how can i tell him?

Question

my ex-best friend has added my boyfriend on myspace. and since hes a year older than me and hes in a different grade i dont get to see him a lot. ive told him about how she threw a tray at me, but i didnt say exactly which girl it was. she's in his top friends but at the bottom.and im at the top. i shouldnt be mad...but i am and i dont know why. AND should i tell him to delete/block her? how would i say that?

Answer 1

just tell him how you feel and see what he says.

Answer 2

yeah, she has no right throwing anything at you. and if shes adding your boyfriend she is probably trying to flirt with him and eventually she will try to get him to break up with you.
so if i were you i would tell him now.
just tell him that you and her aren't the best friends anymore and your afraid shes going to try to do something.
if he really liked you he would do that for you.
its worth a try. and obviously if shes at the bottom and your all the way at the top, he cares way more for you. so
do it now before she gets up there too.

i freak out about this kinda stuff too. so
its all good lol.

Answer 3

wow, this situation is tricky. but i honestly think that since he's your boyfriend, you should tell him about your history with this girl. he SHOULD understand, but then again, he's a guy. if I was you, i too would be mad, but you also have to look at the big picture and know that he like YOU and not HER and that he wasn't around in yalls past. No biggie!!! Just brush your shoulders off!!! Happy Thanksgiving?!?!? (don't stress)

Answer 4

If you tell him to delete or block her, you're going to sound like a control freak. Just tell him how you feel, that you don't like her and why, and then ask him if he could keep his distance. If he wants to be friends with her, that's his choice. But I understand where you're coming from.

Answer 5

don't risk it. telling him that you want him to automatically delete her just because you don't like her may sound, demanding, controlling or like you don't trust him. sounds like anything that you are not. he doesn't know about her, so first just inform him what happened between you two and how you feel, i would just tell him how you feel about her then say, hey it bothers me a bit. don't tell him its totally OK, cuz really, for you its not. recently i had to do the exact same thing, i didn't tell her (my friend)to stop hanging out with her (my x-best friend) but i found that after i told my friend what the other girl had done to me she had no desire to hang out with her anymore, hopefully it'll work like that for you! tell me if this helped!.

Answer 6

Is it really that hard? Just say, hey, did you know that girl used to be a good friend of mine but then started being a jerk? Then see where it goes from there.

Answer 7

I guess you never got over it and your probbably worried your EX-friend might take him away by taking his attention just tell your boyfriend to delete her and no more problems 4 u

Answer 8

just explain ur feelings to him dont ask to delete cos he will probably tink that u r trying to get in between all of his other frends cos ur a raving jealous lunatic which ur not.
=3 good luck!

Answer 9

I think you should stop being petty/. It's myspace for Christ's sake.

Answer 10

no, too much drama, she is your EX best friend, let it go, it's not worth it, just relax, if he's a good guy, he will let you know if something weird happens

Answer 11

its just myspace...if ur going to worry about a myspace placing you are a scrub...forget it...ur with him and thats it.