though?
2016-06-07 12:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Miss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋