"Unrequited Love" he tells me because I won't "perform on command"...?

Question

I'm in a new relationship (both he & I are in our late 30's). All he want is sex, Sounds great eh? Well, actually no - because I feel that I must "perform" "on-demand" The other night, despite me saying no from the very beginning - he became persistent - & eventually leaves saying "it's my god given right to have you when I want you" - which is the whole time - he doesn't see the point of the sensual stimulating play before hand - none of that - because he just thinks with his overly intelligent brain - he lacks all emotional skills in every aspect.. Now he's saying that my lack of wanting him is simply that "his love is unrequited" . I apologies if this is too "detailed" for the forum - and if so, please remove it asap- I just really needed to "talk" especialy to non-interested friends etc - so any feedback would be great - positive & negative - Guys & Girls - your thoughts, reactions, personal beliefs whatever - would be really really appreciated. Huge Thanks to All

Answer 1

I would have said this was insensitivity, until I read that his demand. You're not an item to be used. No matter how intelligent this person may seem, it makes no amends for his absence of emotion and understanding.

If you still want to be with this man, talk to him and demonstrate how you feel; I know I'd feel insignificant and belittled, and demand some changes. If it works out, good for you. If not, show him the door.

Answer 2

yeah its desirable..desirable to snicker while they bust there butt yet strippers dont tell me..they simply bust a circulate on me..=) yet i'm going to clap and scream in the event that they provoke me

Answer 3

Tell him to hit the road. You deserve better than this.